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30-35,
*tkarsh
writes:Hi. I'm a 16 year old boy, studying in school. There's a girl in my class that I think I like. I mean, I want to spend time with her, talk to her. Earlier, we were real good friends. We used to talk on the phone, SMS, FB chat and all. Now, she ignores my texts, FB attempts to chat and ignores my calls. I don't know what to do. I think of this all damn day.
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reader, pickledegg  +, writes (21 March 2011):
Hello,Well first off, don't worry, everyone has been there. I currently have a thing for a guy I work with, however I just tend to make a complete fool out of myself whenever he is around but it's ok! It's ok because if someone doesn't want to be with you then it's their loss and life has a funny way of working out.For practical advise I would suggest start small. Maybe back of a little bit, hang out with your friends, get stuck in to work/music/sport and have other interests to occupy your mind (it's a cliche because it works, trust :)). Then, and only when you have stopped thinking about her quite so much, just smile when you see her, then after a few weeks, say hi. After that it will flow naturally, she may start a convo with you when she feels more comfortable. It could be that she has a lot on her mind right now and has simply not responded because of this and will feel more able to talk again when she's noticed that you politely acknowledge her from time to time and it will remind her of how much you used to talk. But most of all, and I say this as someone who doesn't know you or your situation, ensure that you don't put up with being picked up and dropped. It's obvious you really like her and only people who really like you back are worth your emotions.Hope it all works out :)
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