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*ovemeright11
writes:How do you get a guy to give you flowers with out you actually straight out telling him especially if you want it to be a surprise? One of my friend heard me complaining so she went around my back and e-mailed him to buy me some flowers which I thought would work and surprise me but instead he sent me a link online to all the flowers in the world just pictures of flowers so what else can I do since he is not getting the hint when it is right in his face even? Its defiantly not a money issue. :( please tell me what I should do I just really would love to get some
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (21 March 2011):
 Years ago I had a conversation with my exs mum, and i told her that i would absolutely love for him to walk through the door of our flat and present me with a bunch of flowers for no reason whatsoever. Anyway, a couple of days later he does just that, came back from work, shouted 'honey I'm home!!!' and presented me with these flowers!!! I was thrilled, but i never actually found out if his mum had told him what i'd said to her, or if he had thought of it himself!
I would love a guy to buy me flowers right now though, even though i don't have a guy in my life LOL
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reader, bella5153 +, writes (21 March 2011):
I would totally drop it. If I want flowers, I'll go buy myself flowers and when he sees that I love flowers and if he likes me, he'll go out of his way to get me flowers to show me he's interested and that he cares about me. People do things because they want to, out of the goodness of their hearts, not because they have to, not to get anything back, but because they want to...that's when it's genuine.
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reader, melanie01  +, writes (21 March 2011):
 Hint it. When you go out make it a point to pass a florest and comment on how nice the flowers are. He'll get the picture if he doesn't then go out and buy a vase.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): Hahaha men wont ever get hints. They wont. My amazing GF hinted to me she wanted some a while back by saying "oh you dont have to send me flowers, they would rot by the time they got here"... which made me send them lol. I picked up on a lil hint but if he doesnt get it, he doesnt get it. He should think of that stuff on his own anyhow, especially if he knows how to treat a lady.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (21 March 2011):
 Pick the flowers you would like from the website.
Copy/Paste the flowers you would like and send him the pics and maybe he'll have them sent to you.
Guys don't want to come off as looking goofy.
Keep it discrete and I'm pretty sure you'll get your bouquet.
Don't forget to thank him too.
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