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anonymous
writes:Ive been with my boyfriend for a year now. Were in love and hope to spend our lives together, but there's just one thing standing in my way! Before we were an official couple, he was with another girl just on two occasions, they didn't sleep together, but they did other things and I cant get this out of my head! Everytime we have sex or kiss, I find myself thinking of him and her together and it's driving me insane. He hasn't seen or spoken to her since we've been together, and reminds me that he loves me every single day without fail. Im quite insecure and just HAVE to get this out of my head!! He's so good to me and I don't want to lose him. please help me forget this!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): ~SAY "NO" TO SELF-DESTRUCT~Take heed to You Wish's contribution, as she's placed it in perfect perspective.Live, Love and Laugh the present and future with your boyfriend. You're his Cinderella. HE CHOSE YOU!God Bless.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (21 March 2011):
 "Before you were an official couple"? Does this mean he say another girl while you two were dating, but not exclusive? You say that he hasn't spoken to her since you got together?
Whenever those thoughts start driving you insane, here's another thought to stop those first thoughts cold. He chose you. He didn't sleep with her. He wasn't interested in her. You captivated his heart to the point where he's telling you he loves you.
You've bought shoes before, right? You tried on other shoes until you found the ones that fit just right and you went for them. In a sense, your guy was "trying out" the other girl. She didn't interest him a bit.
Think about it - you're the one who makes his heart skip a beat. You're the one he wanted to go all the way with. You're the one he professed his love to. You are his dream girl. When he kisses you, he's not even thinking about this other girl for 2 seconds.
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