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I'm a Los Angeles female in a serious relationship that is motivated by love and guided by my heart. I sincerely hope for balance and guidance from above and have made my mistakes and had my share of heart aches through the years. But life goes on and that's the beauty that I recognize.
I can be blunt and straight forward (maybe it's the mom in me!) but I am never mean spirited or malicious. I only try to say things that no one wants to tell you - even from yourself.
I don't really categorize people, places, things, music. I think that everything has the potential to be a positive experience given the right frame of mind and of course the company that you keep at the time.
My favorite all time song is Feist's "Mushaboom". I really love the lyrics, especially the line "We'll collect the moments, one by one. I guess that's how the future's done".
I hope everyone the best, of love, life and happiness.
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My boyfriend is so nasty to me, he is now my ex boyfriend, but how do I still love him
Q. My now ex boyfriend I was with for 4 years. We was each others first loves. I fell in love with this guy knowing he was super stubborn. So now that we have spilt I have relised how bad he treated me! He was very arguementive, and started arg...
A. 8 November 2010: I'm so sorry he put you through everything that he did - and that's saying the least there! You seem like you have a great head on your shoulders, and you recognize that you deserve better. Can you go with that instinct instead of running around ... (read in full...)
Help... I'm falling for my mum's boyfriend!!!
Q. I've got into a bit of a mess. Recently, i've been getting really close to my mum's boyfriend and I really like him a lot more than I should. My mum has been dating him for just over a year and he recently moved in but because she works away a...
A. 8 November 2010: Seems like he's the only guy you're really hanging out with. Please realize just because you're exposed to certain people who you get along with doesn't mean you're falling for them. It's disturbing to find that you feel like you're falling for a ... (read in full...)
Why did she broke up with me over a text message?
Q. I was involved in a friend with benefits relationship with a woman who is 17 years older than me. We had a 15 months long relationship. I moved to a different city so the last 3 months of our relationship, we were just talking on the phone. I told ...
A. 8 November 2010: From what you wrote, I think you were expecting to break up with her, and not the other way around. There were so many miscommunications and disconnect about feelings and how it's shown or the lack of. Seems like you didn't want to be in the ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to break down the wall between boyfriend and myself
Q. I don't know how to break down the "wall" between myself and my boyfriend, at least I still hope he is mine. Last night he initiated "the talk" but I tried to put off any break up until we really understand each other better. He said he hasn't been ...
A. 8 November 2010: I'm with Sage. Seems like you need a change, so just go for it. Whether it goes left, right, up or down, from what you wrote, it seems like you're not really enjoying it anyway.
If you guys let each other go, at least you don't invest anymore ... (read in full...)
I hate that every time his ex calls he runs back to her! I know she is the mother of his child, but I don't want to be number 3 in his life.....
Q. Hi everyone , Its ben like this let me get straight to the point. Im now dating my boyfriend for some months since july but i known him for 5-6 years already, and out of nowhere we been hanging out the whole World Cup south africa 2010 ''time'', c...
A. 5 November 2010: When people become parents, they usually take a back seat and the priority becomes the child/children.
Questions: Is the schedule erratic? Why the need to stay "there" and not have the baby with you guys? Can they set something up so you can ... (read in full...)
He is confused and misses his ex-wife. Should I keep trying for him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over 2 months. He got divorced about 3 months before that. We moved kind of fast and we knew that, but things seemed to be going great. Then his ex-wife started calling him and telling him how much she ...
A. 5 November 2010: Give him the time hon. He needs to figure out what he misses, and this includes figuring out if he'll miss being with you. He needs that little lightbulb to go off in his head. At least you'll know for sure what's the deal between you two when ... (read in full...)
Is the only option I have to leave this relationship? I just cant cope with his child, his ex and the disappointment that I wont be the first to give him a family...
Q. heya. i am very distraught an confused. i have been with my boyfriend for 14 months. he is the type of boy who had slept around.....A LOT! with me he changed an is totally devoted to me, an has never cheated. but about 7 an a half months ago. he ...
A. 5 November 2010: You've got a full plate there lady! But one thing at a time...
Sux that your boyfriend found out about his daughter via Facebook - horrible! But he seems to be a good dad to want to be involved with raising his daughter. You have a good man ther... (read in full...)
He high fived me after sex and now is ignoring me at work
Q. Hi, Met guy really liked him his way younger then me though! We met through work.he liked me for bout 4 weeks, kept catching him major staring. Then I got speaking to him, through msn! I researched through friends who he was, as saw him in the same...
A. 5 November 2010: I hope you realize that this is probably not the one to put effort on. Imagine an actual relationship that required high fives after sex. Yikes. No good. Also, I think he gave you an indication of how he's not made up his mind, from Mr. ... (read in full...)
Why did a good girl allow sex so easily?
Q. I met this lovely 20 year old girl through her sister, a co-worker. I took her out to the movies just once, and then did not see her for a month. We kept in touch. When we met again we went to a secluded place where we talked about her dreams...
A. 5 November 2010: Pot calling the kettle black there my friend.
Alarmingly, you are concerned about her "easy-ness" however, no mention or concern about how easy it was for both of you to have unprotected sex. ... (read in full...)
My therapist says that my boyfriend should marry me...
Q. I started seeing a therapist a few weeks ago for weekly sessions because I'm working on my confidence level that's been down because of unemployment. Told the therapist that things are going well, besides the financial side, which is taking it's ...
A. 5 November 2010: Sure, I've been down and wanted to vent about the unemployed situation. It was suspect to me that my therapist immediately defaulted to my boyfriend. I gave her enough information that marriage is not really our goal, but a loyalty, mutual respect ... (read in full...)
For the girls: Would you dump your boyfriend if you found out he was a 25 year old virgin?
Q. This question mainly applies to women but I was wondering if you would dump your boyfriend if he told you one day that he was a virgin and that he was over the age of 25 (I'm 23 but considering the worst case scenario for me). I could have lost it ...
A. 4 November 2010: Why would I? Just because you're a virgin doesn't mean you don't know how - and - how cool and fun would it be to be with someone and find out the yays and nays. Dont worry, you'll be fine. I think it's awesome you're holding out for the right ... (read in full...)
Why don't intelligent people see this guy for what he really is?
Q. I,m writing this as i can of need to vent my feelings. I know a guy who at first i thought was pretty decent, seemed nice etc... turns out i couldn't have been more wrong, let me explain. We slept together a few times last year, i thought he he ...
A. 4 November 2010: Guys like that are always "on". They put on the charm and glitz because in a way, they're casting a wide net. I think the jerk is insecure and I can understand why you would want to do something about it - he's getting used to getting what he ... (read in full...)
I no longer want to be with my fiancee and I like his best friend!
Q. I'm looking for advice. I'm engaged to the father of my child. I'm no longer in love with him but I don't hate him. We get along fine and we "love" each other but the love is gone. It has been for a few years now. He has a friend, a best friend...
A. 4 November 2010: There's no need to hurt the same person twice. I maybe old fashioned but have you asked yourself WHY the "love" is gone between you and your child's father? Maybe it's not too late to sit down and talk about it, maybe even seek counseling or some ... (read in full...)
Strange email...
Q. I was checking my email when I saw a picture, it says this person was searching for you - it was a 31 year old from my city, the email is under my husband's name, should I question this or just leave this alone?...
A. 4 November 2010: Interesting... is he spying on you?... (read in full...)
Since we have had sex and I've given all I have, how can I show how much he means to me?
Q. First I wanna say thankyou to everyone giving advice. Yall have helped me out with some hard times an made them better, but now to the question I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. I was a virgin he is not. He was very caring and kept ...
A. 4 November 2010: First, I want to say that I hope that you had protected sex - doesn't matter if it was his first time too. There's never a bad time for responsible sex. But I'm curious to why you think that you gave him EVERYTHING already? I hope you both sat ... (read in full...)
How can I make him stop treating me like a child?
Q. ok so i like this guy who is alot older than me and he has said that he likes me as well. the only problem is that at certain times he seem to just see me as a child still..how can i get him to realize that i am no longer a child?...
A. 16 September 2010: I'm in a relationship with an older man too. 15 year difference here and frankly, I love it because i've always been kinda older when it comes to taste (books, music, movies, etc). There are times though that certain things that we can't help would ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm just being used for her convenience and being taken for granted.
Q. My GF and I have been together just over 2 years. She has a 2 and half year old daughter that i also love very much. When we started dating, we would see each other friday nights, saturdays and sundays. We both work so weekdays are kind of ...
A. 16 September 2010: Howzit! From what you wrote, I'm sure you appreciate and love her for her dedication and love for her daughter. Sounds like she's earning a living for her and her child ( and kids can be quite expensive!). Can't fault the woman for paying her ... (read in full...)
My sister in law doesn't mind being naked with me!
Q. My sister-in-law (single and attractive) graduated college and recently took a job near where my wife and I live. My wife told her to stay with us in the spare bedroom until she found a place of her own. Initially, she wore a robe over her ni...
A. 16 September 2010: Hmmm. Seems like she's got you hot and/or bothered. You noticed plenty enough details. As much as I've enjoyed your post and the replies, why not ask your wife if this is normal? Seems unfair to portray your SIL as a vixen when all that really ... (read in full...)
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