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writes: Me and my boyfriend have sex a few times a week which is satisfying for both of us.It was only today when we were 'getting in the mood' I realised, he has never given me oral!While i give him oral often to get him in the mood (whether i enjoy it or not!), he tries to avoid giving it back at all costs.He has done it to previous girlfriends but says he didnt enjoy it and will therefore not even TRY to give it to me. how can i get him to man up!?
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reader, LustyLisa  +, writes (21 March 2011):
He's immature and a bit self centered. However, I'm not a fan of forcing people to do what they don't want to do. He's made up his mind that he didn't like it based on past experiences. So, until he has a change of heart all you can do is explain to him that it would mean allot to you if he'd try again for your benefit. But if he can't, he'll have to understand that you will be withholding oral pleasure from him since it's going to breed resentment on your part for him to accept pleasue that he's not willing offer you in return. Maybe once he's given a little perspective, he'll understand what it's like not to receive!
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