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How do I find out for certain that he likes me?

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Question - (20 December 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2005)
A , *ngel-lee writes:

Hello, its me again, thank you all for your time in answering my questions by the way, it means alot.

I know that i keep on about this but its really bugging me. I love flirting with him and when he looks at me i get butterflies in my stomach and i havent felt like this for ages. I have just thought of something else that may be called "flirting". When we were out on Saturday night, he got some cigarette ash on my top (my boob) and he rubbed it off. I know this sounds stupid but why would he touch my boob if he didnt like me? i am probably going to see him tonight because me and some mates are going to our local pub after work and he will probably be there, i am getting so nervous and excited at the same time. I am at the point now, where when he walks in the room, i feel so good and im so pleased to see him (although i dont make it obvious). The thing is, well i know that he was flirting with me but do you think that he has been thinking about it atall, i mean, he was the one who started it so surely he must be thinking of me a little bit. We really enjoy eachothers company, we look at eachother all the time, he touches me now and then, he does everything that would make me think that he likes me, so why cant i bring myself to realise that he likes me? i want to know that he likes me before i make the next move, i am not the quiet type and i dont usually worry about this sort of thing, im a very forward girl but im worried that i will make a fool of myself if i ask him. In some ways, i dont want to ask him because i dont want to ruin the fun of this but i also want him to make it more obvious to ME. I have done the chasing before and i hated it. Am i being to pushy, i mean, he WAS the one who started tickling my feet first and he is usually the one who looks at me first. I spose i need a sure fire sign that he likes me and i dont really want to wait any longer, its doing my head in. The way i feel at the moment, i just want to jump on him and snog his brains out LOL! he has got that special something that draws me to him, if looks could kill!

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A female reader, Virginiaac +, writes (21 December 2005):

Hey, snog him to death. Enjoy it. Make the next move. If you are rebuffed, tough. Go on to the next one.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (21 December 2005):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou are boring the hell out of me. You've gotten a tons of answers and suggestions. Why don't you starting writing in a journal or something.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2005):

You are so obsessed!! Stop using all of your energy thinking, wondering, trying to create this thing!!! If you try to push this, and it's not genuine from him, but forced . . . you will regret it and feel hurt. More hurt than the excitement you feel now. Focus on yourself and stop thinking about him. If you can't, you have a serious problem.

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