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writes: My boyfriend just broke up with me and asked someone else out, then dumped her within a day and asked me back out by note. Should I say 'yes' and go back out with him or should I say 'no' and not go back out with him?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (17 December 2005):
 Go out with him if you want to, sheesh what's the problem?
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reader, Qui-Gon-Jim +, writes (17 December 2005):
 Hmm, I suppose it all rests on how you feel about each other. Just after breakups, guys get a little affronted, and some like to protect their pride by starting a new relationship "out of spite" (kinda like F.R.I.E.N.D.S, where Ross goes out and has sex a few hours after his breakup with Rachel). Of course, men don't realise this, and it takes a hell of a lot of courage to go back and ask you out again. I think he's being sincere and he's realised he needs you.
If you guys still feel the same way about each other, maybe it could work again?
Qui-Gon xxx
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