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My husband belittles me

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Question - (26 June 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2012)
A female United States age 36-40, *razylady writes:

Ok so I think my husband is belittleing me but I also think he just gets mad ezly as well...I'm not 100% sure but heres an example

So my husbands mother wanted to have a small bbq with her fam (my fam now) over our house..so we did n I invited my rents ad well.Anywhos morning of I woke up late at 11:30 mean while ppl were gunna be here around 1pm..next thing I no the covers get pulled off and the blinds n lights open n I wake up to my hubby yelling at me, saying I'm disrespectful, I'm lazy, I'm a child, immature..ect because I woke up late n I'm not helping him n hid mom get the food / place ready . Anywhos he storms off n I go ask his mom if she needs help so I started to cook some rice...my hubby came back in yelling again cuz I wasint doing anything..yet o was just researching a goof recipe..I stayed shut..then I bought some liquor made drinks, did a fruit platter ect..ur didn't even appticate that I did it all

I get that'd it'd my fault for waking up late n that's irradponsible but why couldint be just wake me up! Everyone knows I can sleep till 3 pm if I'm not bothered..so I told him I was made at the way be apptoched it n be could handle it better but be thinks be did nothing wrong..I also appolagized for not waking up on time..but he didn't care what I had to say

Also I cook dinner about 2 to 3xs a week ( not my fab thing to do but I make sure I make enough for left overs the next day).. n we have date night on the weekend..n his mother goes I'm our basement m cooks.for us like 1x a week! I Dnt cook breakfast cuz he leaves around 5am...sometimes I do on Sundays but not offten and he always says I never cook or do anything n its annoying! I usully get home around 8 pm while he gets home at 5 n he wants dinner ASAP! So I try to do crock pot usuly..but he keeps throwing it in my face

FYI my hubbys very good to me n always says how lucky he is blah blah. But then he has a total other side..if Diner takes to long it is cold he flips n says I'm starving him

Help!

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A female reader, mavuyi South Africa +, writes (26 June 2012):

mavuyi agony aunt@eyeswideopen u just made my day...rotflmbao.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 June 2012):

eyeswideopen agony auntIf I were you, I'd stop using my crock pot if my husband kept throwing it in my face. And I wouldn't let my mother-in-law cook in my basement, tell her to use the kitchen like a normal person. By the way, do you have a spell checker on your computer?

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (26 June 2012):

chigirl agony auntCan't he make his own dinner? This sounds very annoying, I'd tell him to cook his own food, there's the fridge, he's got hands. If he's hungry he's free to MAKE some food himself. He's not a child.

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