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My head is going in circles, is my wife cheating?

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Question - (25 June 2012) 7 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2012)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

hi im 54 and my wife is to , this is killing me we have sex once a week now and for some reason she wont let me suck on her nipples like i use to never real got that rough where it leave scab on the base of her breast where the nipple start to stick out i have not suck on then for a week and she has scabs and they feel rough on the right nipple but not the left i can tell by my tounge she avoids me sucking on them she will let me suck on the right one but the one with ascab on it she trys to avoid me even licking on the only way that i know this could happen is by sucking on the nipple or scraping it with your teeth lightly i know she like it but avoid me even licking on ,my question is is someone one else pleasing her i know when she on top and i suck on them she climaxes more then 10 times aleast how do i know if another is sucking mny my wife nipples this is got my head going in circles i need to know please tell me something. thx!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2012):

hi ladies thank you for the replys now i have to say that i still thinks she cheating as i know when i suck on her nipples and rum my teeth lightly in about two days she get a scab we had sex last night always good but her right nipple has a scab on the tip or end of it, last time the left nipple was scabed around the base of her nipple yes i have asked her she flips out and goes off big time also she has bruses inside her legs and on her knees when this comes up! damm i love her to death but cant stand to think she having sex on the side so i guess i will be screw up for along time over this. she crys and get very defense when this happens, i know what they feel like when i been nibbling on them and the burses just confers it. thx again ladies!!

p.s how can i ask her if she cheating or what the hell should i do!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2012):

She may have a poor fitting bra which is causing the nipple to chafe against the fabric as she goes about her daily activities.

Please calm down. You are looking into this too much. If someone is cheating, there are 'signs' plural...love bites, scratches, not just one chaffed nipple.

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A male reader, Serpico United States +, writes (25 June 2012):

This is a much better problem solved with a simple question rather than thoughts of infidelity, at least right now.

Why dont you do something crazy like just ask her?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (25 June 2012):

Honeypie agony auntI would simply ask her.

Not to scare you my mom developed a type of skin cancer that left her with patches of raw skin :(

Maybe she thinks you find it gross or she is too scared to go see her doctor?

Sucking and scraping should not leave her with scabs. AT ALL.

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A female reader, ImmortalPrincess United States +, writes (25 June 2012):

ImmortalPrincess agony auntMy husband is rough, he bites and nibbles, I like it that way (I know, TMI) but the point is, I have never gotten any scabs, just soreness the next day. Tisha is right, there could be something medical going on. Your wife needs to see a doctor

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (25 June 2012):

Tisha-1 agony auntShe may have an infection or a skin condition that needs medical attention. i think redness or scaliness of the nipple or breast can also be an indicator of breast cancer.

Stop worrying about cheating and start worrying about her health. Get her to her doctor right away. After she's checked out, THEN you can start worrying about cheating, if it transpires that there's no medical explanation for that scabby area.

Good luck.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (25 June 2012):

eyeswideopen agony auntMy husband asks me if he notices a bruise, cut, or whatever on my body. Why can't you ask her how she hurt her nipple?

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