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Why wont he ask me out? I really want him to!

Q.   Hey people please someone answer this for me. I really like this guy and all his frends tell me he is constantly talking about me and he really likes me they have been telling me this for about 2 months now, when he's with me I can see the way he ...

A.   17 July 2010: He's probably really scared and looking for the right moment you've either gotta be patient or be brave and ask him out. It's worth a shot, right? Good luck :)... (read in full...)

I had my twins aborted and years later I still feel a numbness about having done it...

Q.   When I was fifteen, I fell pregnant. Me and my boyfriend (who I'm still with) had been together for over a year by then, and I knew what his reaction would be if I just came out with 'I'm pregnant' without me having thought about our decisions ...

A.   17 July 2010: My brothers girlfriend had an abortion when she was 17, and they feel like they did the right thing. I also know people who have had lots of kids later on in life without any troubles. If he told you he'd support you in whatever you chose to do ... (read in full...)

I'm not into relationships so broke up with her. Why can't I get over her?

Q.   Hi so I recently broke up with this girl who I was seeing for about two months, for several reason, mostly because I'm just not one for relationships. But the thing is, I'm still not over her. She's very shy, but she's also beautiful and smart, and ...

A.   17 July 2010: You probably miss her company, it'll just take a little while to get over her. It's perfectly normal not to be over her though. I too don't date anyone in high school, i don't see the point it's not like we're going to be life partners.... (read in full...)

He told me he likes me! Can things go back to the way they were?

Q.   My best guy friend broke my heart. He admits to me he likes me and ive always had feelings for him and so i was really happy. Then a couple weeks later he asks me out, it was ovr txt and i sed ok but i want you to ask me in person (it's just one of ...

A.   17 July 2010: I think maybe the best thing to do is talk to him about everything and hopefully the friendship can be saved. If he's a good friend he will listen and you'll be able to patch things up. You should tell him how much he hurt you and then maybe you two ... (read in full...)

She says we'll never go out again, so why is she sending me these messages?

Q.   (MOD NOTE: Two questions have been posted as one) 1-Okay everybody I have a real problem. There's this girl that says well never go out again and I told her that its too hard to just be friends with someone I was in love with. She tells me the next...

A.   17 July 2010: She probably misses your friendship, but it's just too bad she's the one who doesn't wanna be friends. She also probably likes the fact that someone loves her. Good luck :)... (read in full...)

My husband left me but why doesn't he initiate divorce and what am I entitled to?

Q.   my husband of 21 years walked out on me 19 months ago because he had a mid life crises,he lives with his parents but has a girl friend 13 years younger than himself,she has a 3 year old son (not my husbands). i would like a divorce,he does nothing ...

A.   17 July 2010: He is being really selfish, maybe he thinks of you as his back up. But i know something for sure, you should definatley initiate the divorce. Good luck and i'd listen CaringGuy he has a very good answer :)... (read in full...)

I want to give myself and my virginity as a gift for my boyfriends birthday, good idea?

Q.   Ok so im 19, never had a boyfriend before, recently met the most amazing guy, he's 30. its a large age difference but we get along amazingly! we haven't had sex yet, although we have touched each other intimately during kissing sessions. he is ...

A.   17 July 2010: when you lose your virginity it's meant to be about you, it'll be about him if it's on his birthday.... (read in full...)

It hurts me to see my ex dating my best friend, any advice?

Q.   hey guys......I had this 1 boyfriend a month ago we were dating for about 4 months and we had been through everything. I broke up with him becoz we were at a party together and we were having lots of fun and then i had to go so i went to the car and ...

A.   17 July 2010: it's very insensitve of your best friend to date him it's only been a month! I think you should ignore him and really try not to aacknowledge him at all, if he realises that he's hurting you then he knows you care. You don't wanna give him the ... (read in full...)

I just wish I had guys liking me too, how can I feel better about my appearance?

Q.   Well ive been told that i was ugly, flat chested, and flat butt. It really hurts. I was also told today the same thing. Now im just sad. how do i make myself feel better. My friends have guys liking them and they talk about it all the time. I want ...

A.   17 July 2010: seriously just be who you want to be, one day a guy will like you. Once you start letting people get to you, then they'll be making the decisions for you like, "oh i shouldn't wear that because i have no boobs" good luck and remember always t... (read in full...)

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