What should I say about his lack of wood?
Q. my friend shared with me that when he attempts to have sex with his girlfriend of 15 years, he doesn't get an erection. What should I say???...
A. 2 September 2008: Cheating is cheating no matter how you sugar coat it. I feel very sorry for his girlfriend.... (read in full...)
What should I say about his lack of wood?
Q. my friend shared with me that when he attempts to have sex with his girlfriend of 15 years, he doesn't get an erection. What should I say???...
A. 2 September 2008: Yeah the the married guys claim their wives are more like roomates and they sleep on the couch. It's all a crock don't buy it. If he was really into you (other than the sexually into you) he wouldn't have to worry about his penis problems with his ... (read in full...)
I had sex with my wife's sister and now she's driving me crazy! What do I do about such a weird situation?
Q. About 2 years ago I had the best sex ever with my wifes sister. I have always wanted her and in fact, when i met my wife my intention was to hook up with the sister but it didn't happen. Anyway we ended up in bed together just having the best sex ...
A. 2 September 2008: You most likely will not get full custody of your son but you may be able to get a 50-50 split of time. You need to move out of the house and get your own place. Tell your girlfriend you are done with the arguments and violence, and in short, her. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for my husband to fall in love with me again?
Q. We've been married for 4 years. He has left because he says I have changed. He has moved into our other house. He says I am not the same fun, confident woman I was when we got married. I don't know what happened. I hadn't seen it until now. I can't ...
A. 2 September 2008: This all sounds rather fishy to me. If you have no clue why he thinks you've changed so much then you most likely haven't but he has. The fact that he has moved out to your other place makes me think he's up to no good. I hope I'm wrong but he may ... (read in full...)
We want to have sex but we know nothing about it and are both 13!
Q. my bf and i have been dating for a year and we both wanna have sex but we can't because a: my hymen hasn't broken and b: we are both 13. what do we do?...
A. 2 September 2008: You and your boyfriend should read up on the entire spectrum of human reproduction. You should never have sex before you understand how everything works. Then after you reach that level of understanding, you and your boyfriend should read up on all ... (read in full...)
Years after our marriage I find out he's my half-brother!
Q. What would you do if you met a guy started going out with him than years later you got married to him and found out that you had the same dad....... What would you do? stay together? seperate? or see each other as brother and sister? ...
A. 2 September 2008: This irritates me, their are plenty of people with REAL problems...waste of time.... (read in full...)
Years after our marriage I find out he's my half-brother!
Q. What would you do if you met a guy started going out with him than years later you got married to him and found out that you had the same dad....... What would you do? stay together? seperate? or see each other as brother and sister? ...
A. 29 August 2008: This sounds like a Lifetime channel movie I saw awhile back. Sorry but I can't remember how it ended. And I too would like to know how you found out he is your Half-brother?... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 29 August 2008: I agree with you, you are really being stupid at this moment, and I also got a glimmer that you kinda like this pervy crap.... (read in full...)
How do I convince my sister to stop wearing this bikini?
Q. My cute younger sister (she's 16) hangs around the public pool wearing a thong bikini. From behind, it looks as though she is totally naked. The boys there gather around her, many whispering, all staring, some spreading the word. If I ask her to ...
A. 28 August 2008: I know I wouldn't let my 16 year old daughter wear a thong in public, but I guess your hands are tied in this situation. If your sister and mother think this is okay, what's a brother to do?... (read in full...)
I haven't had a girlfriend for a while, any opinions?
Q. ok well i am i junior and i havent had a gf since i was in the 7th grade. my last gf turned lesbian a few months after we went out. but she went out with other guys after me so im pretty sure it was me. i get compliments on my eyes like hourly. and ...
A. 28 August 2008: Well for starters, you could like try to like stop using the the word like so much, it's like pretty like annoying.... (read in full...)
Why does everyone condemn FWB? We are just doing something we both enjoy...
Q. I have had sex with this guy a couple of times now. It is not very serious, but whenever we have had it has been great. Well he is really a f**k buddy. I have never ever had one before. I know most people think it is wrong to have a f**k buddy bu...
A. 27 August 2008: We get a ton of postings from people(usually the woman)who started out in one of these arrangements which then turned sour. Be careful, very, very careful.... (read in full...)
Romantic gestures towards women - some brainstorming!
Q. Hi. For a little project I'm working on, please, would as many women as possible kindly list three gestures which they would deem to be 'romantic' towards them. Many thanks!...
A. 27 August 2008: His remembering to put the toilet seat down.
His wiping off said toilet seat if he gets a little distracted.
And foot massages.... (read in full...)
My hubby's contacting his ex via mail, should I tell him or wait to see what happens?
Q. I'm a married women married for 6 years and my husband just starting contacting his ex-girlfriend who lives out west. Have had some issues in the past with him emailing another female friend behind my back. I don't want him to know I'm checking ...
A. 27 August 2008: I wouldn't have a problem if my husband contacted an old girlfriend by email OCCASIONALLY. But the fact that he also gave her his cell phone number is rather worrisome indeed. Plus the fact that he isn't open about it all is also very upsetting. I ... (read in full...)
I find my sex drive to be extreme, my partner at times finds my enthusiasm off putting, how to handle it?
Q. I feel like sex ALL the time and find it is causing me nothing but trouble. I lead a very healthy lifestyle and find my sex drive to be extreme and I don't know how to handle it. My partner most certainly isn't interested often enough and at ti...
A. 27 August 2008: If you really are going nuts over the problem then why don't you talk to your doctor, not sure, but there probably is some medication he/she can prescribe to lower your libido just a tad.... (read in full...)
My hubby's contacting his ex via mail, should I tell him or wait to see what happens?
Q. I'm a married women married for 6 years and my husband just starting contacting his ex-girlfriend who lives out west. Have had some issues in the past with him emailing another female friend behind my back. I don't want him to know I'm checking ...
A. 27 August 2008: What does he say in his emails to her? Are they just friendly chatter or are they more personal?... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might be infertile because unprotected sex did not lead to pregnancy...
Q. me and my boyfriend had sex and he cummed in me, i didn't get pregnant which was a good thing but now it's got me wondering how come? and is it because i might be infertile? im so paranoid, please help...
A. 27 August 2008: You're not infertile you're just lucky. Babies deserved to be planned. If you aren't ready to be pregnant then use birth control. ... (read in full...)
My fiance went out on her "hen night" and denies giving oral to this bloke, as I was told. I can't tell if I want to continue to be with her.
Q. I hop you can help as I dont know what to do. I'm about to get married next month but my fiance did something horrible to me and i just cant tell if i even want to be with her anymore. She went on her hen night last week and her and her mates go...
A. 27 August 2008: First and foremost, do not go through with the wedding next month. Given some time, you may be able to work through this but in the meantime, Id let things cool down. She had no business even flirting with the guy if she was getting married in a ... (read in full...)
My best friend is hating me but I don't know why...
Q. I'm 1.5m, well endowed, reasonably good looking, conservative sense of fashion, reasonable sense of humour, anime/manga fan and really good in art and computers. My voice is considered quite good for singing and so on, so forth... I've had a crush ...
A. 27 August 2008: "cough"...award?... (read in full...)
Where should I live and work?
Q. Hello everybody please give me your honest opinion as to which of these two countries America or Canada is the best to practice my profession. I am a graduate of Hotel and Restaurant Management....
A. 26 August 2008: If you can speak Spanish then move to America.... (read in full...)
Virginity Poll: How old were you when you lost the V-card?
Q. tell me...how old were you when you lost your virginity??...
A. 26 August 2008: 18 and that was way too young as I look back on it.... (read in full...)
We constantly fight because I think he is too close to his sister-in-law!
Q. i have been with my bf for 4 years we constantly fight because i think that he is very close with his sister-inlaw(his brothers wife)when i tell him not to be so close he say im jealous and starts fighting with me what shuld i do.....?...
A. 26 August 2008: Why would you be jealous of his sister-in-law? She is married. Unless something totally inappropriate is going on, you shouldn't be feeling jealous towards her. I'd try to back off on the whole situation if I were you. Family is family.... (read in full...)
He wants to still date this other chick but he also wants me to just wait around. Do I wait or move on?
Q. Me ex split up with me about three months ago. I was his very first relationship ever and he didn't think he could go through with it knowing that there was a "what if". Our relationship was heading straight down the aisle and he didn't think he ...
A. 26 August 2008: Wait around? He wants you to wait around? Nuts to that. Get out there and have some fun.... (read in full...)
My friend was hurtful to me, and now she's mad at me. Shouldn't it be me who is angry at her?
Q. My best friend kept winding me up about supposedly fancying a teacher at our school. I didn't like him as he is probably 4 times my own age and it was beginning to tire. First she text me and said what's his [the teacher's] real name? So I told ...
A. 25 August 2008: You need to find a new best friend.... (read in full...)
I may have given STD's to a married man I've been sleeping with and his wife is pregnant!
Q. Please Help....I have been seing this married man for 2 years now and he has a wife with a baby on the way. i know its wrong but please dont judge. I went to the Gynocologist and i may have vaginal cancer, to top it all off my test results came back ...
A. 25 August 2008: You should tell him immediately. He needs to get tested and if he has contracted it he needs to fess up with his wife. The fact that she is pregnant makes this of utmost priority for you. Call him now.... (read in full...)
I'm into animal erotica. Can anyone answer questions on "fish" sex?
Q. Hey, Im kind of new with this.So anyway, Im a 39 year old female, Im overweight, lonley, and I need to get my freak on, Im so used to my 9-5 shifts anyway Laitly Ive been turned on by animal erotica, I had a moment when I was 10 with a dog that Ill ...
A. 22 August 2008: I'm sure I didn't flounder...she said so herself.... (read in full...)
I'm into animal erotica. Can anyone answer questions on "fish" sex?
Q. Hey, Im kind of new with this.So anyway, Im a 39 year old female, Im overweight, lonley, and I need to get my freak on, Im so used to my 9-5 shifts anyway Laitly Ive been turned on by animal erotica, I had a moment when I was 10 with a dog that Ill ...
A. 22 August 2008: Maybe if you started eating fish instead of screwing them you could lose the weight and maybe find a man so you aren't so lonely and maybe you could get your "freak on" with a human.... (read in full...)
Is it OK to have an affair with a friend who's a hooker even though I have a girlfriend?
Q. wow...! this' a little funny, but here it goes. I went to a pub one evening after a tiring day from work, and met a hooker. out of curiosity I thought I could just disturb her a little but without being serious on it. so I bought her a drink. b...
A. 21 August 2008: Why on earth would this be "okay"?... (read in full...)
Why are these woman so interested to pass information about my ex to me?
Q. last week i ran into a friend/co worker, which have not seen in years, since she works wirth my ex-gf, of 4 years ago. we exchange info about our life, etc. i told her that i was happy in my current relationship of alnmost 4 years, to which she just ...
A. 21 August 2008: If you show no interest when they talk about your ex they will eventually wise up. Since you don't give a rat's ass about her anymore, I really don't see this as a big problem. Water off a duck's back, Buddy. Enjoy your current relationship and good ... (read in full...)
I want to make porn movies. How can I protect myself from diseases?
Q. i am 19 years old girl and i am interested to join a porn movie making company. i like sex so much.i want to enjoy the sex with different male parterner in different style. but i do not have so much knowledge about the physical deseases generated ...
A. 19 August 2008: One of the big (hee) porn stars just died from AIDS recently. He was a major star and he still got AIDS so even the big porn enterprises can't protect their actors from HIV. Not sure of the stats but I'd be wiling to bet HIV is rampant in this ... (read in full...)
Being in separate schools I'm afraid she will get feelings for someone else. What can I do to stop us getting too distant from each other?
Q. I am a freshmen in college and my girlfriend is a freshmen in highschool. . my question is with me going away to school what can I do to help lower the risk of us breaking up or becoming too distant. I have already made up my mind that I don't want ...
A. 19 August 2008: So you are going away to college and your girlfriend is just starting her high school years? She will miss out on dates to the dances, parties, all the football games? You guys will both be missing out on all the fun that goes on in high school AND ... (read in full...)
Am I just a convenience? What should I think?
Q. My live in boyfriend told me that he thought that he could do better than me one night when he was drinking. The next day he said he didnt mean it and that he was jealous because so many people came up to me when we were out the night before to say ...
A. 18 August 2008: Sounds like your boyfriend is a mean drunk who says hurtful things or maybe he's just mean and is using the alcohol as an excuse. Ask him to quit it and if he persists then either you can dump the big mouth or you can decide to listen to the crap. I ... (read in full...)
A Threesome. Should I do it anyway and hate it or what?
Q. my fiance and i have been together for over a year and a half and engaged for ten months. we also have a baby due in less then a month. he is wanting to have a threesome with an old friend of mine he considers hot. I told him no immediatly but he ...
A. 18 August 2008: You'd be nuts to do it. And your fiance better be able to accept "NO" for the answer or your future looks pretty bleak. I hope for your baby's sake you can settle this peacefully and immediately.... (read in full...)
Is she in denial to try to save her marriage?
Q. Hi. Imagine this work-place scenario. An unmarried man seduces a married woman into chasing him (they have been working in the same large office for nearly 4 years). He then responds to this indicator of interest by asking her out via e-mail. She ...
A. 18 August 2008: It doesn't matter what is behind her behavior, knock off this nonsense and leave her alone. Find someone who is single to "chase" after you.... (read in full...)
Am I over-reacting? Is there more to life than text messages?
Q. Whenever my bf doesnt reply to my text messages within an hour I freak out and assume that he mustnt like me anymore or wants to break up. I dont know if this feeling is rational or not. He used to text me 24/7 and he would always reply pretty fas...
A. 18 August 2008: I think you are over the top on this one as well. I for one never answer a text simply because I can't see the damn teeny tiny letters on the keys.... (read in full...)
He's in a relationship but wants to have sex with me!
Q. hey everyone. One of my friends is really attracted to me. Im attracted to him too and we like to talk to each other. We have been talking for a long time and sometimes we talk about sex and turn each other on. Well as time went on, he got a ...
A. 18 August 2008: If he does this to his girlfriend, he'll do it to you. He is showing you his character. Not very pleasant.... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how to "let him down easy"?
Q. This guy (who I can't stand) keeps asking me out. I'm not use to guys "crushing" on me. I rejected him before but he won't leave me alone. I'm trying to be nice and sweet but it's not working. I really don't want to his feeling. Any ideas?...
A. 15 August 2008: Sometimes you have to be firm. Next time he asks you to go out say, "No thank you I see you as a friend only."... (read in full...)
Do I just accept it or play along with it?
Q. Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 2 months. Everything is good but its just lately I have been getting paranoid about jokes that she says when we are with friends. Like my friend gets does something stupid and we shove it in his face and he j...
A. 15 August 2008: Next time she says that, say "Well I can always leave the room." and see how she reacts.... (read in full...)
I asked a female work colleague out for a drink but she said "no". How do I get things back to normal?
Q. After getting some courage, i asked a female work colleague out for a drink The answer was, sorry, but no Now things seem very strained between us, and that was never my intention. Can we get back to where we were ? ...
A. 15 August 2008: Possibly over time she will loosen up and you two can go back to the friendship. Just try to act like you always have and give it some time.... (read in full...)
What do I do about my insensitive, copy-cat sister? Am I making too much of a fuss?
Q. I am really angry with my sister. She copies everything I do to a sinister level. If she knows I am getting friendly with someone, she will swoop in when my back is turned and ‘poach’ them from me for want of a better word. For example, I started ...
A. 15 August 2008: Well then you are stuck there for awhile. I guess all you can do is just try to keep quiet about your business and don't give your sister any info. I hope you find work very soon.... (read in full...)
She wants us to have a baby and settle down but I'm not sure-help!
Q. i dont know what to do with my girlfriend, i do love her, but i enjoy spending time alone, i do have attractions for other woman, but i dont go looking for them. my girlfriend wants to have a family with me, but i dont want to, she knows i d...
A. 15 August 2008: If she knows you don't want to have children and that you don't even want a committed relationship, then SHE'S at fault for wasting her time not you. If children and marriage mean more to her than the love you share, she should have walked before ... (read in full...)
What do I do about my insensitive, copy-cat sister? Am I making too much of a fuss?
Q. I am really angry with my sister. She copies everything I do to a sinister level. If she knows I am getting friendly with someone, she will swoop in when my back is turned and ‘poach’ them from me for want of a better word. For example, I started ...
A. 15 August 2008: Are you still living at home? If so, you should get a place of your own, and take your computer. And stop telling your sister about everything that is going on in your life. The less she knows the less she can compete. Your family sounds like a ... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 15 July 2008: You are really scaring us. This is so dangerous. Do exactly what Trish said, please write back and say you are in a safe place.
... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 14 July 2008: Listen to the aunts, he's a control freak and he has more issues than just his choice of sexual position. Run away as fast as your 23 year old legs can run.... (read in full...)
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