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Boyfriend needs a rather large loan. What to do? Help!

Q.   My 24 year old boyfriend took out a loan to get some repairs done on his car, without realizing that he would have to change his insurance to be eligible for the loan. Now he's paying double what he would pay for car insurance AND an extra $50 per ...

A.   22 December 2011: Still haven't made a decision, but to everyone freaking out about me requesting interest: The money is in an account with a 1.3% APR, so if I take it out and give it to him I'm losing not only the purchasing power of the money over the 5 months, but ... (read in full...)

FWB said I love you, then took it back?

Q.   Today I was talking to my fwb when towards the end of the phone call he said "I love you". I immediately replied with "what" since it was such a shock and he repeated it. I said "no you don't" and said bye and hung up. A few minutes later he...

A.   21 December 2011: If he repeated it, it may not have been habit. He well might have feelings for you somewhere, and said that today to test the waters. If that's the case, your reaction probably made him second guess what he said, hence the taking it back. Or, h... (read in full...)

I have a gut feeling my girlfriend cheated on me last night, and possibly has been for a while. Am I just jealous or am I right to think so?

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 months. Last night she invited her old friend who used to be her drug dealer over to my home to watch a football game. Basically the three of us were just drinking and having a good time down in the basement. ...

A.   20 December 2011: Not to be a dick, but weed can make you seriously paranoid and it sounds like that's what happened to you. I've known a few people who have "tweaked out" the first time they tried weed. Some of them just completely lose it and lose control of ... (read in full...)

How do I cope with this? My husband does not love me and does not like me helping my parents

Q.   I am 21 years old and my husband is 38 years old he does not love my parents and he does not like me to help my family. so i want to divorce him . How can I get through this? please help me...

A.   7 December 2011: I think you may be jumping the gun a little. While I guess ideally you're supposed to love your in-laws as if they were your own parents, it basically never works out that way. It would be especially hard for your husband-- he's closer in age to ... (read in full...)

IS my girlfriend cheating on me? I need women's advice!

Q.   I just want to know if my girlfriend is cheating. we been together for some time but since we both in two different colleges we dont see each other as much but we do txt and talk on the phone. she recently sent me a picture and i noticed her butt is ...

A.   29 October 2011: I really hope you're not serious. There's a simple explanation: college food is ridiculously high in carbs and sometimes fat too. And if she's not doing sports, she's not going to be able to burn all that off as well as she normally does. Th... (read in full...)

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