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writes: no one seems to of taken what happened to me seriously, i was touched up while i was asleep , i woke up to find him looking and touching, he didnt know id woken up, thought i was just stirring so he covered me back up but carried on stroking my boobs and hair, i told my husband but once he was clear it didnt follow into rape he didnt seem bothered, i pointed him out to my husband and he simply asked him his side of the story , my husband mates who didnt even know the guy said they would stamp on my face if i didnt leave this guy alone then jeered on this guy to run me over!, i told my best friend thinking she would at least be shocked but she simply said she was too hung over to talk about it with me then she hung up. i am a good person, and i would never hurt anyone so i am left thinking am i over reactting when i feel that this guy did something seriously wrong to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2006): that is totaly wrong i would go to the police and get the bitch locked up and if any of your friends that dont think it is serious and they dont care then u need to tell them to fuck off and they arent really your friends if anyone takes the situation lightly then they are as messed up as the guy that did it to u and she should get the people who are doubting u or dont care out of your life for good do what you need to do and dont let this tragic situation go any further go straight to the police i am not sayng this to be mean but if u dont do any thing about it then you r pretty messed up yourself u did nothing wrong to make anyone do this to you it isnt yor fault all u can do is put this man away and try to forget about it but only foget about it when he is LOCKED UP any person with common sense should no that you sho7uld go directly to the police hopefully he is still in town and it isnt to late for u to tell the cops alwayz remember that if anyone is doubting u or dosent seem to care about your situation or dosent think it is that big of a deal isnt as close to u as you think! I hope u get help for yourself and not only that but u dont know if the man had a STD or anything like that i am gonna pray for u and i hope that u get help! Truly, Unnamed
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reader, breeze +, writes (20 January 2006):
i can't believe that no-one has taken you seriously. there are alot of dirty perverts out there , i know believe me, do what you have to do to get over this and i send all my love xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question anon,
i really dont need advice like that...if thats what you want to call it! how odd it is of you to presume that when my husband left me there were any of my friends there! it was the end of the night and most people had left! i have already explained why i was staying at "the strangers" house because my ONLY other option was the streets! which contrary to what you seem to think, seemed the most dangerous option! (especially on a freezing night when i was wearing party clothes with no coat!)
you know i thought that maybe i had cause to have issues with the people who brushed aside what happened to me but you are just unbelievable!
no , there wasnt anyone i knew left at the bar , and yes i know that sleeping on the streets would of been the worst option, no i didnt know if i was overeacting to what he did to me but i do know that you are not helping anyone if this is your take on life
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2006): i think your the problem because why are you sleeping in strangers homes why didnt you go to one of your friends houses. if their true friends they would let you stay with them
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2006): I still think the problem is with your husband. How dare he leave you alone with no money and no house keys and leave you to a situation which you resort to sleeping in stranger's homes.
I think that being felt up was the last of your problems, I would seriously consider the kind of man you have married. If any man ever did that to me, he would plain and simple never see me again. You don't need to put up with that sort of thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi, , sorry i wasnt very clear in my question as i couldnt seem to get it posted with all the details :0S, i dont live on the streets, but when i go out with my husband he usually gets drunk and walks off on me with the money and the house keys no where to be found, this guy was someone from my local i didnt know him but , its tight down there and he seemed genuine& kind, him and his mate seemed obsessed with thier girlfriends i thought thier offer of the settee would be better than the street for the night , i didnt mean to fall asleep.
i hope that this makes the problem a little clearer.
but eyeswideopen , thankyou for your comment, i think maybe i wanted excuses for them but at the same time i couldnt stand the thought that this is just how girls get treated these days, my husbands mates just seemed to think that i didnt have the right to say this about this guy.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 January 2006):
 You've got lots more disturbing problems than just this midnight maurauder, my dear. Sounds like your entire life is totally out of control. Where are you sleeping, on the streets? What kind of jerk for a husband do you have anyways? Your best friend appears to be a drunk. You have a lot of work ahead of you in getting all this under control, best get started.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2006): I'm sorry but who is this guy? Why the hell was he around you whilst you slept? Where were you? Where was your husband? I would take more care as to where you sleep and who is in your house or what homes you are sleeping in. Don't put yourself in that situation again.
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (5 January 2006):
 No one has a right to touch you in that way if you do not want it, especially when you are sleeping and unable to say no. It is very disturbing to think that these people would all take this so lightly, especially your husband. If I were you I would make sure I stayed out of situations where this guy would have access to me while I slept. Good luck.
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reader, Joe  +, writes (5 January 2006):
i'm going to keep it simple YOU ARE NOT OVER REACTING ONE BIT!
some one took advantage of your body while you are asleep which is just wrong.
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