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reader, notconfused  +, writes (20 July 2012):
notconfused is verified as being by the original poster of the question Outstanding response, Abella on the 50year old Momma's boy! You are one smart cookie. Thanks!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2012): 1. My very close friends husband sleeps with his mother when he fights with her. He's 40, his mother is 64. Needless to say I find it disgusting. However he is absolutely "close" with his mum but he doesn't see this as a problem.
2. OP: what is a young 20 something like you doing with this old geezer?
3. Does he sleep with his mother while you are at his home or did you just uncover this?
4. Norman Bates: you gals! What next? I love it!
5. Perhaps he has nightmares and his mother tries to comfort him? Perhaps the big mean boogey men are hiding in the closet and this big 50 year odd oaf is afraid of the dark.
Endless possibilities
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (19 July 2012):
Question: why are you with someone who could be your father age wise but behaves like a 6 year-old child?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 July 2012):
 AGGGHHH CINDY that was MY thought as well...
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 July 2012):
 Ha ha Cindy!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 July 2012):
 What's your boyfriend 's name ? Norman Bates ?...
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reader, Abella +, writes (19 July 2012):
 just the thought of his Mom allowing such innappropriate behaviour which may have gone on for years means that this guy has possible (un-resolved) issues that may have scarred him.
Do not allow yourself to be drawn into this web.
Look up 'michelle elliott + abuse' on the internet and then have a long think about whether you need to stay if this has been going on for some time.
At the very least his Mom may see you as an emotional threat to her emotional hold over her son.
You deserve a relationship with less potential for distressing complications that you could encounter in the future, with this relationship.
And I agree with previous posters. Something is (potentially) not right with this situation.
Please take care.
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (18 July 2012):
 Hi
How did you find out, did he just drop it into the conversation? Awkward however you found out really.
Run, fast as you can
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2012): I find it extremely creepy even if nothing is happening
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2012): I find it odd and creepy. It doesn't necessarily mean that something is going on, but I do find it extremely weird. I would run from a guy who did that honestly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2012): if my boyfriend did this he would soon be my ex something not right here im afraid
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reader, couchcat +, writes (17 July 2012):
he wouldnt be my boyfriend once i found that out, that is wrong! RUN
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reader, uroboros +, writes (17 July 2012):
that is weird, he's a grown man. you should ask him why he does that.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 July 2012):
I find it creepy too...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 July 2012):
 Well, I find it odd that he sleeps with his Mom. But it could be totally harmless.
I would just ask him.
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