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writes:i love my boyfriend but i want more. he can be quite shy when it comes to even leg touching and he says he wants to kiss me but he always chickens out, and we ave had PLENTY of opportunitites!but there is this guy i like who is prepared to go all the way if i want and he knows i would be cheating but he doesnt care.i guess what my question would be is: is cheating just as bad if my bf doesnt find out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni told the guy to stop hitting onto me and that i wasnt going to cheat. i came to my senses and realised how wrong that was of me.:):)
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (7 October 2008):
 If a tree falls in the woods and there is no one to hear it...does it makes a sound?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): The real issue at hand is the one every one is missing. You are about fourteen and you are oppurtunistic about having sex or going all the way.....in my day they called a girl a name for that.
Try keeping your knees together and your knickers on. You don't care about having a boyfriend my dear....so go on and hang around other guys, but all you will get is a reputation and possibly an unwanted STD or worse an unwanted pregnancy......I think you may want to ask yourself why you are not using your brain.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (7 October 2008):
 Is murder still bad if the police doesn't catch you?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (7 October 2008):
Is killing someone still bad if you don't get caught and no one misses the person you killed?
YES!! Doing a bad thing is bad.
If you are unhappy in your relationship then end it. Tell him you like him but that he is obviously not ready for a real relationship yet.
Then you can do what you like with this other boy. But when you say "go all the way" I really hope you don't mean you want to have sex because you are far too young. Make out by all means but don't risk pregnancy and disease by having sex.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): cheating is just as bad even if your bf doesnt find out. It still says the same thing about youa s a person. You are very young. If you want more, why not take a break with your bf and have your fun, and if your really love him, it will work out in the future. But honestly, you probably are jsut carried away wiht the idea of love more than anything!
Have fun but dont hurt your bf, end it with him, it will be much better than hurting him by cheating!
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