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writes:I am 13 years old and i don't know how to tell if my boyfriend is ready for me to snog him. I don't want to ask but when he kisses me i feel his lips press harder against mine and he opens his mouth slightly, but then he pulls away before I can react. I cant tell whether that's just how he kisses or if hes ready! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): tanks guys (hes 13 like me!) youve been a great help, and gues what... we did it! he as waiting to see if i a ready but he said he was nervous as well. thanks again x
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reader, Jackalus +, writes (18 February 2011):
Go for it all that can happen is he says no then u have an answer and need to start persuading him
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 Yeah you could try that but I recommend just asking his Mom. Moms know everything.
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reader, Jackalus +, writes (18 February 2011):
I am a 14 year old boy living in the uk so probs quite similar to your bf if he is anything like me or any of my mates he is worrying about if you are ready for it I say next time ur alone together hold him close to you and just go for it stand there and feel the love hope this helps:)
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 February 2011):
 Next time, grab his head so he can't pull away. See how that goes.
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (18 February 2011):
 It will happen naturaly! dont worry, your 13, it will happen in the next month, maybe you should do what he does before he does and he might feel more comfy? :)
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reader, Jackalus +, writes (18 February 2011):
As a 14 year old boy myself I will answer as fully as possible I dont know his age obv so I will cover what u should do if he is 12,13,14 and 15
1. If he is 12 years you are the more mature one and need to be making decisions like that you need to tell him you are ready to start getting off with him. All in all you need to make the first step.
2. If he is 13 you need to see how he feels when you go in to just kiss him then when you are very close just wisper in his ear and say 'I'm ready for you to kiss me properly now' and just keep kissing him.
3. If he is 14 and anything like me he will be very enthusiastic towards getting off with you, so if he is that age you have nohing to worry about. In fact he might be worried about getting off with you because he might not want to put pressure on you. If he is 14 ask him.
4. If he is 15 he will probably have got off with girls before and wants to know if you are ready.
If none of his helps just tell him you are ok with him doing it, then he can make the first move and you just enjoy.
Hope that helped and good luck :)
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