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writes:Dear Aunts and Uncles : )So... Through my best friend Sarah I met some really lovely guys because she worked with one of them, although he has since gone travelling. I met a guy Will who I quite liked and after a couple of nights out we went home together, and whilst we didn't have sex stuff did happen although he had only just come out of a relationship and has since got back together with her (bit of dick by all accounts). At the same time his friend Mike started to like Sarah, he asked her out and she said no. Now her ex is back on the scene too. Meanwhile Mike and I have spent a lot of time together and we are pretty close. He has talked to me about his feelings for Sarah, and also confided in me deeper feelings about other things in a way he hasn't with her. I find myself wondering about him and me. I think I like him. Trouble is he still likes Sarah (she isn't interested in him). But at the same he is so lovely to me and takes an interest. I should mention that he has slept at mine a couple of times because he lives quite far away, in a platonic way. Although we cuddle a lot and very closely, more so than friends of the opposite sex usually do according to my friends. At times I really want to just kiss him. These feelings began before Will was horrible to me, and they are different from my feelings towards Will. With Mike I get butterflies whereas I didn't with Will. I don't want you to think I'm easy for letting them sleep over. In all honesty when things began with Will it was the first time I've opened up to a guy since I came out of an abusive relationship three years ago. I don't know if I have these feelings simply because he is really caring and he's there or if it means something more?? I certainly don't want to mess up our friendship because we're close and it's lovely having him to talk to. Grrr, please advise me aunts and uncles!! Thanks LD xxx
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reader, KeighleySky +, writes (20 March 2011):
 He likes you, thats for sure but maybe its just a friendly way. Or maybe he's just a little confused.
Id give it a bit more time if i were you, he has to realise himself that hes never goin gto be with this sarah because shes just not interetsed in him.
im nto sure what to tell you, he may withdraw from your friendship if he thinks hes leading you on. Just giev him a bit of time, he may realise he actually likes you.
i hope ive help :)
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