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writes:Having met a much younger man who I have no doubt is a JAck The Lad and am well aware BUT he looked at me several times in a fancying way. He e mailed me to say he has a short summer contract in the same area as where I live (a few miles away). My friend says if he didnt like me he could have turned it down and not taken it and he wouldnt have told me he is there!!WE e mail quite often as friends and have met for a lunch in a big city (nothing else) anyway I have text him and invited him over for a meal when he is free to my flat-and yes I do hope something happens I know it wouldnt be a lasting relationship just a fling/fun and no qualms o that- I hope I have not done the wrong thing. I hope he will come and if he does apart from a nice meal how do I entertain him YES I know that sounds daft and I hope it would get round to THAT entertainment but in the interim period- soft music, tv, just conversation or what-I dont want to jump on him in case he isnt interested in me in that way but then I dont want to frighten him either way.Help please- was it ok to ask him to come round and do you think he may be interested? I am a lot older BUT I have also seen the way he looks at me and he didnt mind meeting me for lunch three times!!!! He didnt have to take the contract either in the same area???
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (21 June 2012):
 Agreed. As long as you can't be arrested for statutory rape, what have you got to lose?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 June 2012):
 well then go for it if he's over the legal age...
and the worst thing he can do is say NO...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThere is a huge age difference BUT I do know the score and I am happy just for a fling and realise there is no future but I am happy to go for the moment BUT is this what he wants????
I am just scared that he doesnt want that just someone to talk to etc!!!!! Putting it bluntly No I am not an old slapper but I do fancy him and am happy to have a fling!!!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 June 2012):
How old are you? How old is he? His age will have a lot of bearing on how I reply further.
I need way more info before I can reply. My fiancé is 13 years younger than me… but he’s 39…
If I was 39 and he was 26 it would not have worked…
and be aware that he may have taken the job because it was a good thing for him NOT because it puts him closer to you.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (21 June 2012):
Just curious, what kind of age difference are we talking about here?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2012): It sounds like lust only.
Don't be desperate, and don't settle for less than what you deserve.
You're hoping something will happen, and you know him being around is only short term, so if a short summer fling is all you're after, carry on.
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