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anonymous
writes:i like this guy who talks to a lot of girls and we started talking and texting for two weeks and we even stayed up together until 3 before but then things started to change..he found out that i like him and just started to ignore me. yesterday was my birthday and he wont even say happy birthday to me..he knows that its my birthday but he just wont say it to me...what should i do..i used all my lunch money to buy him presents for his birthday but now he wont even say hbd to me.. i said hey to him more than a week ago and he ignored me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for the answers! but i didn't tell him i liked him..he just heard it from other people. and he didnt ask me for presents, i bought it for him myself. also, i tried telling him that i dont like him and tried to explain as much as a i can because its making our friendship even worse but it didnt change a thing..
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reader, Tenderlovingcare  +, writes (25 May 2013):
 Have you considered that maybe he thought of you more as a friend, and then it may have come as a shock to him when you told him you liked him? I remember when I was your age and boys used to happily talk and then I'd stupidly think that them talking to me meant they liked me. You'll be okay. There's plenty of fish in the sea, and you'll find yours eventually but he's not the one for you :). Don't waste your teenage years on boys. I made that mistake! All I ever did was think about people I liked and who didn't like me back, and if I went to a party maybe this person would notice me etc. It all just got repetitive and now I've come to realize that i wasted all of those years, because I didn't even meet my fish until I was 17 and that was when I stopped looking. Now we're getting married :).
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (25 May 2013):
 Ignore him back and stop acting silly and making yourself ridicolous. The guy is not into you, ( which we cannot blame him for, it's not that he REFUSES on purpose to be attracted to you just to spite you ! ) but the bad thing we CAN blame him for is that he is taking advantage of your crush to get himself money and presents . If I was your mom, btw, I'd be mad, - lunch money is for you and not to squander it away spoiling strangers !
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2013): He must not be interested in you, or maybe he likes you too but isn't sure how to react about it.
Either way simply ignoring you is pretty rude. I would try maybe one last time to talk to him and ask why is he being like this. If he doesn't answer there's not much you can do. Maybe (if you have any) a mutual friend knows?
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