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writes:My boyfriend is 13 and he still wears briefs. Does it really matter? He wears ones like these:http://direct.asda.com/george/kid-s-clothing/older-boys/underwear/5-pack-camo-briefs/GEM61476,default,pd.html Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2011): no difference. Because me and my boyfriend is the same age as you and he wears pants/slips/briefs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): It does not matter. My 14 year old son wears pants/slips/briefs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): Darling, you're 13 and should not know what kind of briefs he wears. No it does not matter.
Please ignore the media and silly things you see out there on tv and online. He is a boy and you should not be putting pressure on each other to do anything other than hold hands and have a nice time being young and sweet okay! :)
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (4 March 2011):
 Wearing camo jocks right now... and you know what?
They're probably older than you.
Judge away.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (4 March 2011):
 A lot of guys wear those.
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reader, Mark_25_  +, writes (4 March 2011):
 You really have left yourself open to a lot of criticism here. First, agreeing with everyone else, 13 is way too young if your being intimate. I'm hoping it's just a case of seeing them in his drawer or something. Secondly, if anything your the immature one for actually questioning what he's wearing, it's normal. And thirdly, why are you so hung up on being mature?! You should just enjoy being the age you are, because believe me, it goes quickly!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (4 March 2011):
 I worked at a men's underwear store for many years - just like women have choices: boyshorts, thong, bikini, French cut - guys have choices too: boxers, briefs, or boxerbriefs (they aren't very good at original names)... also, jocks and trunks. It is perfectly normal to pick any of them.
I'm not even going to ask why you're looking at his underwear. But, I will say that his underwear isn't an immature choice in the least.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 March 2011):
 I checked out the link you gave us and now I have a big question for you, If he's wearing camouflage briefs...how can you see them?
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reader, shadae.middleton +, writes (4 March 2011):
OKay, hun, you are a 13 year old kid. same with him. It is normal for him to wear these. I understand you are wanting to grow up and boyfriends seem so exciting, but take it slow if you are being intimate. seriously, you have all the time in the world. Briefs are his choice, and they shouldn't matter... he's too young to be told what is underwear he should be wearing.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (4 March 2011):
 Is this a 'pants on the ground' issue, as in his undies are showing or something? I hope you aren't making fun of him.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (4 March 2011):
 Im with eyeswideopen on this one, how do you even know what underwear your boyfriend uses? You are both 13, at the age where it's not appropriate to take baths together any longer, and still inappropriate to be intimate together. What underwear he wears is none of your business either way. So why should it matter? If you dislike it, even though you shouldn't be looking in the first place, you can buy him some new underwear and see if he will use it. But if he doesn't.. well it's all up to him to decide what he wants to wear.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 March 2011):
How on earth do you know what kind of underwear your 13 year old "boyfriend" wears? PM me your mother's phone number, Missy. She needs a phone call.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 March 2011):
 At least he is WEARING undies...What is the problem?
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (4 March 2011):
 Um...your point being?
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (4 March 2011):
 So what?
There are SO many different types of underwear on the market. I mean look at womens undies, briefs, pants, g-strings, hipsters, boy shorts, high leg, brazilian, thongs.
Not all men wear boxers.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 March 2011):
 No it shouldnt matter. Nobody should be judged ever for what they wear. As long as you like him as a person what he wears shouldnt be a concern.
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