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I like to draw and I'm pretty good I guess.I've won a couple of still life and anime drawing contests.It's a hobby.My favorite anime artist is Christopher Hart.
I also write stories, bunches of 'em and I've been compared to published authors (though nobody like the ones listed above).
My favorite artist is Eminem.No, I'm not a wannabe or an angry soul.I just like the message hidden in the curses in his lyrics.My favorite song is not by Eminem though. "Best I Ever Had". It's a good song. Oh and "Over" also by Drake. I'm not a big fan of Maroon 5, but i wake up singing "Sunday Morning" and "Tangled" more often than not.
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17 December 2010: Hello.Im writing this to honor the memory of a late friend of mine and to pass on his rather sad story. Im a freshman in highschool.When I met my friend"Justin",I was living in the Bronx in first grade. I asked him what his fave color was."...
My rant for common sense
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12 December 2010: I have this kind of horrid aversion to certain kinds of people. Let me explain. People with horrible self destructive habits or thoughts. I haven't lived a dandy life, okay? I grew up in the slums of a rough city, the Bronx with potheads and gan...
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Is my BF a racist?
Q. Hi all, I have a issue with my man, he is half Hispanic and half white He is great and funny and sweet but there's this problem A few days ago.. He told me this racist joke Like what 3 things scares a black man away and then he said a educat...
A. 21 April 2011: Jokes like this are typical in my highschool. In fact these very same jokes circulated months ago. However if you look at the U.S. 20+ years ago, or Nazi Germany, you see what real racism is. Hatred and cruelty toward someone of a different ... (read in full...)
Turns out the girl I like is my friend's sister and its just awkward
Q. Hey everyone! It's been months since I last sought the help of my favorite group of agony aunts. But here I am, imploring you for aid once more (clearly, I'm a mess :]) This is going to sound odd. Be prepared. I'm good friends with a f...
A. 14 April 2011: Right, but I've dated every other kind of girl I can with the express desire of avoiding our budding relationship.
Somehow, our relationship grew anyway. What I failed to mention previously was that our relationship is fast turning intimate desp... (read in full...)
I'm a spohmore, my BF is a Junior and a guy flirting at me is a highschool senior!!!
Q. Hi Aunties, I am a sophmore. I have a boyfriend who is a Junior and i love him but... there is this guy who is a senior in highschool and he keeps on smiling at me and flirting! and he knows i have a boyfriend. Do i tell him to back off or try ...
A. 13 April 2011: Don't screw up a good thing. You're happy with your junior, don't risk it all for a senior who probably wants you for your ass (forgive the language).
I'm a freshman; I'm in highschool; I'm well aware of how things work, so my answer will be b... (read in full...)
My rant for common sense
Q. I have this kind of horrid aversion to certain kinds of people. Let me explain. People with horrible self destructive habits or thoughts. I haven't lived a dandy life, okay? I grew up in the slums of a rough city, the Bronx with potheads and gan...
A. 13 April 2011: This is very late, but let me just say to that last anonymous reader that I don't see a reason to see a psychologist as I'm the one protesting irrational self-destructive behavior. Furthermore, my life is most certainly NOT a horror film for me to ... (read in full...)
Expensive love!
Q. dear cupid, i would like to ask, is right to spend alot of money in a relationship to impress your girlfriend....
A. 4 January 2011: Hey, if you have money like that, that's pretty cool. But like Illithid before me said, you spend tto much, the chance they're with you for the cash increases.
Also, like he said, spend money on her in intervals, surprise her. When you spen... (read in full...)
He wants to have a kid but I'm definitely NOT ready for it! Help!
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he asked me if I would have a kid with him. We are both 15 and I just laughed it off as if he was joking and when he didn't mention it for the rest of the night I thought it was a joke. The next ...
A. 21 December 2010: What she said.
Everything she said can be summed up very simply.
SCREW HIM. Who knows what his motives are? So tell him, no babies. You can find someone better than a guy who threatens you and says phony things to you for whatever reason. ... (read in full...)
Don't want to be speechless anymore!
Q. I fancy this guy but I get all tongue-tied when I see him. How can I overcome this and get flirting???...
A. 21 December 2010: Just remind yourself that he has probably taken a liking to you as well. As a guy your age, I can tell you that I am very attracted to any girl who looks half decent and has an alright personality.
Just talk to him a lot and be flirty. Don'... (read in full...)
I was sick and having hallucinations! Is this normal?
Q. I got sick the other day and began having these sick hallucinations. They were awesome, lol, but I was a little afraid my mind had been pushed to its limit like that by a simple cold (severe though it was). Is this normal? Has it happened to anyon...
A. 21 December 2010: Yeah, hopefully I'm not insane. But if I am, it can't be all that bad when you are messed up enough to seriously believe your cousin is an ostrich (that really happened!) or your cell phone is your super computer/tv remote (that too!).... (read in full...)
Unwanted attention from a 6th grader, but how to discourage her professionally and gently?
Q. Hi, I'm a freshman and I do a lot of volunteer work at the BGCA. If I have 120 registered hours at the club, I get a full credit toward my highschool transcript. I have this girlfriend, "Dana" and we're very happy. However, there's this girl who goes...
A. 20 December 2010: Thanks you guys. Rivi, you're absoluetly right. There's nothing dusgusting with her wanting my ass :). But I used that word to try to describe the extreme revulsion I feel at being in a relationship with a girl 3 years my junior. I'm 14, she's just ... (read in full...)
Do I have a crush?
Q. Hello! Now some of you may think that i am too young to think about boys but hey i can't help it i'm a girl! Anyway here is my question. I have a guy friend and he is my first friend i ever made since i came to America. I came from South Korea. He ...
A. 19 December 2010: You definitely have a crush ;D. I mean well, being a guy, I'm probably not the best person to answer. But, as a guy, I know that when I find a girl attractive, maybe I don't have a crush, but I wouldn't mind dating her you know? Could you see ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my friend to update his language and stop sounding ridiculous?
Q. Hi, I'm a freshman and I have this best friend "JP". I use slang a lot when I talk: aiight, fookie, stresst, heated, blawk, gucci, boi, fit, madd, sick, tight, etc. It just kinda rolls off my tongue jst as well as the next guy. this kind of language ...
A. 19 December 2010: Thanks for the answers this time guys. I'll keep what you've said in mind. Oh and CindyCares, it took me like ten minutes to get through your first paragraph I was laughing so hard. I've never seen a funnier reply in relation to what was being ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my friend to update his language and stop sounding ridiculous?
Q. Hi, I'm a freshman and I have this best friend "JP". I use slang a lot when I talk: aiight, fookie, stresst, heated, blawk, gucci, boi, fit, madd, sick, tight, etc. It just kinda rolls off my tongue jst as well as the next guy. this kind of language ...
A. 18 December 2010: Believe me everybody, I see what you're saying. But I failed to properly get my point across.
First of all, I don't speak slang to be like everyone else. I speak slang whether I'm talking to friends family or other adults. It's just the way I sp... (read in full...)
Very disturbing behaviour from my son
Q. Hi everyone, I hope you can take the time to help! I have a ten year old son, and since he was born he's been the sweetest, smartest, and generous boy I've ever known and wanted. He did his homework every night and I've never had to ask him twice to ...
A. 17 December 2010: Jesus, that's scary. Murder plans? The moody, dark thing is natural enough, but torturing animals and murder plans is NOT good. If you come on too strongly with the whole therapist thing, he will resent you for it. Therapy will have the opposite ... (read in full...)
My rant for common sense
Q. I have this kind of horrid aversion to certain kinds of people. Let me explain. People with horrible self destructive habits or thoughts. I haven't lived a dandy life, okay? I grew up in the slums of a rough city, the Bronx with potheads and gan...
A. 17 December 2010: Thank you TV for the insight on the outlook of a depressed and suicidal person. I am truly sorry for you, for having to endure whatever trial you hadvto to be as knowledgable as you are on this particular topic. And x waz x, thanks for the heads up ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex harrassing me?
Q. i have this ex, "Alexa". we broke up 2 years ago. now 4 girlfriends later, as freshmans in highschool she is suddenly harrassing me and my current girlfriend, "Dana". nothing good came out of my relationship with Alexa. by the end of our ...
A. 17 December 2010: Thanks Abella, I appreciate the help. And not to worry, Dana is standing strong (thank God) I don't know what I'd do without her. And you ;). Thanks.... (read in full...)
I don't love him like he loves me. but I like someone else they way they like me. can some1 help?
Q. Hey, im 13 years onld and i have been in a relationship with a 15 year old for about 3 or 4 months now.... we had a relation ship once befor this and it dident work for many reasons. anyways. he says he loves me with all his heart, and he says whe...
A. 17 December 2010: I'm happy to hear your happy. Hopefully, this situation won't happen again. If it does, remember, Tizzie and I are always here, as well as tons of people much more capable and wiser than myself. Good luck =)... (read in full...)
Was I being a good friend, or just immature?
Q. This question relates to one I asked previously (using the same fake names representing real people to make things easier). My question involved whether I should let this guy Frankie disrespect me to be the bigger man, and not fight him. However, my ...
A. 15 December 2010: thanks for the reassurance mr.idk. in my lasr question EVERY response was saying not to fight. i'm happy to know i was right this time... (read in full...)
Are YOU happy?
Q. I was just wondering. And if you are happy, what is making you happy? If you aren't happy, why aren't you happy? Stories/details are welcomed....
A. 14 December 2010: I'm kind of both. Currently, I'm happy. Overall I'm not. I'll start with why I am. I'm a freshman in highschool and I'm more than satisfied with my social status, I have an amazing, beautiful, out of my league girlfriend. However, when I was ... (read in full...)
Sad, depressed, lonely and isolated
Q. I hardly have any friends and when I think I do, I end up losing them. I end up realizing that none of them are good friends. I have tried so many different types of youth clubs and activities to try to make friends. But I never ever do! I'm not a ...
A. 14 December 2010: this is going to sound a tad bit harsh, but please understand that i am saying this with all the love and affection i can possibly muster. if they do not find u funny, try not to crack too many jokes. keep it to subtle sarcasm, and short quips. try ... (read in full...)
Falling out with a friend?
Q. About two months ago my best friend and i got into a huge arguement. when i first met her it was fine, and we had a lot of fun, but after a while she wanted to sneak out at night, and have sex with her boyfriend. i would always come with her to make ...
A. 14 December 2010: u should definitely not leave it like it is. if u really love her, try to explain what you meant exactly by your statement. it sounds like you meant it more like "my family has started to notice how different i am compared to before i met u". try to ... (read in full...)
Is there anyway I can get them to leave me alone? Without telling my parents?
Q. Okay, there's a quite long backstory to this, but I'll try and surmise it for you. I had a six-month long relationship with this boy, which ended very messily with a lot of bad things said. I won't go into a lot of details, in short he got me ...
A. 13 December 2010: the best thing i can see happening here is to retain ur anger. ASK him to stop. if he does, Sarah will as well. getting angry and yelling at him will only make things worse. if that doesnt work, try figuring out why shes turned on u. is this guy ... (read in full...)
I need help negotiating all the problems with my girlfriend and my friends!
Q. If you've read my other quetions, you should know exactly what's going on. I've found lately that my best friend has become a bit angry with me abiut my girlfriend, who he liked, but I didn't know. He doesn't say anything to me openly, but I think ...
A. 13 December 2010: thank you, all of you for the advice. all of u suggested things along the same lines so u must be right :] fpr the record tho, its not so much i cant control myself, its just that my istinct is to lash out, verbally, physically, at a guy who has ... (read in full...)
My rant for common sense
Q. I have this kind of horrid aversion to certain kinds of people. Let me explain. People with horrible self destructive habits or thoughts. I haven't lived a dandy life, okay? I grew up in the slums of a rough city, the Bronx with potheads and gan...
A. 13 December 2010: thank you both for the show of optimism and reality. its very rare that u find someone who is capable of being realistically optimistic. thank you for the advice and i wish u both luck for whatever inevitable trials u will face before u can rest in ... (read in full...)
Would my height be a problem "if" this happened??
Q. This question is purely based on IF I break up with "Dana". We are very happy and I have no intentions of ending our relationship. In the event that we do, there is this girl, "Marie". She's very obviously into me, and I wouldn't mind dating her (if ...
A. 13 December 2010: thank you chaela. that helps. im just trying to be a little considerate for Marie's feelings. since its a stereotype that guys like me dont care, i go out of my way to prove them wrong by looking out for other people whenever i can... (read in full...)
Girlfriend chose concert over me!
Q. Alright so there was this concert last night. Now my girlfriend had been looking forward to this concert for a while. It wasn't really a huge show....just a couple low key rappers. One of her friends bailed on her and I told her that I would go to ...
A. 13 December 2010: Calm down. its me, the first guy who responded to u. i am not saying ur selfish. read my previous answer. im telling u to calm down. she may not have had the chance to fully grasp the situation.lublyuyu has a point. the bigger problem is the lack of ... (read in full...)
I don't love him like he loves me. but I like someone else they way they like me. can some1 help?
Q. Hey, im 13 years onld and i have been in a relationship with a 15 year old for about 3 or 4 months now.... we had a relation ship once befor this and it dident work for many reasons. anyways. he says he loves me with all his heart, and he says whe...
A. 13 December 2010: i hope u dont mind me jumping in here, tizzie :]. uh, just tell him that u dont feel comfortable with his actions toward u. or say that ur going thru some things and feel u cant serve him well as a gf while ur dealing with this. if u successfully ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend chose concert over me!
Q. Alright so there was this concert last night. Now my girlfriend had been looking forward to this concert for a while. It wasn't really a huge show....just a couple low key rappers. One of her friends bailed on her and I told her that I would go to ...
A. 13 December 2010: ouch...ok this is not as serious as ur seeing it. maybe in the moment, she didnt know exactly how to respond. did u walk away quickly? perhaps she didnt have enough time to respond the way she would have. i bet if she could turn back time and hang ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for friends to touch each other so much?
Q. Recently I've been making many new friends, both male and female. I have never had any male friends before, my contact with guys was limited to small talk with the boys in my class (needless to say I've never had a boyfriend). Lately, I've bec...
A. 12 December 2010: in a normal "jut friends" relationship? no this is not normal. some ppl just enjoy contact. either that or he is romantically interested in u? ask him about it, or at least assure him u want to just be friends... (read in full...)
Would my height be a problem "if" this happened??
Q. This question is purely based on IF I break up with "Dana". We are very happy and I have no intentions of ending our relationship. In the event that we do, there is this girl, "Marie". She's very obviously into me, and I wouldn't mind dating her (if ...
A. 12 December 2010: he refuses to even let me consider breaking up with Dana, he's too...nice, would u call it?...but he seems upset if i DO date her so, I'm feeling a bit stuck. ah, this is off topic a but. i'll just post another question asking more directly about ... (read in full...)
Would my height be a problem "if" this happened??
Q. This question is purely based on IF I break up with "Dana". We are very happy and I have no intentions of ending our relationship. In the event that we do, there is this girl, "Marie". She's very obviously into me, and I wouldn't mind dating her (if ...
A. 12 December 2010: i understand what you're saying, and yes it is the height difference. this has nothing to do with my "self glorification" or popularity. believe it or not im not that shallow. im just worried how i should react. a couple days ago,i posted a question ... (read in full...)
I'm growing up and reinventing myself! Any tips?
Q. I have always been shy, somewhat depressed, reserved etc this new year is going to be a turning point for me. I am going to become more confident and figure out who I am and what I want in life. I'm going to get out there and meat new people ...
A. 12 December 2010: Hi, call me Joe. I've always been popular, and I can tell you right now that nothing matters except personality. Looks, mystery, makeup, they're all helpful. But what youreally have to do is be a little louder and charismatic. Despite the deepsewn ... (read in full...)
My best friend hates me?
Q. I have this best friend JP (not a real name of course) andvI'm afraid. I've always been more popular, got the most girls and had the most influential friends. JP is just coming into the world of popularity as a freshman. i feel that he's been ...
A. 12 December 2010: Thanks Tizzie, I appreciate the help. I'll try to chill with JP more often. It's just hard you know? He needs more hang out time than anyone else since he has less friends. This makes it hard to balance my closest friend, my girlfriend, and my host ... (read in full...)
How can I get this good looking boy to notice me with all of these other good looking girls around?
Q. well i am 16 and i am in my first year of college,i wouldnt say that i am beautifull or any of that becasue i dont have much confidence in my apperiance but i do in my personlaity even though a lot of peaple say i am stunning and i turn heads but i ...
A. 12 December 2010: this is a bit tough. but im a guy and ill tell u how it is. if ur even moderately pretty, hes noticed u. believe me. the problem is, actually making contact with u. just start talking to him, initiate conversation. he WILL respond. talk tohim enough ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 years old and pregnant. How do I tell my mum?
Q. last night i was talking to my boyfriend, and we were discussing about what will happen when i tell my parents im pregnant. im really scared because my mother and i are still not talking, its constant fighting and yelling, now even in front of my ...
A. 12 December 2010: i have a friend who was pregnant at 13. she aborted. but if ur set on having this baby, it wudd be best for u to tell ur mother b4 it becomes noticeable. if she finds from a different source that ur pregnant, shell proly flip out. if u tell her, ... (read in full...)
I don't love him like he loves me. but I like someone else they way they like me. can some1 help?
Q. Hey, im 13 years onld and i have been in a relationship with a 15 year old for about 3 or 4 months now.... we had a relation ship once befor this and it dident work for many reasons. anyways. he says he loves me with all his heart, and he says whe...
A. 12 December 2010: im freshman in hiskewl nd i have a friend. "Sarah". she had a bf, "Juan". he got angry easilt and hit her a number of times, even raped her a couple of times. it seems to me like this guy is headinh down that path. he most likely wont hurt u, but ... (read in full...)
He admitted he was hung up on his ex, so I went for his brother instead!
Q. SO not too long ago I met a guy that I really liked. Well we hit it off well and things seem to be doing great! then a couple days ago he said that he is still in love with his ex. I told him that it was okay and we can still be friends. Then I ...
A. 12 December 2010: ouch, sounds like a jam. ok, well. this is obviously hurting him. of course it is. but dont be so quick to assume that its bcuz he has feelings. he could just be mad that his ex is dating his older bro. that would piss me off. determine wat the ... (read in full...)
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