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There is nothing to run to..... You only have you.......

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8 December 2010: This really isn't a question but more of a revelation more of a what not to do... I was put on this earth as we all were some with more gifts than others some smart, some wealthy, some pretty or handsome so many gifts we can start life with.... all ...

He hits me saying its the only way I'll shut up

Q.   Hi i just would like some advice from someone i have been with my partner for 4years and we have child that is 5months but he is really horrible sometimes and hits me he say it is the only way i will shut up and i feel like i deserved it i want to ...

A.   18 October 2010: I ask you? Do you think hitting is a form of showing love or discipline? When he hits you what emotion does he show you? Look at him when he hits you... is it a look of kindness? as if he is teaching you (like you are a child) or is he doing it to ... (read in full...)

He hits me saying its the only way I'll shut up

Q.   Hi i just would like some advice from someone i have been with my partner for 4years and we have child that is 5months but he is really horrible sometimes and hits me he say it is the only way i will shut up and i feel like i deserved it i want to ...

A.   17 October 2010: You keep saying he would never hit your child because he loves them to bits.... so how does he feel about you? You say he loves you? Loves you so much he hits you. Not good... I to had an abuser in my life and have hung on to him even though I left ... (read in full...)

Autism is preventing me from having relationships. Help?

Q.   I was diagnosed with Aperger's syndrome when I was a young child. The basic description of that is that you are exceptional at some things and lacking at others. I, for one, have photographic memory. Many people say that they have it, but the...

A.   9 October 2010: I can not begin to know what you go through. But from your description you have gifts that many people do not. So that makes you pretty amazing. You probably feel different but I want you to know everyone has flaws and when it comes to rela... (read in full...)

I don't want to live in an abusive environment but I'm confused.

Q.   I have been in limbo for nearly a year, the stress is presenting viscerally now and my indecision is hurting all the people I care about and I really need help deciding what to do. I have been married for a year and a half, together three y...

A.   7 October 2010: He will offer you anything just to have a hold on you........ material things trips etc. are not love. Does he love you? You stated he is always trying to change you...... this is not love....Let it go..... Before you wake up in ten years he... (read in full...)

I don't want to live in an abusive environment but I'm confused.

Q.   I have been in limbo for nearly a year, the stress is presenting viscerally now and my indecision is hurting all the people I care about and I really need help deciding what to do. I have been married for a year and a half, together three y...

A.   7 October 2010: This is a push and pull relationship. In the begining of your story his actions are inexcusable and you demand them to stop but as your story goes on the abuse has gotten worse and you seem to have found more excuses for you to stay with him. A ... (read in full...)

Husband after marriage asked about my past and then served me with divorce papers!

Q.   My husband and I are married for 10 months. Right after we got married he strictly asked me if there was anything about my past I wanted to share. So I believe in you marry your best friend and I told him somethings that I had done that I'm not so ...

A.   5 October 2010: I am truelly sorry for the situation you are in but I do understand what you are going through. My advice and it is just advice. Is Number one your past is your past that is were it belongs. People think they can handle things but they cant. ... (read in full...)

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