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writes:i'm married and i'm not in love with my husbandi have know feelings for him anymore, when he touch me i don't feel anything...i don't want to be married anymore...how do i tell him that i want how of this marriage without being so blunt Reply to this Question
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reader, meccycat +, writes (17 July 2012):
meccycat is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone for the advise, it will be very helpful with my discussion
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 July 2012):
 So it's kinda obvious that you never truly forgave him (NOT that there is anything wrong with that, you WANTED to forgive him, but you didn't really. It happens)
I would ask for a trial separation. I see no reason why you should stay, it's not fair on you or him.
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reader, meccycat +, writes (17 July 2012):
meccycat is verified as being by the original poster of the questionme and my husband had a fight one time back in October 2008...every since then i can't my feelings has change and i told him that i didn't feel the same anymore..as time went by..i told him that i would forgive him but i wouldn't forget it..he is a good man but i'm just not feeling him anymore...the thrill is gone..i can't stand him to touch me in a sexual way, i really can't stand to be around him, but i just put up with him..this is a bad situation to be in..
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 July 2012):
 Why not separate for awhile and see how you feel? You may feel differently after you have some time alone to think.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (17 July 2012):
 Think of telling him as just the same as having to remove a bandage from a sensitive/tender location. Probably the best way to do so is to get hold of the edge (of the bandage) and rip it off swiftly. There will be a sharp pain for a moment, but it will subside quickly.....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 July 2012):
 you are going to have to be blunt if you want out... especially if he has not been given any hints or clues that you want out....
are you sure there is no hope?
what about counseling?
are there things that are going on that make you feel this way that you are not telling us? (drug or alcohol abuse, verbal emotional, sexual or physical abuse?)
are there kids???
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