Is it wrong for me to date an 18 year old guy? I'm 14.
Q. Ok so is it so wrong for a 14 year old girl who loves a 18 year old man be such a bad thing? I feel in love with a man named Daniel and he feel in love with me to, but my mom found out we were together and called him to "talk" to him. Now I am band ...
A. 1 October 2008: If you were my daughter I would do exactly what your mom has done. There is a huge difference between a 14 year old and a 18 year old. Period. Look him up when you are 18.... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and might be pregnant... what can I do?
Q. I'm 15 and could be pregnant. I'm too scared to go to a clinic for a pregnancy test and home kits are too expensive. What should I do? Somebody please help! ...
A. 30 September 2008: Look at the date! I'll bet she has the kid in preschool by now.... (read in full...)
Should I put my mom in a nursinghome?
Q. Hi I am going through the hardest time of my life right now and feel terriable and guilty. My Mother is 84 years old with really bad dementia. So me and my daughter had to move in but she has never liked my daughter and has a controlling ...
A. 30 September 2008: I agree I think you need to realize that for everyone concerned a nursing home or assisted living home is probably best. I know how hard this will be for you but I really think it's a decision you will be making sooner than later anyway. I admire ... (read in full...)
My married man doesn't make me climax like he can with his wife! Any suggestions?
Q. Hi. I'm 20 years old and have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. He is married but we have this amazing attraction. However he is a little frustrated because he hasn't been able to make me come yet. I don't know why as he is so gentle and ...
A. 29 September 2008: Oh yes indeed there's something wrong with you. My suggestion for you is to look at the first three words in your third sentence.... (read in full...)
What should I do to fill up my time? I'm my own worst enemy.
Q. Everyone I know thinks im this popular, confident and intelligent person. The truth is the things I think about myself I wouldn't even say to my worst enemy. I worry all the time that people will realise that I am stupid, dont know how to do my job ...
A. 29 September 2008: This is no way for someone live. You need to find a therapist you can work with. Fill in your time with getting yourself feeling better. Make the appointment today.... (read in full...)
How do I do the right thing and remain understanding?
Q. Hi, ive been living with my boyfriend for a year and he is seperated but not divorced from his ex wife. He pays her a huge amount of 'child' support every month and we know that she doesnt spend it all on the kids. She kept the house which is real ...
A. 29 September 2008: Your boyfriend needs to speak to a lawyer ASAP. Sounds like he is getting screwed, blued, and tattooed by his ex.... (read in full...)
Do women kiss more passionately than men?
Q. I have found that after kissing a woman now I dont find men kisses to be as good and/or passionate. Does anyone out there have felt the same as me? ...
A. 29 September 2008: Okay there Mister Oldybutgoody, just WHAT is the WRONG side of fifty?????... (read in full...)
He says he feels pressure but I feel like the pressure is on me!!?
Q. I just got into a relationship with this guy. We were in a friends with benefits situation for months and now we are official. I saw him yestersay,we were supposed to hang out today, but he canceled at the last minute and told me we will hang out ...
A. 29 September 2008: Doesn't sound like he wants a "official" relationship, sounds more like he preferred the friends with benefits situation much more. As would most guys I might add. Personally I think someone always ends up feeling used in a FWB relationship and by ... (read in full...)
My internet LD guy friend recently got a gf! I thought he was the right person for me, though...advice?
Q. One of my best friends lives in Canada, and I live in the US. We both have admitted to liking each other. He tells me the cutest things, things you wouldnt hear normally. He makes me feel like the luckiest person in the world. I dont get to see him ...
A. 29 September 2008: Well sometimes a person just needs someone with skin on rather than a computer screen. Long distance romances really are difficult, especially at your age. I guess you should get busy with your friends and see what kind of fun you can have with ... (read in full...)
We didn't really get together before but how do I get him back again?
Q. If I have turn a guy off in other words dosen't like me anymore..knowing it was both of our fault we stop talking but you want him back beacuse you care and you have no way of getting his attention then how do I get him to like me again???...
A. 29 September 2008: Just be yourself around him, he'll let you know if he's interested. You can't "get" him to like you, he either will or he won't.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't wake me up to join him in bed at night, if I fell asleep somewhere else. I don't see why.
Q. I was just wondering what other peoples view on this is... When I go to bed at night, if my boyfriend has fallen asleep somewhere besides bed, I always wake him up to come join me in bed. Last night, I had kind of fallen asleeep on the couch. I...
A. 29 September 2008: If my husband fell asleep on the couch I probably wouldn't disturb him and I think he would most likely do the same for me. As our couch is about as comfortable as a sack of potatoes this has never happened. I don't think this is a biggie.... (read in full...)
I'm worried my friends will start gossiping if I ask this girl out.
Q. every week, i attend masses and participate in our church's youth group which consists of many teens from various towns and we meet about good 4 hours every sunday. recently, a new girl joined and we became friends ever since. as time went on, we've ...
A. 29 September 2008: Ask her out, your friends will be cool about it, that is if they truly friends. You'll kick yourself in the butt if you let this opportunity slide. Go for it.... (read in full...)
Should I let him follow his dream??
Q. I met my partner nearly 16 years ago he is married and has two grown up children. We have been together as a couple for nearly 14 years. i have never asked him to leave his wife and never would. He himself came from a broken home and has always said ...
A. 29 September 2008: So what do you want from us? I mean if you are happy with the way things are, and you are sure he would pick you over his wife if push comes to shove, what's the problem? Or maybe there is just a sniggle of doubt?... (read in full...)
I need some Agony Aunts to keep me in their prayers!
Q. Hi, I'm one of your agony aunts, but this time I need your help. I would just ask you all send me love, strength and support for what I'm about to go through. My husband's viza has not been granted, and we have to go for interview next week. You ...
A. 29 September 2008: Wonderful news, future's so bright you'll both need shades!... (read in full...)
Should I abide by my wife's last wish?
Q. I came home from work this morning and found my wife unconscious then I had to take her to the hospital where she died. She committed suicide. In her note she specified that she did NOT want anyone to know that she took her life. It is the only main ...
A. 26 September 2008: In the States the death certificate is considered public domain. So if her family really wants to find out they will be able to see the death certificate. However, I don't think they mention the self-inflicted part on a certificate just the ... (read in full...)
Should I Marry Someone That I Am Not 100% attracted to and may become fat in the future?
Q. Should I marry a woman that I am not entirely attracted to and might get fat in the future? She is one of my best friends and has everything I want in a woman... but I can tell she does not work-out enough to maintain a healthy body and always finds ...
A. 26 September 2008: I don't think anybody should marry anybody if they aren't 100% sure about what they are doing. Marriage is tough enough with no doubts so to enter into it with some doubts already is a bad idea. You know what's important to you never settle for ... (read in full...)
My wife was not a virgin and this discovery has hurt me deeply. Please help!
Q. my wife told me that she was not a virgin before we got married, myself was a virgin and only lost it to her.now we are married and truly love her but hurt her past and at times i illtreat her. so i will never experience breaking a virgin i ask ...
A. 26 September 2008: "breaking a virgin"? Yikes, sounds so medieval or like something said on a horse ranch....... (read in full...)
Should I let him follow his dream??
Q. I met my partner nearly 16 years ago he is married and has two grown up children. We have been together as a couple for nearly 14 years. i have never asked him to leave his wife and never would. He himself came from a broken home and has always said ...
A. 26 September 2008: Go ahead and ask him to leave his wife and take you abroad with him. Find out once and for all which side of the fence he really wants to be on. Be prepared for the worst, after fence sitting for 14 years when you are the supposed love of his life, ... (read in full...)
My wife's very depressed since her dad died a year ago, our sex life is inexistent, it's driving me insane!
Q. My wife's dad died nearly a year ago. Shes doesn't want have sex anymore. I've waiting for her and supported her ever since her dad passed away. But its driving me insane she wont let do anything to her. Its causing fights (sometimes we augured ...
A. 26 September 2008: Check into finding a therapist who deals with grief management. Your wife needs to find a way for her to deal appropriately with her painful loss. Some people have a real hard time dealing with the death of a loved one and the aftershocks can ... (read in full...)
He and I have been dirty texting, but he's getting married soon to a good friend of mine and I have a boyfriend! Need help getting him out of my head!
Q. Dear Aunts i am in a bit of a pickle i am with someone for the last four years, but a few months ago me and a male friend who is getting married soon to a good friend of mine started flirting with me, we have always got on really well we have bee...
A. 26 September 2008: Sorry Ms.Anonymous, but bad, hurtful behavior should never be condoned or encouraged. If you think that's insulting then you need to get a grip. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get pregnant if you have sex while you have your period?
Q. i know this is a really unorthodox question, but is it possible for a woman to become pregnant if she has sex during her period? has that ever happened?...
A. 24 September 2008: It certainly is possible, it happens all the time. Just figure no time is totally safe from the risk of pregnancy. If you aren't looking to have a baby then you must use birth control and make your partner wear a condom.... (read in full...)
Can you give me some sexy relationship related questions, please?
Q. My boyfriend calls me on my way home from school every day, and asks me questions about our realionship, and i always run out of questions. Can you give me some sexy relationship related questions....
A. 24 September 2008: Sorry but I haven't the slightest idea what it is you are asking. More details will net you better responses.... (read in full...)
He and I have been dirty texting, but he's getting married soon to a good friend of mine and I have a boyfriend! Need help getting him out of my head!
Q. Dear Aunts i am in a bit of a pickle i am with someone for the last four years, but a few months ago me and a male friend who is getting married soon to a good friend of mine started flirting with me, we have always got on really well we have bee...
A. 24 September 2008: He's either just playing with you or he's grooming you to be his bit on the side. Both of you are not behaving well. You certainly are not acting like you love your boyfriend very much, and I feel for your "good friend" with friends like you who ... (read in full...)
I need tips on having a BBQ so I don't burn the house down!
Q. This may seem like a lame question but thought may get some good tips here! I am throwing a surprise party at my house and am having to organise everything on my own. The only thing I am a bit confused about is the BBQ as I have never done it be...
A. 24 September 2008: Let's all go over to Uncle Phil's, he knows what's up! To the poster I'd say follow what the Uncle said and don't forget the spray bottle of water, it really is helpful to have. Have a great party!
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My girlfriend is violent and refuses to compromise. What do I do?
Q. My girlfriend regularly and violently freaks out over ordinary problems. This morning she was angry because I stayed up late on the internet in our room after she went to sleep (having put in earplugs, as we live above a main road, and simply said ...
A. 24 September 2008: Gee Whiz Buddy. Instead of all that work and counseling I'd just dump her sorry ass and find a normal, rational, non-psycho to be with. Wow.... (read in full...)
Why do guys only like skinny, slutty girls and why don't they like overweight girls, who are great people on the inside? Any insights?
Q. i want to know why guys are so mean and picky that they only like skinny girls that are slutty and why they don't like overweight girls. It really hurts my feelings that they judge me based on the way that i look and not whats on the inside, I ...
A. 24 September 2008: Pretty, skinny girls can have great personalities and can be great companions whereas people who wallow in self-pity are always a pain in the butt.... (read in full...)
Pushed into ending our relationship - by his wife - is friendship possible?
Q. I'm a married woman (almost 3 years). I've become pretty close with a man I used to commute to work with. He lives with his longtime girlfriend and their 3 kids. Over time, we got to know each other pretty well - so much so that we began to out for ...
A. 23 September 2008: Tell him forget the friends thing. You didn't lose him, you never HAD him to begin with. Now you need to figure out your own marriage which obviously is not providing you with much happiness. Have a nice long conversation with your husband and see ... (read in full...)
If I was to carry out my feelings for my married neighbor would it be considered wrong?
Q. If I was to carry out my feelings for my married neighbor would it be considered wrong? (If you straight off read that, you're going to say YES! So keep reading, maybe you'll understand better) They have been having marriage problems for a c...
A. 23 September 2008: How do you know whether he's even interested in you? And what exactly do mean when you say "carry out your feelings"?... (read in full...)
I need to hide a hickey from my parents, so they don't know where I've been!
Q. hi... I really need help and fast. I spent the weekend with my boyfriend. My parents don't know about it and if they had ever found out that I would be in so much trouble. I got away with them not finding out that I was with him. The only thing th...
A. 23 September 2008: I'm betting her hickey is gone by now...Sheesh!... (read in full...)
We were 'wife swapping', then jealousy started, insecurity started and we ended up having so many fights. But we still love them.
Q. We were friends, best friends with a couple and their two kids. We turned like family, always hanging out together. Over two years ago, we mutually decided to experiment sexually with each other' partners. It started with simple massage sessions...
A. 23 September 2008: I think you can kiss this friendship bye bye. You should take Uncle Phil up on his idea at least then something good can come out of this debacle.... (read in full...)
Can you catch an STD if you use someone else's vibrator?
Q. hi. i swear this is not about me, just wondering... if you use the same vibrator as another women, can u get an STD from it? this is not about me, and i know about sex and all that, just my family dont talk about stuff like that and i dou...
A. 23 September 2008: Dang! That's like using someone else's toothbrush...yuck.... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and I live with a 44 year old, but my family don't know!
Q. im 17, with a 44 year old. i love him to bits and he's going through a divorce. he's got 2 kids - one just 3 weeks younger than me. im currently living with him, but my parents and freinds think im staying with a few mates i met at work. we have not ...
A. 23 September 2008: When people hide something it's because deep down they feel it's wrong or something to be ashamed of. Why are you hiding your relationship?... (read in full...)
I really want to buy the right costume for my hubbys birthday surprise. So guys, what really turns you on??
Q. Hi, This one is just a bit of fun really but it was something i was thinking about as i really want to buy the right costume for my hubbys birthday surprise. Ok, guys, what turns you on the most? 1.Sexy nurse 2.French Maid 3.Police Wo...
A. 23 September 2008: Get out the Saran Wrap and be a sandwich.... (read in full...)
She wants him to give her money, if he doesn't - he doesn't get any sex either.
Q. I met a 40yr old man that had been living with a 19 yr old and he was gaga over her. she decided to call it quits. Though it boosted his ego 'cause of her age, said he probably would not ever get it again {the age thing}. He has been married to an a...
A. 23 September 2008: This is ridiculous, move on.... (read in full...)
I want to have sex, will it hurt?
Q. im 12 years old and my boyfreind is 23 years old,we want to have sex will it hurt and will he have to force his penis in me?...
A. 23 September 2008: Doesn't anyone look at the dates?... (read in full...)
He's all I ever think of and he's just asked me out, why can't I bring myself to accept his invitation??
Q. hey y'all this guy im like head over heels for, asked me out earlier this morning in school, we've been talking for months. But why can't i get myself to say yes to him? even though he's all I ever think of? im major confused. love ...
A. 22 September 2008: Maybe you are a little afraid...is this your very first date with a guy?... (read in full...)
I'm worried my stretchmarks will wreck my relationship with him.
Q. I have a problem, i have stretchmarks on the top of my legs. my boyfriend doesnt no about it, but i dont want to have sex with him incase he does see them. i am worried that it is going to wreck the relationship. Does anyone have any advice on what...
A. 22 September 2008: Any relationship that can be ruined by stretchmarks is not much of a relationship, at least it isn't one worth having. They are caused by your body growing faster than you skin can adjust and are scar tissue. They will fade in time but they never ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him just to keep the relationship going?
Q. hi .. my boyfriend and i have known eachother for over 6 months now .. and we havnt had sex yet. He has been asking me to have sex with, but im just nervous. i realy love him and he said he feels the same way, and just the other day he said to me i ...
A. 22 September 2008: Hell no. He just wants to get into your pants. This is blackmail my dear. Do not allow him to have that power. Hold firm on the no sex and if he walks, let him. You will regret having sex before you are ready much more than losing him, I can assure ... (read in full...)
Does a person's forehead change over time?
Q. A girl the other week said to me and i quote "my god you have a horribly massive forehead" lol. this took me by surprise and ever since i have been paranoid about it. subsequent comments have also been made so i looked at pictures of when i was 18 ...
A. 19 September 2008: I heard ears do too.... (read in full...)
Do guys lie to other guys about their sexual encounters with women?
Q. Ok, here's a great question, I think. Do guys lie to other guys about their sexual encounters with women? For example, if 2 guys like the same gal and the one guy has sex with her, does he tell the other guy that the sex was great, or that it ...
A. 19 September 2008: Hell yes, in fact I think some guys love to gossip and tell tales every bit as much as some females.... (read in full...)
He's got the biggest hold over me and my life, everything is about him. How will I ever get over this?
Q. I lied to my ex about being pregnant. Im not. He split with me 6 weeks ago, we were together a year. 2 weeks later he started seeing another girl.I was very hurt but I let him get on with it. The 3 weeks ago I heard that him and his new gf were ...
A. 19 September 2008: If it is possible for you to move then do it. It will help your recovery if you don't constantly run into him on the street. I know you said you don't want to hear it, but there is no magic wand that can make the pain go away, just time. Try to stay ... (read in full...)
I need some Agony Aunts to keep me in their prayers!
Q. Hi, I'm one of your agony aunts, but this time I need your help. I would just ask you all send me love, strength and support for what I'm about to go through. My husband's viza has not been granted, and we have to go for interview next week. You ...
A. 3 September 2008: You got it chickie! Chin up!... (read in full...)
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