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writes:help i dont know what to do!!! I feel like I am going crazy!! Okay so me and my boyfriend are reconnecting sexually and im trying to be more open to his needs and its been well so far, i know he enjoys porn and so do i (not as much) so most of the time we have sex we watch porn, Im okay with this, although sometimes the movies he likes are not always my frist pick we work with eachother, afew months ago while having amazing sex he asked me if he could look at a few of my friends pictures online, and i said sure, i know he wouldnt do anything with them, and that really turned me on. I countinued to allow him to look at girls from online, websites etc, but here is the problem, just last night we had been drinking and smoking and again duting sex he asked to look at my bestfriend and i let him (i dont know if it was the heat of the moment thing or what)but i did let him and it really did turn me on so much but after I finished and he did Iam so mad at him, I feel so hurt that of all the people in the world why her, I feel like im more than fare and allow alot more than most girlfriends would, but he still takes it to the next step, but i did allow it. Why do i feel this way and am i crazy??? please help me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011): You're trying too hard. What you going to say when he wants to introduce a third person into your love making? After all that is what you are allowing now with these pics!!
Next time, ask to look at pics of his male friends. Or better still dump him for a real man who will make the effort to meet your needs and his in a loving mutual relationship.
If my man asked to look at pics of my friends during sex, he'd be kicked out of the door. FORGET THAT!!
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