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writes:So, i don't really know where to start with this question...I'll try and make it as short as i can!I'm 16, and for as long as i can remember I've had a crush on my neighbor who used to live across from me with his partner (i don't think they're married) and his 3 year old daughter. He's around 35 i believe and about a month ago, he and his partner split and he moved out into his own apartment. So here's the real problem I'm having: we were pretty close to begin with. I used to see him a lot and we talked almost every day over Facebook when he lived across from me, about a month before they split. My best friend and I were talking to him over Facebook and he explained how he was babysitting his daughter while his wife was out..keep in mind that he lives across from me so we both could constantly see each other through the window.But he was acting really strange. He had his shirt off and kept coming to the window and waving etc. Anyway, i was talking to him last night over facebook and he invited me round to his apartment for a coffee. The thing that I'm so confused about is that I've liked this guy for as long as I can remember, but ever since I had the choice to get to know him better....i don't want to. Obviously i know there's a huge age difference and I definitely don't want anything to happen between us but why am I suddenly just thinking..no, i can't take up his offer when I've wanted this to happen for SO long?!Also, is he just being friendly or is this something I should be concerned about?..he knows of my age but yet still asked me round?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): Now you understand why most fantasies are best left that way. The reality is almost never the way it seems in your head.
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