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... Send *atie-Lynn a private message | | | *atie-Lynn 's profile:Hello, Katie-Lynn is my pen name and that's as close as my name gets. I am in a relationship of 3 years and that is why I feel I am qualified to help others in regards to love advice. My boyfriend and I have been through so much together so I'd like to say that I'm full of experiences and therefore have a lot to offer. We also love helping our couple friends out in person and have a passion for striving to work things out for each other. On another note, the two of us live in Fresno, CA, are art majors and like gaming of all kinds. If you wish to know more or would like private adice, I'm an open book and don't judge. i believe it's wrong and that I have no real right to for I am no better than any of you so you can inbox me whenever it is necessary. Thank you for reading and best of luck to you. |
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Is there something hypocritical about this relationship?
Q. How should I understand this situation? History of a relationship 1. Been dating someone for 2 years. 2. We have had some arguments and she says we are through. Has been like 4 times and we don't speak for a few weeks then everything goes back to ...
A. 6 October 2014: Don't mention it and wow. Yea, I'm glad you decided to step out of this. It's like you're walking around egg shells. A relationship should be fun and comfortable, not stressful.....sure theres arguments but this is on the extreme side.... (read in full...)
Is there something hypocritical about this relationship?
Q. How should I understand this situation? History of a relationship 1. Been dating someone for 2 years. 2. We have had some arguments and she says we are through. Has been like 4 times and we don't speak for a few weeks then everything goes back to ...
A. 6 October 2014: Here is your answer and I'm so sorry that this is going on but basically, your gut feeling is right. You two should go ypur separate ways because thw saying really is true "You must love yourself bedore you can truly love another". Yoy say that this ... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and like a 15 year old from a different city
Q. So I met this girl while I was away for a weekend. I straight away liked her and we hung out a little and I seemed to think got along. The issue is at the time I thought she was 16 or 17 to then find out a few days later when I got home 15. W...
A. 1 October 2014: I believe dating would be fine and that the more intimate stuff such as sex should come a few years later and according to how the laws in which you live at are like. Best of luck to you!... (read in full...)
Six months together but he's not ready for sex? Is he worth waiting for? Or should I move on?
Q. I have been friends with a guy in my class for about six months. He has made it obvious that he found me attractive from Day 1. We became friends and started hanging out. During this time, he has always initiated affection (hugs, kisses, etc), yet ...
A. 30 September 2014: He has clearly said that he will never be more than friends right? So he is basically dragging you along as a friend with benefits. As far as I can see it anyway. I would address it if you truly want this to work but if he still says he will never ... (read in full...)
Am I weird for totally enjoying myself at a strip club with my Bf?
Q. I got drunk with my boyfriend of two years last Friday and suggested that we go to a strip club. It took him a while to come round to the idea but we eventually went. Well even when I was asking him I thought I'd probably end up getting jeal...
A. 30 September 2014: I hate to call names and say "Oooooh, you're totally weird" so I'll just say that the action itself is weird. I personally wouldn't even dream of asking my boyfriend of 3 years to do that. It is totally unloyal and having that in a relationship made ... (read in full...)
It seems like he can't make time to talk to me
Q. Dear Cupid I'm with my bf for 2 years, currently we are in LDR due to his work. Its been days since he contacted me, he talks to me only once a week for few mins. I call him once everyday he never picks, if he does always finds reason to cut th...
A. 29 September 2014: I know that you do not want to leave him, I totally get it cause of the feelings I had when put in this situation, but please understand that if he is not at least showing you love in action that his words mean nothing. The texting and calling thing ... (read in full...)
Am I Really Overrreacting or Is He in The Wrong When It Comes to Not Talking to Me?
Q. Hello. I'd like to give a little background before any opinons are made so please bare with me. My boyfriend and I will have been together 3 years this coming October and we are both 22 years old going on 23. I have asked something like this in the ...
A. 24 September 2014: Thanks SeaGreen. Things are looking up already :)... (read in full...)
I want her to reconsider just being friends
Q. Me and this girl were in a relationship at the end of last year and she ended it because she didn't think we were right for each other and also because she needed to sort her head out. Last week she wanted to give it another go saying how she made...
A. 23 September 2014: Looks to me as if she wants to sort out her future and life before having a relationship and I have friends who are like this so it's common. I'm really sorry that this is happening to you. Maybe you should tell her that you support her with ... (read in full...)
I'm still hoping we can make it work but I'm jealous of his ex
Q. Hi all, I was in a long distance relationship for over a year with a guy who I thought I could really see myself with in the future. However, we recently broke up due to fighting a lot mostly from trust issues and my insecurity. We agreed to tak...
A. 23 September 2014: I won't call you crazy, bit I will say that wanting this to work out isn't a smart move. I would find someone who doesn't cheat and lie. I'm sorry, but I honestly would assume something was going on if my bf did this stuff to me. Also, if he sent me ... (read in full...)
I was going to break up with him but then I fell for him again
Q. Dear Cupid I have an on and off relationship with my bf for past 4 years. He always verbally abuses me, belittles me, ignores me for long period of time, make sure my esteem always stays all time low.... Coming to the current happenings, he wa...
A. 23 September 2014: Oh my, I'm sorry this is happening to you. He clearly was acting nice all of a sudden to help himself from feeling guilty for treating you this way,make sure you don't try leaving and/or he can keep you interested while he's looking around so you ... (read in full...)
She likes romance -- what about this idea?
Q. I have an idea I would like some feedback for? This girl I like likes romance a lot so I have been thinking of a way to just do that. I thought about leaving notes around school in places that I know she will look. I'm shy but I can get over that if ...
A. 23 September 2014: I'd love to have this happen to me so I support this all the way. Best of Luck to ya!... (read in full...)
Has My Boyfriend Lost Interest In Me?
Q. Basically, me and my boyfriends have been together for about a month now. We met on a youth program that had a 3 weeks during the summer and now runs every Sunday. Before he asked me out, we became really close friends, we were inseparable for most ...
A. 22 September 2014: Tell me something. Were you two ever exclusive? Like did he physically ask you to be his girlfriend using those words? Cause he could very easily just be dating around if you're not exclusive meaning the reason why he still asks how you are because ... (read in full...)
Why does my bf disappear for hours/ days?
Q. Why does my bf always disappear sometimes for hours/days?? My bf and I have been dating for 6 months. Everything seemed to be going good, but for some reason a month to now he has change, before he would call me and night, to say goodnight and se...
A. 20 September 2014: This is something that I am trying to get over as well so I'll try to answer based on the 8 answers I have on my question that is similar to this. Like 'like I see it' has said, if he treats you wonderfully in person, like my bf does when we're toge... (read in full...)
Am I Really Overrreacting or Is He in The Wrong When It Comes to Not Talking to Me?
Q. Hello. I'd like to give a little background before any opinons are made so please bare with me. My boyfriend and I will have been together 3 years this coming October and we are both 22 years old going on 23. I have asked something like this in the ...
A. 19 September 2014: For some reason it won't show the names I've mentioned but what I wrote in my update was for you too WiseOwlE. At a certain paragraph I started talking to everyone as whole. I don't know why it took those words usernames out.... (read in full...)
Am I Really Overrreacting or Is He in The Wrong When It Comes to Not Talking to Me?
Q. Hello. I'd like to give a little background before any opinons are made so please bare with me. My boyfriend and I will have been together 3 years this coming October and we are both 22 years old going on 23. I have asked something like this in the ...
A. 18 September 2014: SeaGreen, He doesn't seem to be all that active online and as for how often he hits people up on his own, It doesn't seem like he does either and I'm not just going by what he says cause he tells me this too. This is why I made the point that h... (read in full...)
How Come My Boyfriend Won't Talk to Me on His Own Anymore?
Q. First off, my bf and I have been together for nearly 2 years now and I am 21 and he will be in June 6th. Well, you know how in relationships, as well as any other relatio ship for that matter, that you once in a while communicate with the person ...
A. 18 April 2013: Thanks for your honesty, I appreciate it.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend french kiss me?
Q. Now I don't want to force him into doing anything. I just thought that I needed to say that first so I don't get remarks about how rude it is to do that cause I agree but........my boyfriend kisses me, but we don't use any tongue action like "French ...
A. 22 November 2011: Thanks~... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend french kiss me?
Q. Now I don't want to force him into doing anything. I just thought that I needed to say that first so I don't get remarks about how rude it is to do that cause I agree but........my boyfriend kisses me, but we don't use any tongue action like "French ...
A. 21 November 2011: Just wanted to say that today, at random on the phone, he said that I was good at French kissing. I think he was relating to Saturday when I updated you guys last.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend french kiss me?
Q. Now I don't want to force him into doing anything. I just thought that I needed to say that first so I don't get remarks about how rude it is to do that cause I agree but........my boyfriend kisses me, but we don't use any tongue action like "French ...
A. 20 November 2011: Hi. I just thought I'd update so here it goes. Today we were kissing and I tried to insert my tongue again (I've tried it several times before so I could get one out of him and it never worked) and basically he finally did it back but I think I ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend french kiss me?
Q. Now I don't want to force him into doing anything. I just thought that I needed to say that first so I don't get remarks about how rude it is to do that cause I agree but........my boyfriend kisses me, but we don't use any tongue action like "French ...
A. 18 November 2011: Yes, I have tried initiating it and yes, I am good at it ( been told I was).... (read in full...)
Are his different ways of saying "I love you" ways to show that he's playing me?
Q. Hi, um.......I know that this topic may seem irrelevant or small but honestly I just want some opinions. My boyfriend has been with me now for 2 years this coming september 27th. All this time he's been showing his love with his actions which I ...
A. 8 September 2011: Yes, he does say it in person.... (read in full...)
Do guys pay attention to how fat or skinny we are when we have sex with them?
Q. Hello! All my life (or at least a majority of it) I've been self-conscious about my body because I have a lot of body hair, small breasts, and have a little pudge (not fat but just a little belly). Well up until just recently, I've thought of how ...
A. 27 September 2010: @ The Realist Thank you! =)... (read in full...)
Friend going into the military and I'm worried about him dying
Q. I have just learned that my boy friend might be going into the air force for college money (he is on a bad pridicument so don't ask). I have no issue at all about it but the one thing that seems to worry me the most is my question: "what are the ...
A. 24 September 2010: Thanks, you guys are awesome :)... (read in full...)
How can I tell my dad about my long distance relationship?
Q. About 5 years ago, I met this guy online on a social networking site. We e been speaking to each other for, like I said, 5 years and we confessed that we love eachother last October. He's like my Kherson half! We have so much in common and his ...
A. 24 September 2010: @ aunt honesty I've dated guys in person before and had a year relationship so it's nor like I've never dated. Basically, I'm trying out everything.... (read in full...)
He doesn't understand me!
Q. Hi. I have been together with this boy for 1 and half years. I love him truly with all my heart. However, I feel so hurt at times because I feel that nowadays, his friends are more important than me. He misses me a lot only when he is alone. I refer ...
A. 24 September 2010: Actually the best thing to do is ask him if he'd like to be one of your friends. That will really show that be wants to be part of your life :) ... (read in full...)
He doesn't understand me!
Q. Hi. I have been together with this boy for 1 and half years. I love him truly with all my heart. However, I feel so hurt at times because I feel that nowadays, his friends are more important than me. He misses me a lot only when he is alone. I refer ...
A. 24 September 2010: I say that all he wants is sex. If it were me, I'd dump him right now.... (read in full...)
I think I'm bi..and I have feelings for my cousins wife!
Q. I'm 18 and in college..I'm a Muslim so being bi is frowned upon by everyone..it's hard enough having to keep sucha big secret from my friends and family but now I'm having feelings for my cousins wife, they've been married for 3 years now no ...
A. 24 September 2010: I say approach another woman first just to know for sure.... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with him, but I'm unhappy. Should I break up with him?
Q. I feel like it would take me a long time to go into the specifics, so I'm going to try to ask this as simply as possible. What do you do when you're in love with a person, but you're unhappy? I still love my boyfriend, and he still loves me, ...
A. 24 September 2010: I say keep going and look at your future more often. I'm in the same boat only it's been 5 years for me :) I know exactly how you feel hun. Keep the faith!... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with him, but I'm unhappy. Should I break up with him?
Q. I feel like it would take me a long time to go into the specifics, so I'm going to try to ask this as simply as possible. What do you do when you're in love with a person, but you're unhappy? I still love my boyfriend, and he still loves me, ...
A. 24 September 2010: Omg I'm in the same situation too! Only for us it's been 5 years. I believe that you should cope with it like I am. In fact, I was crying about the same thing literally before I got on here! But when I think snout how much this not and I are in ... (read in full...)
He doesn't deserve to be a father so what do I do? Have it aborted or what?
Q. I am nine weeks pregnant, almost ten. I am engaged to my boyfriend. I was not planning on getting pregnant and never thought having kids was something i had to do. I found i was pregnant and told my finace and he was so happy and exited. I was not. ...
A. 24 September 2010: I say abort it and leave the guy. Have a kid with someone who loves the baby enough to be sober and keeps his promises.... (read in full...)
Do guys pay attention to how fat or skinny we are when we have sex with them?
Q. Hello! All my life (or at least a majority of it) I've been self-conscious about my body because I have a lot of body hair, small breasts, and have a little pudge (not fat but just a little belly). Well up until just recently, I've thought of how ...
A. 23 September 2010: Yes, he HAS seen less than a sweater lol.... (read in full...)
He doesn't deserve to be a father so what do I do? Have it aborted or what?
Q. I am nine weeks pregnant, almost ten. I am engaged to my boyfriend. I was not planning on getting pregnant and never thought having kids was something i had to do. I found i was pregnant and told my finace and he was so happy and exited. I was not. ...
A. 23 September 2010: As much as I am against abortion, I think you should abort it and break up with him. No use being with someone who's s drug addict in the first place since you are sober now. The child doesn't deserve it, and neither do you. Have kids with someone ... (read in full...)
I need to know how do you get a guy interested?
Q. So I'm 19 years old and I've never had a relationship. I really need to know wat im doin wrong guys! I recently met someone, who i'm really attracted too and i felt that the feelings were mutual. I sent him a message letting him no that I'm ...
A. 23 September 2010: Hello! You know I used to be in your position so font sweat it! I know this might seem a little cliche but you cannot make yourself do certain things to attract men because it attracts CERTAIN men not men that could potentially like you for who you ... (read in full...)
Why does he type my name in his texts?
Q. Ok this is going to be a little short but I'm very curious of this. When ever me and my boyfriend text eachother, he'll say my name in every text (10 times out of the 34 he sent). Sometimes it'll be a little more often than that and I was just ...
A. 23 September 2010: Thanks guys your answers are a help!... (read in full...)
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