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writes: I have this boyfriend and he loves me so much and I love him also. One day he called me up and told me that this other girl was after him and he said that he would go out with her for a week then dump her. I asked him if he still likes her and he said no.Should I still be a worried about it or should I just drop it? He said he would never do anything to hurt me or wouldn't ever leave me. I quess I'm just getting a lil jealous. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2005):
In all fairness this would be a very effective way of getting rid of a hanger-on girl.
But it is a strange plan. Report back if you try it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2005): first of all, if he loves you so much..you and only you...he wouldn't have even agreed to go out with some other girl for a week and then break it off with her in the first place. what kind of a ludacris bargain is that anyway???
if you two are supposedly in a committed relationship, i think that you should be worried that he went out with another girl. if he's your boyfriend than he should be with you. end of story. in my opinion, your situation is messed up.
by the way: what did you do in that week he was with this other chick? sit and twiddle your thumbs while he was out romancing another woman? it sounds as though you don't hold yourself in a very high regard..you have some self-esteem issues.
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (27 December 2005):
 What are you thinking or should i ask what are you thinking with.
It's clear you not thinking with your head.
You allowing him to cheat on you for a week. If the tables were turned, do you honestly think he would let you do the same, HELL NO!
He is getting the best of both world and you allowing it.
If you let him do it once then he will want to do it over and over again.
Not only is it disrepectful but it's demoralising to bith you and this other girl. He shouldn't even be thinking of it, and neither should you.
My honest opinion, KICK HIM TO THE CURB GIRL! You deserve so much better, don't ever settle for anything less than the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2005): Leave the guy. He wants to date her for 1 week. What for? What's his reasoning? Just to get some girl hurt so she would leave him alone? Don't believe what he says. If he really cared about you and loves you like he should, he wouldn't even give this other girl a chance for one date. Dump the loser.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (25 December 2005):
 I've got some swamp land to sell. Or maybe you'd like to the the Brooklyn Bridge instead? You shouldn't be worried about him, no indeedy do, YOU SHOULD DUMP HIM and walk away. Look for a guy who respects you, this guy is a CAD.
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reader, Amber_wave +, writes (25 December 2005):
No wonder you are getting jealous! So it's ok for your boyfriend to go out with somebody else as long as he dumps her in a week?? This is so disrespectful to you and to the other woman. No offense, but it sounds like you are letting him get away with two-timing you. Why don't you start dating other people yourself? Your "boyfriend" should not have a problem with it because you are obviously not exclusive, and perhaps you will meet somebody who actually deserves your attention.
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