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writes:Well as an Asian i have got a very important question to all the white girls and I am pretty sure other Asian men need the answer.So here's my question do white women like Asian men?and if the answer is yes please let me know the things that make an Asian man special.I am half Egyptian and Burmese so don't freak out when you see the Egyptian flag near anonymous :D.Anyway I know Asian man won't be bad husbands and I see that they are always close to their families when i traveled to Burma a cousin is like a bother or sister and uncle is like a father.I am pretty sure white women who had an experience with Asian men can answer this question so they can tell me what makes them different than white or black men not just the skin color and eyes but What are different in their personality?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry for the late reply people.I agree with all of you but when i said what makes an Asian special i meant what makes him different in the inside nothing more :) thank you all.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (27 June 2012):
 I'm race-neutral myself, but your question is rather too generic. (Oh all right, I have a bit of a thing for black men, but it's not because I like others any less).
Some white women do like Asian men, of course, and some don't. Intelligent women would be more concerned with what you are than your ethnicity.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (27 June 2012):
 Your question: Do white women like Asian men? Well I certainly do. I married one. But like any attraction, it's as individual as the woman who's drawn to an Asian man. Some women are turned on by blond haired men. Some women are attracted to African American men. So there is no one blanket answer to your question. I think Asian men are extremely sexy and exotic. Not all women share this opinion but I can tell you, having dated hispanic men and hite men I think Asian men are the most sexy. Asians have beautiful golden skin. Their language fascinates me. Their culture fascinates me. My husband has that whole Asian Zen thing going on, where things have to line up visually. Things have to be organized and neat. He is extremely tuned into the type of energy people possess; objects and enviornments are crucial to his well being. I love that about Asian men. Most Asians are extremely smart and many have a great sense of humor. I am not familiar with all Asian men, and alot of people forget how vast the culture extends. It's not just people from China or Japan but it includes the Philipines, Thailand, Korea, India and that whole middle eastern culture. Asian men can be intense from my experience. They are often very rigid and controlling about certain things. My husband has two distinct sides of his personality. He can be incredibly fun and entertaining but he can also be very hot-headed and demanding at times. His words are very blunt and often hurtful. But I wouldn't trade him for anyone else. So it's really whatever attracts a woman that may or may not draw them to the Asian culture. I hope that helps you out.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (27 June 2012):
 I have only dated Asian men for the last 12 years, the last 10 with my fiance only. They were all Japanese. I am a small blonde with blue eyes. For me, I have always been fascinated with men, especially Asian men. I am very much drawn to their looks, but after dating them, I realized that to me they are different. All of them were very reserved. They do not show much emotion under normal circumstances.They are affectionate and caring, but not in public. They treat their ladies VERY well and are always polite, even when angry. None of them would ever allow me to pay for anything when we dated, I practically had to start a fight to try to pay for anything! I am fascinated by their voices/accents. They are very intelligent and my fiance happens to have a crazy silly sense of humor like me, so we have alot of laughs together. He's brilliant with a phd, but he's just another person when he's not working. I love it that he's not snobby. To look at him you would never know by his looks or actions that he's a brilliant cardiologist researcher. He's very down to earth. I am never bored with him. I don't want someone with the same background as me, I like that we grew up differently. It makes things always interesting.
Of course there are caucasian women that find Asian men attractive, but you really don't see an Asian man with a white women. Its almost always the Asian girl with the white guy. I don't know why, I can't answer this. I am rare according to my family and friends because I like Asian men. But remember everyone has their own likes and dislikes. I just happen to like Japanese men.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (26 June 2012):
 "Asian man " is a really too wide and generic definition. ( Even without considering the individual differences among them. An Asian can have a certain personality, and another , an all different personality ). An Indian is Asian. So is a Chinese, or a Japanese. Three different cultures with different religions, traditions, social structures, politics, ideas about money, sex, family etc.
Just as a side note, not ALL Asian men make such marvellous husbands :) I've got two friends ( one Italian, one Brazilian ) who both married Asian men, both found it a terrible experience, both divorced , and both are still bitter and furious about what they had to go through with these men, years and years later.
Not that this means particularly anything, being the case of two Asian guys among a few billions of them. Just for the record :).
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (26 June 2012):
I have never dated an Asian man but I reckon people tend to think that Asian men prefer dating women of their own race. this is because arranged marriages are common and also in a lot of Asian cultures the men do seek their parents approval when choosing a woman, which is normal but they do it more than other cultures. also there may be the stereotype (true ot not) that Asian men see white women as being ''only for a good time'' and not as serious marriage partners. I am sorry if this is not helpful information but from what I can see it may be one reason why you do not see Asian men dating white women as often as other races dating white women. hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2012): i would date an asian man, as long as he speaks good enough english to communicate, because that matters a lot in a relationship, and of course if i didnt have a boyfriend already :)
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 June 2012):
 Can this Asian man cook?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2012): It depends where you live and who you were bought up around. In a multi-cultural society you tend to be exposed to several different races and cultures and you have an appreciation for the beauty and cultures that they bring.I personally tend to be attracted to races other than mine and am aware that it is not always the case that men of other races are not attracted to me, but they may be attracted to my personality and then find become interested. Unfortunately stereotypes pay a big part in other races considering me as dating potential, and it is only when they get to know me they change their first impressions. Some people who state they only date a specific race, tend to want to date the stereotype and not the person.I find that sometimes because of my race other races either acknowledge initially but choose not to make the effort to pursue further as they assume that I only date within my own race, but when I am with a friend who is of the same race to them I then become more approachable. Everyone is different but this is generally my experience as an ethnic minority living in a multiculral society.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 June 2012):
 some white women I'm sure like Asian men just like some White men like Asian women... but not all...
I do not think you can classify an entire race of people with the same personality.
culture is one thing that defines us
religion is another... are all Asians from the same culture and same religion?
do they all have the same upbringing?
NO?
right... everyone is different... what attracts you to someone initially is what you are asking and that's different for everyone.
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