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writes: Both me and my fiance are currently deployed overseas. What can I do to let him know that he feels loved and cared for?
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (7 November 2007):
When loved ones are far away it is important to bring a little piece of home to them as often as possible. You can try sending lots of letters, cards and pics of you and family members.Don't forget to use your favorite pefume on the letter and envelope.*Smiles *Make a nice video and voice tape of yourself. It doesn't have to be too intimate just something letting him have you in his eyesight and the sound of your loving voice.
Internet conversations and camming can be a wonderful asset also. Try getting in touch with the Post Command for thoughts about getting some phone calls through. Local Ham operators used to do this sort of thing. Check and see if it's possible that they still assist military families in the free service.
I am an ex military wife so I know how it feels to be away from you husband. Just keep those card and letters comming. Let him know you love him with everything you do. Don't stop giving and give abundtly. Best wishes and God bless you and your husband for your service to our country.
Goodspeed.
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reader, confused in WVa +, writes (6 November 2007):
My husband and I were separated due to his working over seas for several months, so I know what it is your asking. If you and your husband have internet, get yourselves a web cam and talk over the web. You will be able to see and hear eachother. Talking, e-mails and saying I love you and miss you doesn't sound like much, but the little things mean the most. It will bring you closer as well as get you through the being apart from one another. It is hard, but thank God for IM and the web cam. Hearing my husbands voice and seeing his face along with the talking was what held us together during our separation. Good luck.
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