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anonymous
writes:HiMy job with the company I work for involves looking after overseas clients. They general spend 4-5 days here then go home. Most are married men in their late 40-50s and like to have female company when we go to dinner. So I generally hire a lady for them and some spend the night with them. On occasions my wife will come with me and knows what goes on. A few weeks ago the lady I hired didn’t turn up so my wife acted as the lady over dinner and flirted with the client, he was not aware who she was. Since then she has said that she would be willing to do the work and get paid for it. I must admit that it came as a shock but the idea is a bit of a turn on. I am interested in what both sexes think, as it could lead to her spending the night with these clients.[Added. "should i sell my wife"]
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): So you want your wife to be a glorified prostitute? Nice one. I've always found the 'hiring' of these women for flirting / extras for lonely bored businessmen to be a sad state of affairs but a man that is prepared to let his wife be one of them well good luck to you. Lets think how this might go then:
1) Your wife gets an STD - and you get it or worse you have to steer clear of her
2) Your wife gets emotionally involved with one guy who gives her the night of her life and is a wreck and wants to leave you
3) You can't live with another bloke being the greatest sex your wife has ever had and your sense of self worth is ruined
4) All the values and intimacy you had with your wife will be long gone - nothing will be sacred and there will be no boundaries
5) She may lose respect for you completely - thinking about a fantasy world is one thing but actually living it is quite another
If you and your wife have so much spare time on your hands to make other people happy for a few hours why don't you put your time to better use - there are plenty of people in society who need real help.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 In my old fashioned mind, she's telling you she'd like to have sex with someone else, and is asking you to approve it. This is something that only you can do. We can't help you with this.
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reader, confused in WVa  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Are you sure your wife is willing to sleep with these men, or just have flirty conversation over dinner? Do you love your wife? If she willing to sleep with them....does she love you? You need to discuss things with your wife and you both decide what is right or wrong for you both. If you are asking people if you should sell your wife...are you wanting permission from someone? Time for you and your wife to discuss the effects this would have on your marriage. Your wife sleeping with other men could end your marriage. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): It is a bit unorthodox but as long as both of you are happy with the arrangement I see no reason to avoid it.Be warned though, you might end up hurting your marriage for obvious reasons... if she sleeps with people other than you, you may get jealous, or she might like it "too much".It's a dangerous game, pushing sexual boundaries in a relationship. Be prepared for unexpected consequences.
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