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writes:Ok,It would be extra helpful if some guys could answer this question,if you had a video of you and a girl having sex,would you show it to anybody-I've been seeing this guy and he's been knagging me to make a video with him for about a month now,he swears blind he wont show it to his mates but I'm terrified of this happening and it makes me nervous that he is so desparate to make one.If it makes a difference I don't know if he is using me for sex ,he says he isnt and I want to trust him but I think even if he does like me,there are other girls.Also he is in his 30's,if that makes a difference.He is very proud of the size of his manhood and I'm scared he would show the video to his mates to show off his size-or would he not do that(he is not bisexual,but I know how guys like to brag lol)I need answers quickly as I'm seeing him tonight and I kind of promised him I'd do it!Thankyou in advance for your help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): Well it's obviously that you're worried about being taped. Then don't. Me myself wants a tape of me and me fella as we're getting married and living apart. This is killing us so a tape would help. But for sure, i keep the tape not him!
2 things you must be sure, what kind of guy is your man? and if he's a jealous type, he will never let the other man see his girl naked. Anyway, be careful with any decisions you make! But well, i still think you should not do it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): Don't do it we just show our mates.. So if you want his ugly mate(s) to see you in all your glory going at it then go for it..
If you break up it will go viral, unless he joins a church commune lol
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (21 March 2011):
 If you don't mind being part of amateur porn websites you can go ahead. I don't, but it isn't for everyone, trust me.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (21 March 2011):
 Please dont put yourself in a position where someone has that type of power over you, if you leave him it will be all over the net before you know it!!
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (20 March 2011):
 Only make a video with him if you are ready for the whole world to see it.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, ReturningtheFavor +, writes (20 March 2011):
dont do it, it will get out at some point. learn from other womens mistakes. we will show it by accident or when we are drunk or someone will find it and put it on the internet, this is always a bad idea
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011): I wouldn't show anyone till you dumped me... then, odds are really good it would go viral. DON'T DO IT!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 March 2011):
Of course he won't show it - until he dumps you or you dump him. Then it'll get everywhere.
Don't do it.
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reader, Flashtony +, writes (20 March 2011):
you can't trust him, don't do it, you'll regret it later. he has ulterior motives... please believe me.!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011): If or when indeed you two are over, how are you going to feel knowing he has this tape of you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011): Do you want to unintentionally end up an internet pornstar?
If the answer's no, then don't do it. Simple as that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011): Noooooo! Stop right there. If you have questions about this guy's motivation, you certainly don't know him well enough to take this step. As soon as he has that video, you have no control over what happens to it. What happens when the relationship breaks down, and he puts the video online? What happens if he sells it to make money? How will you face your friends, your parents, and your colleagues, knowing that your private life is all over the internet?If this guy cared about you, he'd be responsive to your feelings and would never ask you to do something that could risk your career, destroy your relationships with your family and friends, and cause you so much embarrassment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011): Google Kim kardashian sex tape or Paris Hilton sex tape or miss universe sex tape. Do you think any one of these women fought this leak? The last thing you want is this thing surfacing in your life years later and being used as black mail. Better safe than sorry.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (20 March 2011):
 Google 'ex boyfriend naked pics' and see what happens, you say you aren't sure if you can trust him, that is your intiution speaking, listen to it, dont let him do this, please dont, please at least wait until you are married and you can have a reasonable expectation he will respect your feelings ..... this just is not good, please think very, very carefully.
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