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Why do I have to be my own mother? What do I do with my real one?

Q.   I cannot live with my father because of legal issues between my siblings. I have moved out of there and into my mothers house. She has cheated on my father and continues to have this affair which includes extremely late nights where i cannot reach ...

A.   14 July 2014: My older brother and sister legally can't come in contact with me because of domestic abuse charges. I was attacked at that house. The reason why I have not moved out yet is because of money. This is why I'm working two jobs. I clean the house all ... (read in full...)

I'm lesbian and I don't now how to tell My family

Q.   Help !!! I have Been lesbian since i remember but the problem is that nobody knows just a friend but i dont now how to tell My parents im afraid they are going to judge me and the thing is that i have to fake that i like guys ...

A.   26 December 2012: tell them.its even worst that you have to fake liking guys, you should not have to fake anything. they will figure out later on in your life which will be more of a shock because you faked it for so long. you never know what will happen until you ... (read in full...)

What are general tips on the types of places suitable for 1st and 2nd dates?

Q.   I met somebody from an online dating site. We went to a starbucks near where she lived. There was background music playing and I couldn't hear her properly because she was speaking very softly ( I didn't like her that much, so won't be seeing her ...

A.   26 December 2012: movies and dinners are very typical and expected. it does not give you the chance to talk much either because you'll either be too busy eating, or watching the movie. try something out of the box. google any seasonal fairs or something as small as ... (read in full...)

Keep the baby, adoption, or abortion?

Q.   Im 19 yrs old and i just found out that im pregnant. I was taking the pill, have been for 3 mos. Idk how but i must have taken it wrong or maybe it just failed. Anyways my current bf and i have been dating 8mos. He is rather self absorbed, and is ...

A.   12 September 2012: Do not think about what your mother or boyfriend want...Think about what you want. It sounds like you are wondering whether or not to do the abortion based on the relationship with your boyfriend. A baby will not save the relationship but it is not ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid after all this we are just friends but I really like him. This always happens to me, please help.

Q.   I'm not proud of myself for resigning to asking strangers for help but it should show you just how much I care lol. I'm 27. A few months ago a girlfriend of mine had a stag party. There, I met her friend who I've known for a while but never actually ...

A.   29 August 2012: sleeping together is never a "just friends" status. if you feel in your heart there is a chance for it to go further than take that chance but i think if you feel like a booty call then its time to end this. you either discuss a status for the two ... (read in full...)

I like him, he's obviously not in it for sex, so what's up?

Q.   Hi! I need some advice about a guy I like, or am possibly in love with. I'm going to warn you, this might end up longer than expected... We're classmates, he is nice, kind, funny, smart a bit silly sometimes. There is only one problem..he seems to...

A.   19 May 2012: Stop trying for him. It sounds like he's tryna get your goods because if he feels able to let you know he makes out with different girls in a single night...he knows you will always be there for him to run back to.... (read in full...)

What are the chances my girlfriend still loves her ex?

Q.   this is a question going out to the ladies out there, can you go from a 4 year relationship to a new relationship (say within 1 year) and love the new guy? To make the story short, I basically starting going out with a girl who got out of 4 year r...

A.   10 May 2012: There is so reason for you not to trust her. Four years is a long time but everybody is different. She is no longer with him , she is with you now. Keep an open mind and do not let your paranoia in the way..because without any solid proof she end up ... (read in full...)

We're friends with benefits but I think I'd like to be in a relationship

Q.   Im 16 ad male, she is 16 as well! One night we were at a party and she told me that she had given up on relationships because so many of hers had failed. I said to her that i k ew what she meant! She then told me that she wanted a friend with ...

A.   10 May 2012: the truth about FWB is that ..it will always be FRIENDS With Benefits. what i believe is that you are feeling an emotional attachment to her seeing as you list your virginity to her. Do not persue a relationship...she may not want it, she is hurt ... (read in full...)

Fiance blames me and calls me dumb

Q.   Dear Cupid, My partner and I have been together for 6 years and recently, we are engaged and going to get married soon. However, things been up and down and I've been feeling really confused and depressed and started to doubt. I'm afraid, worried ...

A.   10 May 2012: Please do not marry this man. PLEASE! there is so much wrong with what you said in the last paragraph. "When his mood is good, he will treat me well but if his mood is bad, it will be other wise." You should NEVER adapt in a way where your f... (read in full...)

Why he is making a big deal over a missed call from me? We are friends!

Q.   Hey Cupid, I have a question. I'm really good friends with this guy that I've known for a little over a year. We hang out and talk on the phone regularly. We haven't dated at all, except remain best friends and I'd like to keep it that way. Las...

A.   10 May 2012: i agree with the previous answer. maybe he likes you but is just afraid of another man having you. No guy with feelings for you wants to be friend zoned and watch you with another male. he could also just be feeling that he doesnt want to feel left ... (read in full...)

How should I go about this (asking her out) or should I just forget about her and move on?

Q.   Hi. I am 15, a freshman in a private high school. I like this one girl, a junior, who's 16, and she doesn't like me, for one reason or another. I have never had a girlfriend, and that's because I've never had the guts to ask a girl out. How should I ...

A.   10 May 2012: If you are really good friends with her brother , maybe you can speak with him to see what she likes and maybe even tell him how you feel about her. Be friends with her, that may be easier for you to move in ! Good luck... (read in full...)

Should I leave him alone to stop being desperate, or be always after him?

Q.   Dear Cupid, My x said that he loves me I do too., but he keeps on flirting. Whenever I talk to him, he doesnt wanna talk, he seems like a bad mood, but whenver he's in a good mood he wanna talk and that gets annoying, so should I leave him alone to...

A.   10 May 2012: leave him. He feels that he's able to contact you whenever he FEELS like it and that youre always going to jump to talk to him. Dont give him that satisfaction, as said by others ...he is an ex and let him play that title.... (read in full...)

Is he interested in me or am I just reading him wrong?

Q.   As a 24-year-old woman, I should probably be able to figure these things out by now. I’m guessing most people got over asking this type of question in grade school. Problem is, I have some sort of undiagnosed social disorder (most likely Asperger’s) ...

A.   6 May 2012: He sounds pretty interested to me! He has even brought up going somewhere with you. He has also brought up topics that aren't regularly discussed with customers and things like that. Spend more time with him if he seems cool, i mean there no harm in ... (read in full...)

I have little tolerance. Do I give up too easily on girls?

Q.   I'm wondering if I give up too easily on girls. The reason I ask is Because I have a short tolerance for them. For instance. Just today I finally got up the nerve to talk to this girl that I had been crushing on for a while. I went to her table to ...

A.   6 May 2012: It does seem early to check her off your potential list so quickly. I personally think you are doubting your ability. Unless she tells you youre being a pest or becomes clearly annoyed of you, i dont see a reason to give up on her. But what she did ... (read in full...)

How can I talk to my crush without being nervous?

Q.   I have this crush on a guy in my class and he has a crush on me and we both really like each other. Now about a month and we didn't like each other and we were really good friends and we could have normal conversations. But now that we know we like ...

A.   6 May 2012: You both opening up about feelings is a very good start! Try relaxing before you talk to him, take deep breaths and slowly stimulate conversation. Maybe try going out somewhere like a movie. You are still spending time together and you arent able to ... (read in full...)

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