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I just want to be friends

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Question - (20 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 March 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

There is this girl who likes me and she keeps texting me. I want to stay kind of mutual friends and no more as I like someone else what should I tell her?

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A female reader, bella5153 United States +, writes (21 March 2011):

Tell her the truth. Tell her how you feel. You can't go wrong.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (21 March 2011):

YouWish agony auntYou know she likes you? Has she told you, or are you guessing, or have friends told you she likes you?

Either way, start chatting with her about this someone else you're interested in, and it should splash a bit of cold water on her fire. Do it gently and pretend you're sharing about it friend to friend. That'll avoid the whole "I'm sorry, I'm not interested in you" speech you're dreading.

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A female reader, melanie01 Australia +, writes (21 March 2011):

melanie01 agony auntWell just bring the girl up in conversation ask her what she thinks you should do. That way your telling her that your not interested and that you see her as a friend.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011):

Theres no easy and nice way to turn down a girl that likes you. You just have to be straight up with her and say you don't have feelings for her like she does for you. It will give her closure and she will be able to move on.

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