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writes: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 yrs. Really started off strange but we're still together or should I say I am still together. Newest problem comes in, I pay his cell phone bill because one, it's in my name. But I recently found out that he calls other girls on a regular basis. One girl I approached him about because of a text message and I got cursed out. The break was he recently told me that I was not his girlfriend. Who am I and what do I do now?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (1 January 2006):
 Yep he's Freddie the Freeloader all right. Drop him like a hot potato chickie. You've wasted too much time on the creap already. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2005): wake up and smell the coffee!!! you'e allowing yourself to be used! drop him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2005): this problem is easy to solve: 1-disconnect the cell phone or put it in his name so that he has to pay his own damn bills.
2- um...LEAVE HIM! you haven't said anything nice about your boyfriend in the entire post, and even said it is amazing that you are still together.
i agree with StarNews that he sounds like a freeloader. you are allowing yourslef to be walked all over by this guy. realize that you are better than that and go get yourself a man who respects you as you deserve to be respected!
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reader, StarNews +, writes (30 December 2005):
 If the relationship started off strange, that is not a good start. I would cancel his cell phone service, besides, that is something he should be paying on his own! Then I would dump the guy. You deserve better. He is lucky you stayed with him for 5 yrs, sounds like a free loader to me.
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