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The girl I'm in love with... I'm nervous about the outcome of talking with her!

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Question - (9 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am in love with a girl... her name is Jordan and I had her in a class last semester. She always sat really close to me and gave me "the look". I fell head-over-heels for her, but was always apprehensive about talking to her because of a tragic event in my life. I longed for her so much that I couldn't concentrate in class anymore. My mind was filled with her all the time and I couldn't stop thinking about her. After class ended I never got her contact info, so all seemed lost... at least for a summer. After Fall classes started I see her on campus every now and then, but I'm too nervous about the outcome of talking to her. Not so much rejection, but like something bad's going to happen to me. Like I said, this feeling of apprehension has to do with an event in my past. If anyone can give me any advice that would be great.=)

Thanks ahead of time.

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A male reader, the one who doesn't know Portugal +, writes (9 November 2008):

the one who doesn't know agony auntyes think positive. and think negative...see both sides. make a balance. but what could be that bad. you get a negative. so what happenns? your self-esteem, gets lower, your the reason of a great laugh... nothing worse, is there? no, so try and go...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2008):

Id say go for it. you will never no what is going to happen if you dont! And just think, if you dont, you will regret it! Be quick before its too late! She may have the same feelings! Think posotive!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (9 October 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntWhat was this tragic event in your life? You might recieve better answers if you explain what is causing this underlaying fear.

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