Should I keep in touch and message him from time to time? Or leave it to him? And how long are we on hold for?
Q. i met someone in february at a friends party and we hit it off immediately, only he suffers from mental health issues because of a past abusive relationship anyway recently my mum had a go at him through Facebook for going to see his friend instead ...
A. 21 May 2018: Yes I agree with femmenoir. Let him take care of him self first. From personal experience dealing with a guy with mental health issues is no joke. Especially when he’s in the process of getting better. ... (read in full...)
Too invested after a few dates?
Q. I’ve been on five dates with a guy. We slept together on three of the dates. We definitely fancied each other, but during date number four he said that his long term goal is to work away. I’ve been in a relationship in the past with someone who ...
A. 18 February 2018: you did the right thing by ending things.. But please keep in mind its sort of hard to be friends with someone you slept with and are emotionally attached to.. ... (read in full...)
I love him, but his deception can’t go on!
Q. Hi Aunts! I'm 29 years old and in an alleged relationship with a married man for the last one and a half year. It wasn't intended to happen cause we were only friends, but developed nonetheless. At first, he kept his marital status a secret from me....
A. 18 February 2018: its been a year abd a half since he told you hes getting a divorce... a year and a half.. time for you to leave him be hes playing games and stringing you along..... (read in full...)
A relationship with an attached man is making me feel so sad?
Q. I've been seeing a man who lives with his baby mama for a year and I've fallen head over heals in love with him.He told me that he was in the process of leaving her and they are not really together but idk..He still live her a year later with no ...
A. 18 February 2018: It seems like he already has plans to live with the mother of his child. Don't let his words fool you into thinking different always look at his actions. Listen, due to him having a kid with her she is going to always be in his life (18+ years) do ... (read in full...)
Help me find my way out of these abusive traps
Q. I am in a 16-year-relationship that became sexless and violent, abusive. I was thrown out the house in middle of night. I left and he wants me back. While away I met another man who I fell in love with and been seeing for a year this man seems quite ...
A. 17 November 2017: I’m very sorry that this cycle of abuse keeps going ??from a victim of domestic abuse I would say from experience it’s time to give yourself a chance. Travel the world join a gym start a new hobby but first MOVE AND STEER CLEAR OF THESE GUYS. You ... (read in full...)
How to move on after a bad relationship?
Q. Hi my name is Danielle and I am 24 years old I am currently single and living with my parents. I am writing this because I do not know how to go on and to move on with life. About a year ago I left my ex boyfriend.. I thought we were soulmates and ...
A. 10 October 2017: Hey Danielle. Sorry to hear about your breakup. Tho breakups are horrible consider yourself lucky. This breakup has saved your life in a sense. You said you were in an abusive relationship right?? Now the steps to healing is being connected to a ... (read in full...)
Should I suggest to my ex she seek professional help?
Q. I recently went through a bad breakup with a woman I thought was the one. Even though she did it in a cold hearted way I still care deeply for her and have been told that she loves me just not like I love her. The relationship is in the past so I'm ...
A. 8 October 2017: Honestly no. You move on. Chapter is over. She find out she needs help but it may not be from u. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend stole money from my purse, I broke it off but am feeling sad.
Q. I am 48 years old and in a telation with a man my age ,we r engaged but since i knew him i felt that there is something missing in the relation and i wasn't sure that i love him and kept postponing marriage.he is so kind with me and generous in ...
A. 5 October 2017: NEVER EVER SPEAK TO HIM AGAIN! who lies like that especially if their you boyfriend.. no no no ... hes not worth it ... (read in full...)
Uncertain if he lied for the right reason
Q. Hi, I have been married for 4 years to a guy who seems devoted to me. I've had a lot of problems in the past. Before I got with my husband I had been through a rough time, I had had cancer and was just finishing chemotherapy and my youngest daughter ...
A. 5 October 2017: This guy is really full of himself.. no ur not over reacting why in the h#$% would you LIE about a baby??? To get on your good side??? your panties???? wtf this is messed up.. for get forgiving him and reserve yourself for someone whos truthful with ... (read in full...)
How to forget about your ex
Q. Hi me and my ex boyfriend resently break up two months ago we were together from last year January we were on and off .. we broke up four times because people told him things I never said about him and he was believing them he block me on everything ...
A. 30 September 2017: Breakups suck no way around it. Disconnect from viewing him on social media. Take care of yourself. Love yourself more. Invest in YOU. Pick up a hobby. Travel. Join a gym. Anything to get your mind off of that guy. ... (read in full...)
Is this something I can fix by correcting a few actions in our relationship? Do I give her space and trust that she will end up with me? What do I do?
Q. My gf of 1.5 years recently told me that she likes a guy from work as as more than friends but is unsure about what to do. She said she loves me and she doesn't love him because it is too early to tell. She said she recognizes that it is unfair to ...
A. 21 September 2017: No. Let her go and be free. OP it’s like she’s telling you she has a crush on someone. She may even step out on the relationship if she hasn’t already. So this is like her forewarning you. Let her go... (read in full...)
I'm worried my boyfriend is stealing from me.
Q. Hi, I really need some advice - I've been in a very happy relationship for over six months now. My boyfriend is very loving and caring, and we've never even had an argument - we just seem very in tune with one another. But something odd happ...
A. 18 September 2017: I agree with @Anonymous 123 before you start accusing him put some money in that same spot and see if its there in a few days... ... (read in full...)
My ex came back into my life only to leave again!
Q. He reached out to me after about 6 months of not speaking, during that time he was dating someone else. We ended up meeting up to talk, and we had great conversation. He apologized for things that wet wrong with us and opened up to me that "he just ...
A. 18 September 2017: EXes are EXes for a reason. An example of what not to get with ever again. Cut him out your life 100% this time. How dare he play mind games like that just to get in your panties!! He's a discrace. ... (read in full...)
I think I'd be better off just blocking him from my life
Q. I was recently away on a holiday with a load of other people. I am gay and everyone knows this and am 38 yrs old. Whilst we were away a younger 23 yr old was being friendly with me and then hinted he wanted to come up to chat in my room. Anyhow ...
A. 12 September 2017: OP let him go. I don't think you have time for someone's wishy washy way of living... (read in full...)
My crush is being weird!
Q. last week I ended pulling a gorgeous female while I was out with my friends, and we seem to have a lot in common with each other, she always liked me at school, but for some reason we didn't end up getting together, now we are, she sent me a friend ...
A. 11 September 2017: Yes I a agree with youcannotbeserious. Don't bother chasing her just let her be. Take the hints she's giving you about Facebook as she probably has a bf and she doesn't want to mess things up with him. ... (read in full...)
/Why did my relationship status upset him so much?
Q. I am single woman with no children and look younger than my age.There is this guy Daniel at work who I have caught staring at me sometimes. Yesterday another older male coworker jokingly teased me saying that my husband spoilt me by pamperin...
A. 11 September 2017: He likes you but OP it's not worth it. He's a jeolous little boy... (read in full...)
If he's not doing anything with his ex then why did he get so mad and ignore me?
Q. Hello I would like to get your opinions on this: I've noticed how ironic it has been in the past 6 months how every time my BF's ex is online (Her Facebook shows she is online), he is also showing online but is unavailable to take my calls. I've bee...
A. 8 September 2017: Honestly the truth comes out eventually. Don't be Ms. FBI play it cool. If it so happens the truth comes out don't point it out to him. Take mental notes and act accordingly ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble putting an affair partner behind me
Q. Hello everyone reading. About nine months ago me and a married man whom I had a two year emotional affair with ended completely with a mutual understanding that we could never have a relationship due to the mess we created in his life. When it ...
A. 7 September 2017: Hey don't be so hard on yourself. We all make mistakes OP. You are a great person and you have aknowlegded that what you did was wrong. All you can do is learn from this and move on. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has just confessed that he slept with someone else
Q. I'm after some advice, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. I have never doubted our trust or believe he has ever done anything to jeopardise our relationship. Well that's what I thought until this Wednesday he called me down the...
A. 6 September 2017: From personal experience (being cheated on in a relationship) it does not make the relationship stronger at all.. If you take him back, the relationship wont feel the same and you will have your guard up 24/7... plus his respect for you may lower ... (read in full...)
What does my boyfriend mean by all his confusing statements?
Q. Hello Aunts and Uncles!!! So I'm in a bind. A month ago my bf and I had a huge disagreement with one another. We did not talk sometime after. About a week ago he contacts me apologizing and giving me confusing signs. First he says I want to be with ...
A. 5 September 2017: thanks guys for the responses!!! I blocked and deleted his number... I am standing my ground with him and keeping my word (1. never have contact 2. never go to his house again 3. done sleeping with him and staying the night) I'm disgusted with him ... (read in full...)
What does my boyfriend mean by all his confusing statements?
Q. Hello Aunts and Uncles!!! So I'm in a bind. A month ago my bf and I had a huge disagreement with one another. We did not talk sometime after. About a week ago he contacts me apologizing and giving me confusing signs. First he says I want to be with ...
A. 4 September 2017: We had dinner last night (his idea) and he first started out romantic with me. After dinner we both had a 3 hour talk as to why we shouldn't be together. He basically said its all or nothing with me and that I am the woman he dreamed of and have ... (read in full...)
Break-up, Make-Up Cycle and After a Loving Weekend, He Hasn't Called. Why?
Q. I recently left my boyfriend two weeks ago, and now we aren't talking. My purpose in leaving wasn't necessarily to break up,but because I wasn't going to tolerate the verbal and emotional abuse. He can be extremely controlling and gonon tirades. ...
A. 29 August 2017: he's verbally and emotionally abusive so why would you want him to call? No. Forget this guy. Usually that form of abuse leads to physical. Be safe and RUN from that guy he's bad news ... (read in full...)
I've just completed cancer treatment and now my toxic ex wants to come back
Q. Hi aunts, I've just completed a years worth of cancer treatment and luckily I might be OK, but my ex partner who was abusive to me during our three year relationship has got in touch saying he might want to get back together with me. He was with ...
A. 25 August 2017: DO NOT i repeat DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK!! YOU are important YOUR HEALTH is important. Stress induces sickness and from your post this a stressful toxic piece of shit man. Block that piece of shit guy and enjoy your life!!... (read in full...)
I got back with my ex but I am struggling!
Q. Hi everyone! Would I please able to get some opinions on my situation. I was with my ex boyfriend for almost a year we got on very well and had a pretty good relationship. Although towards the end we began arguing and bickering over differen...
A. 15 August 2017: Getting back with an ex is NEVER a good thing. If you have concerns that he may hook up during holiday maybe you may have to address that problem to him. If he can't get it thru his mind that you are concerned and he wants to argue with about how ... (read in full...)
Why has this man reappeared saying he's sorry things didn't work out
Q. I met a guy online a few months back. We got on well, there was chemistry and he only lived a 5 minute drive from me. Right from the start even though his profile said he was looking for a relationship I knew he was only after the physical side. ...
A. 3 August 2017: II OP wouldn't even give him any attention anymore. Maybe that might help... (read in full...)
His demands seem unreasonable. Am I being foolish?
Q. I have had a boyfriend for a long time and its got so he always wants back rubs and oral sexs all the time. I have told him that I do not want to do that without a condom. He prefers no condom. However for health issues I only do oral and other ...
A. 31 July 2017: He's degrading you homegirl. Let him go. It might hurt for a moment but you know you deserve ALOT better!!!
And what do you mean he's finding other women to give him oral??? So I'm assuming he's cheating on you and then coming back around like thi... (read in full...)
We split up 5 years ago but I still have feelings for him
Q. Hi I split up with a ex 5 years ago I know it's a long time ago but the problem is I still have feelings for him and I don't know why the relationship was very intense we fell in love straight away but he suddenly started treating me horribly I ...
A. 25 July 2017: This sounds like an issue I recently had. I'm now 29 and at 21 I fell in love with a guy named Al who was 24. We had an intense relationship and I too misscarried
A few years ago he contacted me saying he still loved me. I was also head over hee... (read in full...)
Why do men that are in relationships watch porn so much?
Q. Hi I was online the other day and porn popped up that my boyfriend had been watching ive caught him a few times watching porn but he said he only watches it about once amonth and I dont think thats true I think he watches it way more. I feel like im ...
A. 24 July 2017: I always left my toiletries at my ex boyfriends house. When I would come over my lotion would be misplaced. He told me he used it when he watched porn jokingly. Eventually he stopped watching it when we brought up the topic.
Maybe you should b... (read in full...)
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