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Spotting, uncomfortable feeling, what could be the problem??

Q.   I am fourteen years old. I have only had oral sex ( recieving . ) but it was three months ago. Since then I have been masturbating . Recently, I've felt the urge to pee a lot more and it comes without warning . When I go to use the restroom almost ...

A.   10 July 2010: You can have a urinary tract infection. This is commonly termed "Honeymoon-itis" because after engaging in sexual activities for the first time, many girls get infections easily from the new exposure. Please see a doctor soon because this could ... (read in full...)

Possibly pregnant to my cheating ex!

Q.   Please help... After two weeks after having taken my virginity, he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend (he had broken up with her 4 years ago) whom he had cheated on when he was drunk with a one-night-stand. I haven't spoken to him for two week...

A.   8 June 2010: On Sunday, I was feeling very upset with finals coming up. I couldn't study, so I went to the beach, and I saw him. I ran up to him and asked him why he wasn't answering my call/texts. I called him a bastard or leaving me alone like this. This ... (read in full...)

He cheated and then almost killed himself! Do I give him another chance?

Q.   hello. i need help.... MY boyfriend of 8 months has been cheating on me with his ex.. on day i was hanging out at home when his ex girlfriend came to my house and told meh everything. ill tell u the convorsation " Yeah. hes been h...

A.   2 June 2010: Continue to ignore him and do NOT give him another chance. Don't even allow him to be your friend. Someone who cheats on you like that--over a span of 3.5 months is not someone who cares about you. Do not succumb to his pathetic manipulation of ... (read in full...)

Can I increase my sex drive?

Q.   Hello, I have a low sexual desire and know that it is causing problems with my relationship. I am mad at myself for not wanting sex, but I just have a really low desire to be intimate with my husband. It is causing stress in my life and I want ...

A.   2 June 2010: I think it's common. To be honest, I don't always have a sex drive until foreplay or even after the penis is in. I think you need to talk to your husband about "prepping" you more. I think it's all in your mind and if you want to have that drive, ... (read in full...)

Possibly pregnant to my cheating ex!

Q.   Please help... After two weeks after having taken my virginity, he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend (he had broken up with her 4 years ago) whom he had cheated on when he was drunk with a one-night-stand. I haven't spoken to him for two week...

A.   2 June 2010: I just told my ex that I'm pregnant...to be exactly, I said, "What if I AM pregnant, bastard?!" ...and here is how it went. This was all over the phone, and it started off with me trying to decide if I should tell him. I first asked him, "Have... (read in full...)

He cheated and lied, where do I go from here?

Q.   I recently snooped through my fiancés phone and found an email from the end of April from a girl he used to date. It was clear they had been sleeping together and he asked her to email him some sexy pictures. I freaked and confronted him and he said ...

A.   2 June 2010: End it. It's clear he's lying and very poorly if I may add. Another thing is, it's clear he's cheated on you, and he is lying to you about it--this will only continue and he'll only get better. Stop now while it's hurting before you hurt yourself ... (read in full...)

Possibly pregnant to my cheating ex!

Q.   Please help... After two weeks after having taken my virginity, he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend (he had broken up with her 4 years ago) whom he had cheated on when he was drunk with a one-night-stand. I haven't spoken to him for two week...

A.   2 June 2010: Regarding symptoms, I recall experiencing brownish mucus excretions, but assumed they were from having sex. Today, I woke up with a lot of nausea. My fundal region is also very sensitive right now. Next week, I have finals, and this entire s... (read in full...)

I am scared to death... Am I pregnant???

Q.   Ok. well i was hanging out with my best guy friend. and he was in the mood, so i jacked off, i had a little bit of cum in the middle of my hand but i wiped it off, about 2 hours later i was masturbating home alone, i put one finger in but not all ...

A.   2 June 2010: Sperm dies after about 20 minutes of being excreted from the body into a dry environment. If you waited 2 hours before you masturbated, I'm sure you're fine--the sperm was most likely dead by that time. For sanitary reasons, make sure you wash ... (read in full...)

My first time, the whole school knows and I think I might be pregnant!

Q.   i just had sex two days ago with this guy i have been talking to , he didn't use a condom but he swore he pulled out. im so scared that i might be pregnant. My entire school knows. it was my first time so im really scared. please help me....

A.   2 June 2010: Try to remember how long ago you had your period...if it was within a week, you should be fine. If not, then most definitely get checked out. Please don't worry about your school issue either--I am in college now, and to honest, no one remember... (read in full...)

How do I go from the obsessed girl to the girl that likes him so much he will give me a chance?

Q.   Hey everyone!! If a girl likes a guy and she told him how she felt towards him and he didnt feel the same, how can she show him that she really cares enough so he can think "dam she really likes me, i should give her a chance" instead of him ...

A.   2 June 2010: Find out what type of girl he likes and see if you're that type. If not, just be yourself around him and maybe he'll like you. Don't be too available and don't show that you like him too much--it's relationship suicide to stalk a guy.... (read in full...)

Two potential relationships but I can't decide!

Q.   Long story short. 2 girls, ones the ex, one I just met about a week and a half ago. Me and my ex broke up after 7 mos together a week ago after going downhill for about a month (more took a break, but we’re still single) because I can only...

A.   2 June 2010: To be honest, I'd have to say that you have to give the new girl a chance. Like you said, you're pushed into your ex. You already know how your ex is and your relationship with her. If you don't go for the new girl, you may not have the chance to ... (read in full...)

Friends, FWB, or more... I'm being used but why don't I want to stop?

Q.   I met a guy about a year ago through a mutual friend. He had been out of a relationship for about 3 years and hadn't dated since the break-up. He and this woman had been together for almost 5 years. He had "f**kbuddies" but never really tried for ...

A.   2 June 2010: Tell him you're not okay with his dumb generic response of "I don't know what to say to you". Let him know that it makes you nauseous that he has FWB and would want that from you. Tell him you want to be different and you need him to either be ... (read in full...)

As time goes by our relationship seems to be getting worse, how do I rectify this?

Q.   Hi all, I'm in a pretty wierd situation with a girl I've only recently admitted to liking. She's liked me for a long while tho, but I have never seen her as more than that before.  We have always been good friends, but since we both told each ...

A.   2 June 2010: Don't suffocate her. That's the biggest rule--you can end up pushing a girl away by making her feel that you like her a LOT; meaning you expect a lot in the relationship. She could be getting worse because she wants her space...if she signals ... (read in full...)

Why is my girlfriend behaving so strange ever since we have started getting intimate?

Q.   [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] 8 months into the relationship and I am starting to give her oral. She wants me to turn the lights out(even if we are the only ones in the building), and she won'...

A.   2 June 2010: Girls have insecurities--despite how gorgeous you may find her. She may not think her breasts are big enough or she may not want you to stare at her body, so she asks you to turn off the light. If you are her first, she will feel afraid. This ca... (read in full...)

Which of the two do men remember more - their first love or their first sexual encounter?

Q.   Which one of the two do men remember more? Their first love or the person they had sex for the first time? ...

A.   2 June 2010: That is a really tough question. For me, I'd have to say first sex encounter based on my experience. I had a secret admirer who had claimed I was his first love. He was able to give me up completely for his current girlfriend. A few weeks a... (read in full...)

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