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My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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I had sex with a girl and then had sex with her sister too. Should I try to talk to the one I like, or would that make it worse?
Q. I have a pretty odd situation I'm in right now that I'd like some advice on: Basically, I was friends with a girl for about 2 years, she used to have a boyfriend during this period, so it was always friendly chat, I never tried to flirt with her o...
A. 27 May 2013: I don't think it would be playing games or be seen as such... You have a legitimate reason, you are training and very busy, ( I guess she knows that ) and it's normal if you don't do spectacular extra efforts to stay in touch...with someone who's ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend suddenly needs space. Do I give him space? Or dump him?
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A. 26 May 2013: Then it's different, it's not really a problem of he wanting space or you being a bit clingy, it's a problem of you dating an addict, or someone who seems heading in that direction .
You will have to decide on your own what your values and deal... (read in full...)
I had sex with a girl and then had sex with her sister too. Should I try to talk to the one I like, or would that make it worse?
Q. I have a pretty odd situation I'm in right now that I'd like some advice on: Basically, I was friends with a girl for about 2 years, she used to have a boyfriend during this period, so it was always friendly chat, I never tried to flirt with her o...
A. 26 May 2013: Yes, I think too that if it was a flat out, never again NO, she would not stay in touch and would not reply texts.
I guess she is a bit on the fence on this, half interested half weirded out . Not by what her sis did, or by what you did with the ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid its going to come down to my g/f choosing either me or her mom. Do I walk away now?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for about seven months now. We have a very healthy and happy relationship. Recently, though, I've come across a bit of an internal dilemma. She has never been in a relationship with a woman before until me. I thou...
A. 26 May 2013: Why do you have to choose for her ? She is a thinking feeling reasoning adult too, I guess. At some point she will have to decide ( now I feel it may be too early, since it is a relatively new relationship and you cannot know yet if it's a forever ... (read in full...)
I had sex with a girl and then had sex with her sister too. Should I try to talk to the one I like, or would that make it worse?
Q. I have a pretty odd situation I'm in right now that I'd like some advice on: Basically, I was friends with a girl for about 2 years, she used to have a boyfriend during this period, so it was always friendly chat, I never tried to flirt with her o...
A. 26 May 2013: N 91 !! I am speechless . Is this you or your evil twin ? Where's the angelic, romantic,sensitive young Uncle that we all used to know in the past ? This is as if IAmHereToHelpYou announced that she is going to work as a stripper in Las Vegas ... (read in full...)
My husband being a night owl is causing problems in our marriage
Q. My husband is a night owl whilst i quite like my sleep! But the difference is annoying not only at home but socially. Like we were at a wedding yesterday and i had work the next day - i said maybe we could go home around 12. But we agreed o...
A. 25 May 2013: Op, married does not mean joined at the hips. If this happened every single day of every single week, or if your husband was a raging alcoholic, I'd be with you.
But for once that there's a special occasion, a wedding, and he wants to let loos... (read in full...)
Is it normal for ex wives/husbands going on vacation together normal?
Q. I am on my third marriage/my wife also her third. My wife is going on vacation with her grown kids, grandchildren and with her ex husband from her first marriage. The ex is bringing his girlfriend also. I just find it strange that she would want to ...
A. 25 May 2013: Normal as in usual, no- but it's not unheard of. When children are grown up, and the exes have long stopped playing the war of Roses, and basically nobody gives a damn anymore and the situation has no emotional charge, being around the exes on ... (read in full...)
Does my sons dad love our son or is he just hanging around for sex from me?
Q. I met my ex almost four years ago. We had known each other a few mnth and i fell pregnant. He is from africa and when i met him he had two yrs before visa ran out.we had a pretty good relationship. But the situation was hard i didnt think he wa...
A. 25 May 2013: Is he paying for child support ?
No ?
If not... very bad. Consider that , the money he is so happy to spend on b and b so that he can have sex, is money that should go for your child 's upkeep . And /or, for this child's future and educatio... (read in full...)
He wouldn't even say "happy birthday" to me after I used all my lunch money to buy him birthday presents!
Q. i like this guy who talks to a lot of girls and we started talking and texting for two weeks and we even stayed up together until 3 before but then things started to change..he found out that i like him and just started to ignore me. yesterday was ...
A. 25 May 2013: Ignore him back and stop acting silly and making yourself ridicolous. The guy is not into you, ( which we cannot blame him for, it's not that he REFUSES on purpose to be attracted to you just to spite you ! ) but the bad thing we CAN blame him ... (read in full...)
Should I tolerate this kind of behavior from my boyfriend?
Q. Last night I went to a bar with my boyfriend, we went to order the drinks and the bartender was an old man. After that we sat in a table and were talking, all of a sudden my boyfriend started saying bad things to me, he said i was a bitch and go ...
A. 25 May 2013: Heck no, you should not tolerate that. Why should you tolerate being called names and berated ANYWAY, and most of all you if you haven't done anything wrong !
If he is paranoically jealous that's HIS problem, you should not make it yours. Part of t... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is attending a wedding, his ex will be there and it's also my birthday. How should I read his request that I not attend the wedding?
Q. Hi, I am confused about what to do and how to feel... My boyfriend will attend the wedding of a high school classmate. They are not close friends. They haven't seen each other for 2 years. He invited him to his wedding 3 weeks before the weddi...
A. 25 May 2013: I'd say, I'd take it at face value. You don't know anybody at the wedding, not even the groom if I got it right. The only person you would know is your bf.So, not only he wants spare you the trouble, the expense and the utter boredom of having to ... (read in full...)
How can I get this man to commit to me?
Q. Hi all. I'm 21 and my boyfried is 39. Yes, I realize the age difference but that's never mattered to me and my parents don't seem to mind much. We've been together since I was 18 and for being my age, that's a long time. Yes, we've both had a few ...
A. 25 May 2013: You can't " get him " to commit if he does not want to , since you can 't ever MAKE people do what goes against their wishes, unless by the use of physical force.
If at 39 and after 3 years of steady relationship he is not ready to comm... (read in full...)
Whenever things go wrong I want to end the relationship! Why does he put up with me?
Q. I don't know what to do. I need some serious help/advice for my anger. I'm a 23-year old female and my bf is a 29 year old male. Whenever I get upset about something in the relationship, I immediately move to end it. For eg my boyfriend will s...
A. 25 May 2013: If you are so reactive, you may have an anger management problem, and you may benefit from counseling/ therapy.
That's not just for people who become physically abusive or dangerous or smash objects or yells at the top of their lungs. Also even... (read in full...)
I confronted my friend about never paying when we go out together. Was this the right way to deal with the situation? Please advise?
Q. I have a friend who never pays for her drinks when we go out to bars. She is the one that ussualy drives, so I always buy her first drink, but then she kind of assumes that the whole nite is on me. It happened already so many times, that I fi...
A. 25 May 2013: I think it's simply a matter of going by different codes.
I was raised too in the belief that you never accept inviations that you are not able or willing to reciprocate. If somebody invites you for dinner at their house, then it's IMPLIED that... (read in full...)
If he was backing off from me, why go to such lengths to show that this girl is just his friend?
Q. I have a quick question about male behavior. I have a friend i work with.. He was real flirty and and a big group of us went out and he was all about me. I didn't really think a whole lot on it since he was going through a divorce and we were all ...
A. 25 May 2013: The first part is easy to decode. He put out feelers to see if you'd be into something veeery casual - and sexual. You made it known that this is not the case , hence his pulling back .The extent of his interest was limited to things you would not ... (read in full...)
Do you think rejection hurts worse than being cheated on?
Q. I understand rejection happens to all of us at some point, but damn I've been rejected twice in the past two months for the first time in my life. I'm trying to reevaluate where I might have messed up, or maybe it's not something I did, it's just me ...
A. 24 May 2013: No, personally I don't.
First, as you say, rejection is a fact of life : you don't get chosen for all the jobs you apply to, for all the offices you run for, for all the auditions you show up to etc.etc, and you do not even get all the guys you ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend thinks I take advantage of his kindness
Q. I love my boyfriend very much, and he loves me. He is 5 years older than me,he thinks of me as marriage material. Hes a great guy and booked a flight for us to get away for a long weekend.He has a good job and loves to take me out for dinner etc.im ...
A. 24 May 2013: ...And are you really surprised that now he wants to break up ? Your bf must be a very patient man if this is your normal M.O. , but every patience has a limit and he might have reached his. The most loving partner eventually gets tired of being ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend pointed out a larger girl to me and said if I ever got that fat he would dump me!
Q. I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for just under 4 years. At the weekend we were on a night out and he pointed out a woman on the dancefloor who was probably a UK size 14/16 and he told me if I ever get as fat as that he will dump me! Now this ...
A. 24 May 2013: I see were you are coming from , OP, and yet I think that your Bf took a harder bashing than he should from us posters.
In a perfect world, we should love people just for their immortal souls - but in practice we don't, and it's pointless to igno... (read in full...)
Does sleeping in separate beds always lead to the end of a relationship?
Q. does sleeping in separate beds always lead to the end of a relationship? i ask because my fiance and i live together and i find it hard to sleep next to him due to his snoring. i've had important professional exams today, so for the last week, he's ...
A. 24 May 2013: I'd have to say no, it does not . My parents slept in separate rooms for most of their long, and happy, marriage.
My father was not only a terrible snorer, but he also would talk loud in his sleep , and SING in his sleep , or even declame poet... (read in full...)
Living with an abusive partner but we are not together!
Q. I was in a relationship for ~8years. In JULY 2012 HE kicked me out of his house. Then wen me and my son had no place to live he paid for my ticket back to live at his house and raise our son. We r not together anymore. During those past years he ...
A. 23 May 2013: OP, what opinions do you want ? what do you want us to say ?
You know it all already. You know what you should do, and we can only repeat what you already know you should do : take your son and move out.
Who frigging cares what this guy is ,... (read in full...)
How can I create a moment with this older guy?
Q. Recently I've developed feelings for a guy- a guy who is four years older than me. And who happens to be my vice drama teacher. We've been talking a lot recently, not just about basic topics but also deeper, more meaningful things. I know nothing...
A. 23 May 2013: First things first : don't get distracted, don't get confused. As an actor doing scene study, you have to focus on the scene, and on the characters, not on your scene partner and on how you relate to him as a person. If you are doing Romeo and ... (read in full...)
Ex BF says he won't consider a reconciliation if I go on a holiday with my friend! What should I do?
Q. I have been split up with my ex for 3 weeks now. We were living together and he said he wanted a break. We have argued constantly over the 2 years it seems he wants me of a weekday then of a weekend he just wants his mates. I can admit I have bee...
A. 23 May 2013: Excuse me, but haven't you answered your question yourself ?
IF he wants you back,which atm is not even certain, all the prize you win is a selfish guy that does what he wants -( because you've always let him ),with whom you have been arguing for ... (read in full...)
My bf's sex drive has dropped and I am worried he may not be interested in me. Help!
Q. Hi all, I'm having insecurities about sex and my boyfriend. He's recently started a low carb diet to get more in shape. He's a trainer and knows a lot about food. He says his sex drive has dropped since he started it. We were doing it about 4...
A. 23 May 2013: I won't be of much help, and I am no fitness expert, all I can say is that I remember my friend who's a personal trainer telling me the opposite, i.e. that carbs make you sluggish and can lower your sex drive, while a high protein, low carb diet ... (read in full...)
How do I teach my partner to apologise and show him it isnt a sign of weakness?
Q. My partner doesn't know how to sincerely apologise. He can do something wrong but he will never say sorry, let alone mean it. He will most likely get angry with me and find something to blame me for and turn it all around. My question is, how...
A. 23 May 2013: OP, I think you got the comments in the wrong way. I think what most people here is tryng to say,it's not that your bf is bad seed and he's beyond redemption. Simply, that for teaching stuff to people, they have to WANT to learn. What if they don't ... (read in full...)
Is he using me? He gives me no physical contact but wants me to buy things for him!
Q. So, I have been dating my boyfriend for a couple weeks now. So far I have bought dinners, lunch, he told me he needed sunglasses, and then that he needed rent. He doesnt have a car and have been running him up and down the road. I dont particularly ...
A. 23 May 2013: Op, you must be joking. He would be using you EVEN IF he'd give you plenty of physical contact,- physical contact normally is not something thay you have topay for or bribe for buying stuff or paying rent etc. And in the first two weeks ? lunch, ... (read in full...)
Can you think of advice that could give me encouragement with the big life change I'm facing?
Q. Hello Aunts and Uncles: It seems like I need encouragement. I wish it were something my folks could give me. I have been in a stable and loving relationship with my boyfriend for over 4 years. I am in my mid-twenties now and he is in his thirtie...
A. 23 May 2013: Ok, you want encouragement and I will encourage, I promise :)
First ,though ,let me tell you where I think your parents' attitude is coming from , beside their conservative mindset, and (reasonable ) worries about the economy.
You do not sound li... (read in full...)
Every few days we have anal sex but I hate it and scares me to think of having it all my life!
Q. Hello! Straight to the facts: I have a rather big problem in my nearly perfect relationship. For introduction, I must inform you that I am (23) in relationship for nearly 7 month, 2 month ago we have moved together, he is so much caring and lovin...
A. 23 May 2013: What's " love and care " got to do with being forced into unwanted sexual acts ? Do you feel that you have to pay him back for his love and care with your body ? heck no- love and care are free, do not ask for compensation, and if you want to ... (read in full...)
How do I ask my parents permission to stay over at my Bf's house so I can meet his parents?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly three months. We met through my friend going out with his friend (kinda complicated but that's the basics). I'm 17 and he's 19. He's met my parents and he wants me to meet his, and they're really ...
A. 22 May 2013: I take it that the blah blah blah opinions of all this bunch of nosy judgemental strangers must be sort of similar to those of your own parents ,though... since they have not been informed about the sleeping arrangements...
If you think your... (read in full...)
One more day at school. Would it seem weird if I gave two guys at school my number?
Q. So I like this guy and he knows. He's ok with it and yea. So my last day of school is in a couple days and I want to give him my number so we can contact each other. And also I have this really good guy friend who is moving and I wanna give him...
A. 22 May 2013: No worries, IAmHereToHelpYou, we are still two peas in a pod :). I will graciously and officially concede that you have much much more than me the pulse of what's hot and what's not in teenage circles, and that my advice is inevitably influenced ... (read in full...)
This girl seems a bit too interested in my fiance so after she hung up on me repeatedly I told my fiance he couldnt drive 5 hours to pick her up from the rodeo. Did I over-react?
Q. I have been living together with my boyfriend for 7 years now, we are engaged, he's very naive and always try to cheer people up if they look upset especially his female friends.. One of them is his step cousin, his step Dad brother's wife niece ...
A. 22 May 2013: Yes and no.
You UNDERreacted at the beginning, when your bf accepted to drive 5 hours to , basically, take on a date ... his' stepdad's brother's wife's niece. I mean come on , this is a BIG favour, a favour I would not have asked to my own dad.... (read in full...)
So girls, would you rather have a chat and a long cuddle etc from a guy you are attracted to, or better that he not approach you at all, if he can't give you more time?
Q. Question for girls, I have quite long periods when I don't have time to date girls, due to time restraints of work and being on call there. My job requires me at times to be in the busy nightlife area. I often get signals from girls trying to get me ...
A. 22 May 2013: Op, I did not say it " should not " be erotic. I am saying, if it's erotic, as the red blooded male that you are , just portray it, communicate it , ACT on it as erotic , without passing it off , to yourself or to them, as "just cuddles " or ... (read in full...)
One more day at school. Would it seem weird if I gave two guys at school my number?
Q. So I like this guy and he knows. He's ok with it and yea. So my last day of school is in a couple days and I want to give him my number so we can contact each other. And also I have this really good guy friend who is moving and I wanna give him...
A. 22 May 2013: Go ahead and give them your number. It's just a phone number, it's not a marriage proposal !
There's nothing weird if you wish to stay in touch, one is a good friend, and the other is a crush .. who knows he is a crush and he's OK with it.
Just ... (read in full...)
How do I teach my partner to apologise and show him it isnt a sign of weakness?
Q. My partner doesn't know how to sincerely apologise. He can do something wrong but he will never say sorry, let alone mean it. He will most likely get angry with me and find something to blame me for and turn it all around. My question is, how...
A. 22 May 2013: You realize that teaching him to say " sorry " does not mean also teaching him to FEEL sorry .
So what's the point in teaching him that saying sorry does not mean defeat, only means that you see you did wrong- if in his heart he does NOT see he d... (read in full...)
Had the second date and I really like her, but she's not responded to my texts for a week!
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have been on two dates with a wonderful woman and over the course of these dates I have found out that she is perfect for me in every way. The problem is that even though the dates were successful it seems that I'm n...
A. 22 May 2013: I don't think you have done anything wrong on the second date , or that you could /should have done something different.
I guess it's simply that even if the dates went OK, she all in all is not attracted enough / interested enough to carve out ... (read in full...)
So girls, would you rather have a chat and a long cuddle etc from a guy you are attracted to, or better that he not approach you at all, if he can't give you more time?
Q. Question for girls, I have quite long periods when I don't have time to date girls, due to time restraints of work and being on call there. My job requires me at times to be in the busy nightlife area. I often get signals from girls trying to get me ...
A. 22 May 2013: I don't think it's strange that a 36-40 y.o man is attracted to much younger women , it may be socially and psychologically not advisable in many cases, but it's natural.
What I find strange, is that this 36-40 man can't just have balls and ACT ... (read in full...)
He doesn't seem to understand why I would be upset that he wants to hang out with a sexy young flight attendant and her friend!
Q. My boyfriend met a sexy young flight attendant at a bar last year. She lives in another city and is 30 years his junior. He says he wants to hang out with her and her friend this weekend because he wants to try to set up one of his buddies (also 30 ...
A. 22 May 2013: Oh what a good Samaritan of a friend. I vote for fishy. If your husband just wanted to set up his friend, he could simply give him the flight attendant's phone no, or viceversa.
I think you should call his bluff and say you'll go along too and ... (read in full...)
Why do I miss him, even after a week? He dumped me!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years dumped me last week. He was very abusive for that past 6 months. Long story short, I haven't called him since the day he dumped me. I'm making myself busy at work so I won't have time to mope. But for the past 2 days...
A. 22 May 2013: A week is nothing !, what you are going through is quite normal. You miss what you know, what you are familiar with . I read somewhere that even people who come out of jail after many years frequently have bouts of nostalgia for prison life and ... (read in full...)
Could my decision hurt me in any way and what do you think of FWB?
Q. Hi. Im 18 young and single. I am getting ready to graduate from high school and will be heading off to college shortly. I have done extremely well and am graduating with a 3.9 gpa. I figure with the year coming to a close why not have some fun. So ...
A. 22 May 2013: I think that , at 18, you'd be way out of your depth and in a few weeks you'd be writing to Dear Cupid " I am in an FWB relationship with this guy, ...at first I just had sexual feelings for him ,but now I am starting falling for him, and I wonder ... (read in full...)
What is appropriate? From the moment I was introduced to this woman, she has been rude and condescending to me. Do I stay home or demand he end the friendship?
Q. I have been living with my boyfriend for the last year. Very early in our relationship I was introduced to a female friend/colleague of his. This woman was the partner of one of his close friends, he knew them as a couple for almost 20 years. The ...
A. 22 May 2013: I don't think it's right or reasonable to choose friends for a grown up man, and/or to demand that your partner sees only people who get your full seal of approval.
If this woman were a threat for the solidity of your couple, perhaps- but I thin... (read in full...)
So girls, would you rather have a chat and a long cuddle etc from a guy you are attracted to, or better that he not approach you at all, if he can't give you more time?
Q. Question for girls, I have quite long periods when I don't have time to date girls, due to time restraints of work and being on call there. My job requires me at times to be in the busy nightlife area. I often get signals from girls trying to get me ...
A. 21 May 2013: Sure, OP, let's agree to disagree , and I accept that your personal experiences and observations, in different places , times and social milieus from mine, suggests you differently. I would be more of a dickhead than I normally am credited for ... (read in full...)
What do you think his deal is? Does he just want to be friends with benefits? Or is he just shy and reserved?
Q. This guy I've been hooking up with, seeing, hanging out with...not sure what to call it, is confusing me so much. I'm so unsure of how he feels towards me. Right now, I would describe our relationship as FWB. We met at work. At work, he remains...
A. 21 May 2013: It sounds like a normal FWB to me.
I don't know where people got the idea that FWBs cannot have conversations, cuddle, spend the night, etc- and that FWB must mean " right after sex you put your panties on and are out of the door ". In fact, it's... (read in full...)
So girls, would you rather have a chat and a long cuddle etc from a guy you are attracted to, or better that he not approach you at all, if he can't give you more time?
Q. Question for girls, I have quite long periods when I don't have time to date girls, due to time restraints of work and being on call there. My job requires me at times to be in the busy nightlife area. I often get signals from girls trying to get me ...
A. 21 May 2013: Then maybe you got asleep halfway through the Sunday sermon OP, because you have missed the basic points : I was not talking about unwelcome touching, which would be , anyway, not a cuddle , but ..a criminal charge .
I was talking about will... (read in full...)
So girls, would you rather have a chat and a long cuddle etc from a guy you are attracted to, or better that he not approach you at all, if he can't give you more time?
Q. Question for girls, I have quite long periods when I don't have time to date girls, due to time restraints of work and being on call there. My job requires me at times to be in the busy nightlife area. I often get signals from girls trying to get me ...
A. 20 May 2013: OP, no offence but your question sounded a little bit bizarre to me. It's like you are surprised that some girls ( MOST girls, I'd say ) could very possibly be cheesed off. Why are you surprised ?
Communication is based on codes, social codes that... (read in full...)
How do I ask my parents permission to stay over at my Bf's house so I can meet his parents?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly three months. We met through my friend going out with his friend (kinda complicated but that's the basics). I'm 17 and he's 19. He's met my parents and he wants me to meet his, and they're really ...
A. 18 May 2013: OP, if I were your mom and read your update with its fuzzy approximative incorrect notions about safe sex, and its totally naive assumptions ( less than 3 months...in a LDR.. and he has PROVEN to you "he is different " )... I would not let you go ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend suddenly needs space. Do I give him space? Or dump him?
Q. My boyfriend of 5 months suddenly says he needs to "reconnect" with his friends (aka drinking buddies) and plans to stay out every Friday night with them. He says I'm not invited "for now" - and besides I work at 7AM on Saturdays and he wants to s...
A. 14 May 2013: I agree with k_c 100. I am a woman too, and, personally, I never wanted and would not want now a partner tied to my apron's strings 365 nights in a year. Yes, maybe his passtimes are a bit " juvenile "... but, if you feel uncomfortable evry time ... (read in full...)
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