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Guys: is this because you liked the attention or are attracted?

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Question - (20 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2011)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi quick question but guys only on this one please. Say you meet a girl out and you ask her to join you and the rest your friends that youre with when you move on to a different place (say met them in the bar but you are planning on going to another bar). But when you part ways she asks for your number, and you give it to her and tell her you want to see her again

Does any of that mean you were even interested in that girl? Or did you just like the attention she gave you that eve or............

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A male reader, Odds United States +, writes (20 March 2011):

Odds agony auntSorry, there's no way to say with this amount of information. Generally, a guy assumes that if a girl asks for his number, she must be *really* interested (since girls seem to expect guys to take all the initiative) - so we know he thinks you like him. But I couldn't say whether he returns that interest, or was just having a good time.

That assumes, of course, you're talking about interest in the sense of "she might be worth dating," rather than "she might be worth sleeping with." He's probably the latter, no way to tell with the former.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (20 March 2011):

person12345 agony auntI guess it could be an an ego thing, but the more obvious answer would be that he's interested in you and wants you number so he can see you again. You'll just have to wait and see if he calls. Or if he gave you his number, maybe after a day or so you could call him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011):

In simpler terms, i just want to know is a guy interested in you if they ask you to go with them to another bar, even though that means they couldn't meet or flirt with another girl at that place, because they already asked the girl they met at the beginning of the night there...

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A male reader, 3yearapartlove United States +, writes (20 March 2011):

lol ok well its different with every guy.. he either likes you.. or he just wants to meet you alone so he can do stuff... it all depends on personallity

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