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writes:My husband of twelve years recently added his ex fiance on Facebook. She apparently contacted him thru his sisters Facebook. They broke up 18 years ago because she cheated on him. Now she has come back and has attended family gatherings (I was away on Army duty) and is sending text messages that are inappropriate. I found out by accident one day when he left his Facebook on and there were e-mails in his inbox from her. Some were "Im sorry" messages for coming on so strong and said things along the lines of "I dont want to loose you again after finding you after so long" And signs all these messages "loves Dor" She also "liked" a page on Facebook titled " You dont just STOP loving someone, either you never did or you always will" She has informed him that she wants to spend more time with him and will be at his mothers (my mother in laws) every Tuesday and wants him to come. And that this first Tuesday she will be bringing all of the pictures of them when they were together because "they were sooo cute together" I feel very threatened by this woman. I think its very clear that she still has feelings for my husband and I dont know what to do. I also think its very very wrong of his family to be including her into family gatherings, especailly when Im not even there! Please help, I dont know what to do!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (18 October 2010):
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (18 October 2010):
 I'm really pissed at your husband and his family in all this. Especially since you are busy serving our country. This is totally unacceptable behavior on everyone's part. Tell him to knock this nonsense off immediately and when you get a chance tell his mother she disrespecting your marriage and hopefully she'll back off as well. Best of luck and thank you for your service.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (18 October 2010):
Being married you can't tell your husband you're not comfortable with her contacting him and vice versa..he needs to block her from his Facebook and his life. She doesn't need to be popping in at his mother's house reminiscing on what once was. Put your foot down and tell your husband she needs to stay in the past where she belongs.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 October 2010):
Of course you're threatened! You have every right to be threatened! Your husband is allowing this behaviour! Tell him what you've found, tell him how you feel, insist on him breaking contact. You have every right to make a huge fuss over a woman who is blatantly trying to get your husband back.
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