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writes:My roommate will screw anything that isn't moving, which is why our cat never lies down. Right now he is juggling 4 girlfriends and yesterday a new girl showed up and he had sex with her too, only he said she wasn't a girlfriend. That makes 5 girls he is juggling right now. All of the girls in his harem are knockouts, but one girl in particular is cute and funny and smart and I really have a crush on her.First of all, the guy doesn't own a condom. He said he likes skin on skin sex, and that he's not wearing a scuba suit to f' his bitches. Not only that but he doesn't even bother to shower between girls.Last Sunday morning girlfriend #1 left for work (after spending the night f'ing - and they aren't quiet about it either) and 10 mintes later girlfriend #2 showed up for a roll. She left around noon and about 1/2 hour later girlfriend #3 (the moaner)showed up for a quickie. She left for work and girlfriend #4 the one I like showed up. We chatted for a while then they headed off to his bedroom to f'. Basically my room mate spent all day Sunday emptying his balls into different girls that showed up at his door.Don't get me wrong, I'm not jealous of him. It's just this one girl I really like, and I am tempted to tell her that he has a train of girls running through his bedroom. I am also tempted to tell her about his hygiene. I get angry at him, thinking about him f'ing the girl I like with a penis that was in 3 other vaginas right before hers. I bet if his girlfriends knew that he doesn't wash his penis between sex they would be pretty sickened by it. I mean it's a health issue too at this point!I am in a dilemma here. If I tell her, then she might get mad at me for not telling her sooner. And if I tell her, she will be upset, so I wouldn't be able to pursue anything with her for a while anyway. So, do I tell any or all of these girls what he is doing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): I'd suggest you get the hell out of there before you catch any diseases from this guy but it's pretty dumb to mess with one of his "toys". Even if she doesn't know about the other four (which i doubt), she still lets him screw her without a condom and this, my friend, is enough to tell you everything you need to know. She is smart, cute, funny but she's also a bio-dumpster.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): these girls cannot be so "dumb " not to realise that they are being used. maybe they actually enjoy being one of many??? some girls do not give a sh1t- they will also just f*ck anything.
as for the sex machine- i shudder to think of potential sti's. aids?
as for you rat the sh1t out and then move premises. you may have a crush on one of his many women but why setle for someone he has had already. do yourself a favour and find a girl that he did not have. you would not want stories floating around that you are taking his left overs. And when you find the special girl, just keep her away from him!
good luck.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (14 October 2009):
 What in hell did my generation (during the 60s) spawn? Yes, we promoted the ideals of love sexual freedom, but it had really some degree of meaning. At least I cared about and benefitted the girls in useful ways, such as purchasing needed furniture or whatever. Ummm . . . that sounds too utilitarian, but back then, we just shared assets immodestly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): Any girl that just comes over for a screw and then leaves is not thinking about how many other women he is screwing, however, I seriously doubt they think they are an assembly line and his hygiene is that bad....maybe they think the smell is just his sweaty balls, either way it is gross.
I don't care if you rat him out or not. He has what ever is coming to him....I hate hearing people act like dogs, I know they do but it disgusts me none the less.
It is totally moronic no matter what the age or the excuse, it is a drug of choice. Sex addiction is the label for it.
The guy is mental.
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reader, Delboy69  +, writes (14 October 2009):
Ok - with mates like you who need enemies !
Seriously - stop wasting your time on websites and get out there and f**k some girls.
Safe sex is a 2 way thing - it's not just a guy's responsibility and that really annoys me about women.
When you leave uni (college whatever) you'll realise that this is the most sexually active period of your life so go for - be safe and have fun. By all means advise your friend but it's his life so don't be an arse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): Why some of the men are so disgusting,q1605??
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): I really appreciate the feedback. It seems like the guys and girls are split on this one. I think I am going to confront him on the health issue first and then maybe I will break into what he is doing with these girls. I'm not sure about an ultimatum though, Destiny. I won't let on, but I'll find out which girls (if any) he may actually like. I know what you mean Q about the code of silence.Yeah, you're right Pink. I don't think they know. None of them have ever tried to get any dirt out of me. The girls wear perfume and body spray, but so does my roommate. He's got some concoction of different sprays he uses in his room. It smells like a combination of an armpit and a freakin' scented candle store in there. I don't go in there for fear of the smell sticking to me, like that Seinfeld episode with the valet parking attendant. I think the only way they'd find out, would be if they bumped into each other on the street.I know Eyeswideopen, I've thought the same thing. Pretty stupid. Most of his harem don't give me the time of day. They are stuck up model types. So I don't get any info on what protection they may be using. In this day and age I cannot imagine all of these girls go along with him going commando in the condom department. I think he's just playing that end.But just in case Pink and "anonymous", I've gotten to the point of boiling my glasses, plates and silverware for fear of contracting some disease from him. I'll try to let you know how this thing plays out. Thanks!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (13 October 2009):
Unless they have sex with him every single day--they are probably not going to assume anything or will even be in denial. No woman wants to think that before she came over he was screwing someone else, I think most women want to assume that he isn't screwing anyone else; even if it is a possibility, if they aren't seriously dating then they wouldn't ask him as they feel it isn't their business. They may have an idea that maybe they're not the only one, but they certainly wouldn't think they were the 4th one for the day!
If any of these girls did actually know he was having them all come over 30 minutes apart--then seriously dude, I don't know what you would want to do with a nasty chick like that. I know I wouldn't be okay with it (even if the guy was just a fling) and nobody I know would be okay with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): I agree that if this girl liked you then she wouldn't be screwing your roomate in the first place.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 October 2009):
 Don't any of these females use perfume or body lotion? Oh yeah, you can bet they know. And since he doesn't wear a glove they also are incredibly stupid. This one girl you like may be cute and funny but I sure don't think she is so smart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): Why are you assuming the women are so innocent? Maybe they are the ones crawling with diseases and your roommate will get what comes around to him.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (13 October 2009):
Yeah, I also forgot to mention diseases like anonymous mentioned. It's seriously sick, I also was disturbed reading your question. If your roommate doesn't have something already--he will.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (13 October 2009):
I disagree. Girls don't always know what a guy is up to...she doesn't know that he screwed 3 chicks before her that same day without a condom and without a shower (seriously disgusting)! Just because a girl is having a fling with a guy does not automatically mean she's having flings all over the place with other guys. If women continually sleep with a guy, more than likely feelings have developed for him. And any girl that wouldn't care that he was doing that earlier in the day...I wouldn't believe there would be one that wouldn't care actually.
I think that before you say anything to any of the girls that maybe you should talk to your roommate first. Do you think that if you told any of the girls that it would make some tension between you guys? Maybe you can ask him if he actually likes any of the girls? I'm not sure how guys work in dealing with eachother. But I would get a little bit of an idea about how he would react before you would say anything to the girl. Girls come and go...as you know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): Tell you the truth it was disturbing to read. Is your friend imbecil? Doesn't he know that almost 30 years ago epidemic started, it calls AIDS.
Prostitutes, and drug users are in the highest group risk. Your friend has sex like a sex worker, i won't be surprised if he gets tested, they'll find something.
It's extremely irresponsible behavior, everything else is
really irrelevant: his nock-out girlfriends, his incredible sex drive, who cares if he is sick and infected all these girls.
I've seen people dying from AIDS, and then said to myself, if I ever get to this stage, I wouldn't want to go on.
The level of suffering they go through, skin and bones, they loose their mind, as this decease affects memory.
Deffinitely tell ALL of these girls about it. He acts like an animal, they need to know bcause they are in danger.
I can't believe people still act this way after all these years of propaganda about HIV and AIDS, after seeing chronicles on TV about AIDS patients.
Get your friend statistics about how many people infected inUSA, number is growing every year because of people like your friend. Good luck.
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (13 October 2009):
 If she would like you, she wouldn't be messing around with your roommate.
I'm quite sure those who go there for a fling do that with other men as well.
I had this roommate who was doing the same thing than yours, he was coming at my door to show them to me. I wanted to tell those girls what he was doing but I knew they already knew about it and just wanted a fling.
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (13 October 2009):
 It sounds like youre trying to be a good guy so props to you for that! All of these girls need to know what hes doing but if you tell you should be prepared to lose a room mate! You shouldnt debate telling them by whether youd have a chance with that girl or not you should debate it on whether its the right thing to do or not! You should talk to him and tell him if he doesnt tell you will! Ya he will probably get mad at you but at least you gave him a choice! If you did it behind his back you would look like a two faced chicken snitch! Which really that guy sounds like he has no morals so maybe you should tell and then find a different room mate! Good luck!
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