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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Alright so, I'm thinking I might be bisexual but I'm not sure....This is just so confusing :( I'm sexually attracted to boys don't get me wrong, and I want to marry one, have kids,build a life, etc.... but I'm almost 99% sure I'm attracted to women too. I feel that I've developed, I remember when I was younger I'd think to myself, ' I'd make out with girls but never do anything with them' and now since I'm 17.. I feel like doing sexual things with them.Like I've always had that attraction to women, ever since I was four years old I knew I liked them more then I liked the boys.. But I thought it was only to older women. Until three years ago I've had four HUGE crushes on girls my own age. But I love boys too!It's as if I'm on a fence pretty much. Some days I'm SO attracted to women that I don't know what to do with myself, and other days I'm copmletely head over heels for men. DAILY it's different!Even when I was with my ex-boyfriends, there has never been a point in my life where I did not have a crush on a female.When my friends talk about how to know if you're a lesbian: " Is if you're sexually attracted to girls" but the thing is I think that I am.. but I'm also sexually attracted to boys too. I'm sorry this is so confusing! ): My questions are:Has anyone been in this situation, and you eventually went on one side of the fence? Experiences, examples? Does this mean I'm bisexual or is it just a phase that I'll grow out of? I'm starting college in the fall, does sexuallity get more clear?
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reader, shiori +, writes (20 March 2011):
I have been on one side of the fence many times, but i stuck with women because men can't give you that one thing that girls can. true love and honesty. i dated this guy once he never once pleasured me or told me that he loved me. i am now dating a girl and she treats me like a princess. complete bliss. and yes you are bisexual. no doubt about that. try experimenting with each gender to see what you like best. try guys then girls. see if that works for you.
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