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i am currently single and go to university.
im not going to pretend that im some kind of phsychology expert when i answer questions but im just here to offere my viewpoint and reassurence to those people who have a problem.
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We were having a great time till I pulled out a condom!
Q. I drove 6 hours one way this weekend to meet up with this girl I met the other week we hit it off pretty good but she wouldn't let me put it in. We were both messing around alot but still did not go all the way. We showered together and slept naked ...
A. 15 August 2011: she probably just wasn't ready to go all the way with you yet.
If you only met her the other week, she might want to see you a more before you have sex.
although the fact that you showered together and slept together shows that she is pretty c... (read in full...)
Making out?
Q. What is the right way to make out with someone?...
A. 2 August 2011: theres not one set way.
when you get to the moment it sort of just happens naturally.for me now i don't think about it and just let myself get into it.
i found that when i was younger id always start thinking while making out and worrying i w... (read in full...)
Should I give it a shot?
Q. So theres this guy.I liked him from the moment i saw him.I had asked one of my friends to get his number for me or for her to introduce me to him but she never did. I think she liked him so i never got a chance to meet him.And moved and left for ...
A. 2 August 2011: yeh get talking to him. theres no harm in that.
and if that leads onto him asking you out or you asking him out then you should talk to your freind. just tell her the truth and how you feel.
and if she never went out with him then he probably... (read in full...)
Should I go out with this girl?
Q. Recently a girl who i work with has asked for my number which i gave to her and now she is constantly texting me. Im pretty sure she likes me, but i dont like her, not in that way anyway for a few reasons. Firstly shes only 17 (im 20). I live in the ...
A. 2 August 2011: no i would say don't go out with her.
i agree that its a bit low to use her just to break your virginity. it would be really hurtful for her if you were to just leave her after sleeping with her.
im sure you'd rather break it with someone you conn... (read in full...)
Uncomfortable with my chest size...how should I deal with this? How should I react when I get sleazy comments?
Q. So in a nutshell, I have large boobs. I am 25, probably D cup size, and only 5'1" and 130 lbs; I don't know my cup size for sure because it's been so long since I got measured. And the reason it's been so long is because going to Victoria's Secret ...
A. 30 July 2011: oh and i forgot to meantion, the way you dress also can also make a difference to how your boobs look.
i find if i wear baggy clothing it can make my boobs look worse.
so i tend to go for slightly fitted clothing. and i avoid high necklines. ... (read in full...)
Uncomfortable with my chest size...how should I deal with this? How should I react when I get sleazy comments?
Q. So in a nutshell, I have large boobs. I am 25, probably D cup size, and only 5'1" and 130 lbs; I don't know my cup size for sure because it's been so long since I got measured. And the reason it's been so long is because going to Victoria's Secret ...
A. 30 July 2011: hi there.
im 21 years old. im about 5 fooot 3 inches, i weight 108 pounds and i have 30ff boobs.
i also developed early. to be honest with you i spent my teenage years hating my boobs. i used to cry and get really jealous of girls with small bo... (read in full...)
Do I tell my guy friend that his girlfriend is a complete tramp and people are laughing at him behind his back because he is dating her?
Q. I have a male friend who has been dating this woman for about the last 6 months seriously. He and I had a past, but now we really are just friends and it is cool. He has always been hesitant about relationships since he was burned by who he thought ...
A. 26 July 2011: i think you should stay out of it for now. if they are both happy then leave them to it.
like others are saying, everyone has a past and she may have changed now and genuinely wants to be seriuos with your friend.
obviuosly if at any point you... (read in full...)
What do guys think of my body shape? Is it a turn off?
Q. i am really shy about my body. its not curvy and nice like most girls. im not fat, not one bit.. but im really tanky. so i have a guys body sorta. its really embarasing and i hate wearing bakinis because i dont like my body. what do guys think about ...
A. 25 July 2011: i agree everyone has insecurities about their body.
at your age i pretty much hated my body. im short and i have very non curvy hips and legs. i spent so much hating myself.
now i am 21 and i feel silly for being so insecure and judging mysl... (read in full...)
After I orgasm my boyfriend cant keep touching me as its unbearable for me, do I have a problem?
Q. Hello, When I am masterbating with my boyfriend and he is rubbing my clit or going down on me it feels great and I can cum... But the problem is I can cum then it is unbearable to have him keep touching my clit, like I can't take it anymore~ It f...
A. 25 July 2011: dont worry you are totally normally.
exact same for me. its too sensititive to touch straight after the orgasm.
like doublejack says, give it a couple of minutes and then you should be able to keep going.
xx.... (read in full...)
I don't want any drama but feel like I am being taken advantage of....
Q. A man that I was seeing for 3 months has gone overseas. He has been gone for 4 months and I knew as soon as I started dating him that he would be leaving very soon to take this trip. We were crazy for each other so we went ahead and kept dating ...
A. 25 July 2011: i agree with eyespy17. tell him that if he's not seriuos then to just be honest with you and to allow you to move on.
its not fair on you to be waiting around for him while hes hanging about with other girls.
i know its hard when your crazy a... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to date 2 girls at the same time?
Q. Ok so i havent really dated much in the past. Ive only had a LTR which ended about a year ago and i havent gone out with a girl since. Just recently i met a couple of girls and i was needing some advice. Theres this girl i met and i am extremely a...
A. 25 July 2011: well if you want to date them both then you must let them know and see if they are ok with this idea.
if you started dating both of them and one was to find out it would be a bit upsetting to her.
as a girl i would not feel comfortable ... (read in full...)
I called off our meeting and disappointed her! What should I do?
Q. I'm in a mess. I was in a LDR up until January with a lovely girl. I broke things off as I really felt scared to commit - she was thinking of moving to be nearer me and also I was having doubts. Anyway, after the break, I got in touch again and ...
A. 25 July 2011: you need to let it go.
you both want different things. she wants to commit and be in a relationship. you don't seem ready to commit.
its not fair on her to have to wait around.
and she probably won't see in the same way again because you blew her... (read in full...)
My partner feels a failure because I can't cum. What should I do?
Q. My partner likes to watch me cum or know that i have cum , but I want to ,but can't.I don't believe in faking it.If I spend time on masturbating , I can occasionally but as I am have a very high sex drive surely this should be easy.i don't wan't my ...
A. 24 July 2011: it can take an awful lot longer for a woman to cum than a man.
I take a while but you have to be persistant.
while having sex try stimulating the clitoris throughout.
or if you haven't already, try a vibrator. but if hes wants to be the one that... (read in full...)
What could this brown discharge be?
Q. I apologize ahead of time for the graphic nature of this question. I had sex with a new guy last night after a long-term relationship ended. But this morning I have strange light-brown discharge. It doesn't have much of an odor, but I'm very ...
A. 24 July 2011: chances are that if the sex was rought then the friction of his penis might have caused a little bleeding.
if it happens again then it wouldn't hurt to get checked out by the doctor.
and i agree if you din't use a condom then you should definate... (read in full...)
First date advice?
Q. I've got a date coming up on Tuesday and in really nervous. This is my first proper date and the guy is older than me (im 15 he's 17). Hes invited me out into town for what he said "shopping, Starbucks stuff like that". I'm really nervous and Need ...
A. 24 July 2011: i know you must have butterflies in your stomach whenever you think about it. its completely normal to feel really nervous. i remember the feeling well!
well i know you don't want to hear but do be yourself. its really important because otherwis... (read in full...)
He disappeared after our second date...and I miss him so much I cry myself to sleep!
Q. I dated someone twice. Then, he disappeared - he didn't make contact with me after the second date. I haven't seen / heard from him for 2 weeks now. I'm disappointed and confused. I'm too embarrassed to call him because the last time we met (2nd...
A. 24 July 2011: i'm sorry you had to go through this.
i understand how you feel and it is a sinking feeling when someone does this to you and you wonder what he didn't like.
but please remember that he is the jerk in this. what gentleman would do this to a la... (read in full...)
Are these spots friction marks?
Q. Its not really a relationship problem, but moreso of a health question (if its okay to post them here). I recently got back from Hilton Head Island, SC, and everything was fine down there. After two hours of being on wave runners, we went...
A. 24 July 2011: i agree with angelDlite wait a couple of day and if there is no improvement then visit your doctor.
atleast if you havent had unprotected sex then you can rule out an sti.
hope it gets better
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I should be moving on but I can't!
Q. I can't get over my ex! We were together for so long and it ended to suddenly. Right now, I can't see myself moving on at all. For some reasons, he hates me right now. He's cut me out of his life completely and won't let me talk to him at all. He ...
A. 23 July 2011: hi there :)
im sorry you have to go through such a hard time. breaking up is never easy.
he has probably cut you out because thats the only way he will be able to get over you and move on.
but him telling you about all these potential girl... (read in full...)
I feel like my skin is awful and I can't let anyone see it without makeup
Q. Okay I've never talked to anyone about this before, here it goes. It's weird.. So, I hate letting people see me in natural lighting. Like out side and stuff, or even in a really well lite room. I hate my skin, my complexion is horrible. I have...
A. 23 July 2011: hi :)
i know how you feel. a lot of us have this problem in our teenage years and it does really take over your life.
i was the same as you, always caking on the foundation and never letting my skin breathe.
definatley consider visiting a ... (read in full...)
Is he interested? Is it too soon?
Q. So this is not as complicated as it i think it is.. I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years 2 months ago. Yes, i was the 'bad one' for calling it off. We were making each other miserable, i was falling ill because of it, it was not worth th...
A. 23 July 2011: it sounds like you guys really had chemistry and like each other a lot.
and he definately sounds interested in you. i mean asking if you could stay longer and replying to your texts immediately are all very good signs.
he sounds like a really swe... (read in full...)
I work at a gym. How do I approach a girl that comes in?
Q. Question for the guys, i've got a problem, put yourself in my shoes and tell me what you would do. I work at a gym and this girl is a regular member there, she is probably the most attractive girl who uses this gym. When i first saw her if i'm ...
A. 23 July 2011: hi im a 21 year old lady so ill try to help you.
well if i was that girl, id probably have noticed you staring by now. girls always know when a guy notices them. so she most likely knows you are attracted to her. which if i was her i wouldnt ... (read in full...)
Am I just being insecure?
Q. I've been told that in order for a relationship to remain healthy, one must let their SO hang out with their friends without having a problem with it. Totally understandable and that's how my boyfriend is with me. Just in advance, neither of us ha...
A. 23 July 2011: what you feel is a commonn feeling. iv seen a few girls feel like this.
however, sometimes its good to see each other less some weeks because you can get sick of each other if you're around each other constantly no matter how much you love eac... (read in full...)
He said he had a great time with me, yet he ignored me for nearly two months. Why contact me now?!
Q. Any insight as to what is going on in this guy's head would be fantastic. I'm pretty confused. In early April, I was an active member on a dating site. A guy messaged me and we began chatting rather frequently. After a few weeks of messaging bac...
A. 23 July 2011: hii :)
im glad u found someone new. ben sounds like a great guy.
iv been through a similar situation as u.
i also recently met a guy online who suddenly stopped talking to me after constant texting and chatting.
i think cindy cares is abs... (read in full...)
Raunchy pics and dirty talk...Was he just using me? And should I confront him?
Q. hi i am 21 years old and recently i met a 31 year old guy online. we got talking and i liked him. for a month we talked almost every day for a few hours however, we weren't able to arrange a meeting because he lived a good distance away. but we s...
A. 23 July 2011: thank you for your answer. it really helps to get some reassurence.
dont worry i do get out and about and do meet guys at college but thought it would be interesting to try something different.
i dont know if he was completely messing me a... (read in full...)
Need guy advice: How can I keep my man interested in me?
Q. To all guys out there: Can you give me tips on how I can keep my man interested with me? I know and feel that he is in love with me and he says it all the time. We are together now for a year and we are still very much in love with each other....
A. 23 July 2011: don't worry if you both love each other then it will last. obviuosly every relationship has its ups and downs but as long as you both still love each other then you will work through all your problems.
although i find that sometimes surprising your... (read in full...)
How can I feel sexy again? The guy I was seeing doesn't seem interested anymore.
Q. Hi... Lately I've felt tired all the time, and I feel really sensitive about my body. I feel fat. I feel as though the man I was seeing has lost interest in me because I'm not sexy anymore. He rarely texts me unless he wants a favour. And when...
A. 23 July 2011: a guy who doesnt make you feel good about yourself isn't worth it. a man should make you feel important in his life and also make you feel good about yourself.
if you exercise regularly then i doubt you are fat.
maybe its because you feel fat tha... (read in full...)
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