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writes:Recently my gf broke up with me (over the phone) to then 3 weeks later have a new bf...we haven't seen or spoken to each other since the break up phone call, apart from... 2 weeks ago I was in her town visiting friends (some mutual and some just mine)...as I arrive one of these mutual friend (a girl) tells me that my ex has been acting a little strange and asking about me...How I am Etc. ...a few days later another mutual friend (also a girl) tells me that my ex also asked her how I am and how I seem etc. The week went on an a third girl tells me that my ex asks how I am, where I was staying and tells this 3rd mutual from to "make sure you tell him I asked how he is" :S. That night, me and my friend spontaneously decided to go to the club. We get there and my ex is there with these mutual friends and her new bf! The mutual friends greet me and we have a dance...when my ex realises that I'm there and these mutual friend are dancing with me she drags one of the mutuals outside and screams at her coz she didn't tell my ex I was gonna be there at the same time as her new bf...she started crying and said "it's not just hard on him ya know" referring to me. My ex then went back inside, put on a fake smile and went back to her oblivious bf. She then went on to kiss him in front of me to the point that when ever I turned around she'd be kissing him, and a few times I noticed her looking at me...I think maybe fit a reaction...but I gave none at all!!! About half an hour later her bf went to the bathroom...as he did, she came dancing up to me and half hugs me and says "Hey, Wow!!! You smell nice". We have an chit chat and then as her bf walks in, she says she has to leave and gets her and kisses him again!! The day I left town I got a text from my best friend telling me that my ex had invited him, some of my friend and the mutual friends to the pub...she and my best friend never got and "only tolerated him" for me :s I'm so confused, what is she doing??? Rebound? Reaction? Making Jealous?
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (20 March 2011):
 This is at least the third time you've posted this...
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reader, bella5153  +, writes (20 March 2011):
She's messing with you. Cut your loss. You deserve better. You have your whole life ahead of you, you have a lot to offer and a lot to give, don't let anyone play with you! Cut her out of your life and move on. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011): shes playing games man, lol i feel sorry for her new bf. Just play it cool, go into NC (no contact), dont play games back. show her you are more then that, have more control. Act like you dont care, act like its nothing to you, iv been in this situation before, easy come easy go brother. she will come back to you eventualy, they always do. peace
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reader, savannah1019 +, writes (20 March 2011):
CRAZY.Stay away. I'm assuming this was a long distance thing?1. she's mean for using the new guy as a rebound. 2. she's unstable (maybe from insecurity or immaturity)
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