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writes:Teacher at my school knows i like him now but dosen't really care and i knew he would find out sooner or later , but i feel very humilated and incredibly stupid , i hope he understands that i don't mean to fall for him it was just a faint little crush but then it turned into something more and i hate the fact that i like him i feel disgusting and horrible and really selfish i dont know how to cope with this i need help what do i should i tell him i'm sorry ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010): That's weird. I had a crush on a teacher in high school, but I never felt like I should apologize to him. He found out and dealt with it professionally and offered that we stayed friends. We were very close. I was EXTREMELY in love with him and it was one of the hardest thing I had to go through in my life.
We eventually lost touch and I have a new bf and I'm completely over the teacher.
It's gonna be alright. In a few years, it won't be a big deal anymore. It's not your fault you fell for a wonderful man. Your happy ending probably won't be with the teacher, but you will also have a great (probably even better) alternative happy ending. That's what happened to me. Even though it honestly didn't feel like that at the time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): Look it's only natural to have a school girl crush. DON'T LET IT GET OUT OF HAND THOUGH. Concentrate on You studies. That is important. Talk to Your Parent's, Tell them how You feel. Or talk to some one else. An Adult You trust like an aunt or someone. This will pass and You will laugh about it in future.
And You will forget about it. It is only a part of growing up. It will pass. Most crushes do. Most importantly concentrate on Your studies.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 Teachers are trained on how to deal with school girl crushes. They almost all have experienced these over and over again. I'm sure you aren't his first and you won't be his last. I see no need for you to apologise. Just pay attention in class, stay busy with all the school activities and clubs, and sooner or later the crush will fade away. School girl crushes are as common as pimples.
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reader, Ven +, writes (20 October 2010):
Hey cut yourself some slack, it happens from time to time.
You can tell him you are sorry if you feel like you need to, it won't be hurting him to do so.
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