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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I apologize to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4923 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) age 26-29 - a few weeks ago a boy cousin(same age) came to visit and he brought along his cat wich he loved,so anyway we decided to play a made up game of blind folded hide and seek in the living room,so we played a while and then it was my turn so i went around trying to find him,then i ... (142 words)

Not going to college: smart or dumb?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid..this has nothing to do with sex, or love, or relationships. This is a question about college. Im gonna be a senior in a few weeks and my goal in life is to become an ultrasound technician. I dont want to go to college because i see it as a waste of time. I just want ... (85 words)

I have a lovely boyfriend but such low self esteem that I don't feel worthy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i am 22 years old and i am suffering with really low self esteem. I have no confidence at all and i always feel so ugly compared to my friends. Whenever i see photos of myself i feel so down because i just wish i could feel pretty and look like some of my friends but i just ... (219 words)

Have you never had a girlfriend because you're too picky?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) age 41-50 - I have a serious question for men who have never ever had a girlfriend in their life. I'm noticing a serious pattern between you guys. Why are you guys so picky? I was playing matchmaker for some of my male "never had a gf in their life" friends and the men had this long ... (190 words)

Risk it all? Or keep feelings to myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, I'm hoping you can help me. I have been crushing on this guy for the past 10 months. I think that he likes me too but the problem is that we're both in very comitted relationships. Neither of us have children. I'm anxious because I have spent the last 10 months cu... (154 words)

Why does my husband insist he still loves me though he has left me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age - My husband of 10 years left me suddenly without ever having told me he was unhappy. In fact, he always told me he was happy and even now says he still "loves me." I have no idea what he means by that. He initially was in love or lust with a woman he met who said he said fit... (263 words)

Do all girlfriends steal from their boyfriends?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My favorite soft drink is Mountain Dew and I have a Mountain Dew T-shirt. After my girlfriend came up in my room and when I wasn't in my room with her, I think she took my T-shirt. I'm not 100% sure she took it, but my T-shirt has been missing for a while and I seen her wear a ... (105 words)

He went too far, and freaked me out, but I miss our friendship..!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok this is kinda of longish story but I’ll try and cut it down. Basically I went to a end of exams house party last Saturday and I got a bit drunk and so did my friend (who I will call Sarah) and we decided to play “black, white, brown” and basically we had to kiss a black, ... (591 words)

How can I make her believe in me and in us ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hey,am well im 36 and my girlfriend is 25.She already a single mother of a boy.she was betrayed in the last relationship and the father wanted nothing to do with her son.She is 10 weeks pregnant,and she knew for a few weeks and was afraid to tell me after the last time .She ... (254 words)

Am I Pregnant ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i miss my period in june and its now july and my period has not arrived as yet.... i took a preg test on friday and its negative..do u think even though it negative at that time i'm pregnant?...... (39 words)

He talks to me the exact same way he talks to other girls. I thought I was special. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im talking to this guy that i met on a chat, and well hes sweet and we get along pretty well. He told me he likes me alot and i do too but he hasnt really asked me to be his girlfriend. But he talks to so many other girls too. I dont understand because he makes me feel ... (96 words)

My sex drive is much higher during that time of the month. Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 and have noticed that I am so much hornier when I have my period. It's awfffuullll....... Do other women experience this? Men, do you recognize with the women you're with? Thanks for anything. :)... (43 words)

How can I create the right moment to ask her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys so I like this girl but I don't seem to be able to ask her out. As most of you probably know you want to wait for the right moment but it just hasn't come, there has always been something in the way. So how can I create that moment? Also what should I say?... (57 words)

He says he doesn't want to get married again, but then will talk about "our wedding" all the time. What does he want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together just around 2 years now. Of that two years we have lived together over a year. He is only a few years older than I; we each have a child from previous relationships. However, he has been married and divorced for over a year now. I have ... (318 words)

I feel completely guilty about something terrible that I did to a friend of mine. How can I make things right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age - I am in my late 40s and married with almost adult children. I did something terribly wrong to a very good lady friend of mine about 20 odd years ago. She was a genuine friend and a well wisher and I sort of stabbed in her back with my selfish behaviour. I still do not know how ... (126 words)

This girl is being completely flirty with me, and my girlfriend is totally jealous. How should I smooth things over with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing a girl from work for a couple of months now but due to her living circumstances we have decided to be as friends until she is able to get a place of her own. We do kiss, etc and have been intimate and hope to have a future together. A couple of weeks ago, on... (411 words)

I feel completely alienated at my new job. How can I break through?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why are the girls at my workplace so horrible:( i feel upset? i got a new job 3weeks ago. i work with 5 other girls on my department. none of them have made ny attempt to speak to me. all they do is stand there and talk among themselves. and is obvious they're talking ... (215 words)

I've never been in a relationship, and I'm worried that I'm too small. Can I get someone's opinion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a question to all the gay guys (straight women as well) out there. What do you consider a "short dick?" A penis that is too small to give pleasure during penetration. I'm a 16 year old closeted gay guy and I've never been in a relationship. But I assume that I may be ... (142 words)

I'm worried people aren't seeing the real her...she even wears colour contacts! What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - My best friend wears coloured contacts that make her dark brown eyes, hazel. She said she wears them because they make her feel sexy, mysterious and more attractive. Which i agree, when she wears them even i'm intimidated by how hott she looks! She has dark hair and olive skin, ... (236 words)

I know there's other fish in the sea, but I still can't seem to get over her. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4924 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I know my coworker is not into me even though she acts like she is. We work retail, temporary jobs for both of us, but she is 5 years older than me. She acts like she's into me, all the signs are there, but when we hang outside of work alone nothing happens, its just like we're ... (199 words)

I think he drinks a bit too much, but I'm not sure how to bring this up without seeming like a nagging girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm worried about my boyfriends drinking habits as I'm not sure what is normal. I grew up in a non-drinking household - only drinking the occasional glass of wine when out with friends, very rarely drank at home on a normal night in. My boyfriend on the other hand drin... (300 words)

My doctor put me on anti-depressants, and I'm noticing my sex drive is THROUGH THE ROOF! How can I counteract this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am so frustrated right now. I've been feeling really down for a while and finally talked to my doctor about it a few weeks ago. He started me on an antidepressant called citalopram (aka celexa) and set me up with a therapist. There are a few things bothering me which led ... (266 words)

Am I asking for too much from my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel as though I married the wrong guy. Background check. I'm a quiet person, dislike publicity and really wanted someone calm and understanding for a hubby. Don't get wrong he isn't all bad but when he shouts, gets angry over small issues, he's reaction to people otside gets ... (133 words)

Is there any point to dating and relationships if you are infertile?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My partners ex, was fertile and had children for my partner. I am infertile and cannot have any children. My partner seems okay with this, but his mother told me that I should do the right thing and leave him, so he can have a family and be happy with a (I quote) 'normal and ... (173 words)

I want his feelings to be spontaneous, not deliberate

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married and my husband really loves me. to me, if you love somebody, you spontaneously start not to like the other males, spontaneously don't find any of them handsome or attractive. Love is like that for me. Thaank god, my husband thinks the same and he never finds any ... (208 words)

Mistakes in the past are getting in the way of this new relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear All! Please help me. Please tell me your opinions about my following problem. And please,if You can, suggest me something. What do you think, how can I get rid of my big big big problem? I am 19. I have already had 4 boyfriend. I first started living sexual l... (659 words)

Asked her to come out and she said maybe, ask her again or let it be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So I asked my coworker last weekend if she wants to come out with me this weekend to this bar that I'm going to. We are friends but I suspect she may like me a bit (I like her too). She said she would come but she may have a previous engagement she may have to attend so not to ... (164 words)

He's 18. Am I expecting too much? We broke up. Not sure what to do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i broke up saturday, because on thursday and friday he was with his friends, and they partied. he really doesn't hangout with his friends a lot. Nor party a lot. he wasn't texting me like he use too. so i got mad and assumed he was cheating. Because he didnt te... (231 words)

Do you guys have any good tips on lasting longer? And reducing my performance anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Firstly, I have been with two partners, and the first was a bit of a bad experience but the second one was a lot better, and when we first started sleeping together after the first few times of nerves I was fine and the sex was great. However, after so long my ability to last... (264 words)

Ten years together. But he cheated for 2 years. Is this guy worth fighting for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age - I dated a guy for 10 years and in the last 2 years he was seeing another women behind my back, to which he got caught. He lied about seeing her and still does. He has not contacted me since the split, which is a month. Is he worth fighting for?... (51 words)

How to make new friends and navigate the racial issue in my new school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I meet new friends in my new school? Next year I am going to be in a new sixth form in the UK and it i completely different compared with my old school even though it is only 10 mins walk away. I will be a boarder in there which means I will live in there 24 hours an... (299 words)

Is this normal with a serious crush?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have just met a guy I really like and am starting to date. I have all the symptoms of a serious crush - butterflies, nervous excitement, restless.. However, I've noticed something strange. Over the past few days I haven't eaten nearly as much as I normally do. This isn't be... (104 words)

How do we approach our daughter about her relationship with an older guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Help, we need advice on what advice to give our daughter. Our daughter just turned 16, and we've finally allowed her to date. She has gone out on group things with both guys and girls, but we've just allowed her to 'single' car date. Problem is this guy she likes (he's already ... (316 words)

How do I get intimate when I have no experience ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm twenty three years old and with my first ever boyfriend. i am also his first gf and I want to start getting intimate with my bf a bit more physical we talk about it but I'm proper nervous incase I'm not very good just wondering how you toss a guy off? ... (52 words)

Feel worthless over Boyfriends cruel comment.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend said to me while drunk tonight "you cant even have children what good are you??" Now I am in tears, it hurt me so bad. I feel like giving up now. He made me feel more worthless then I already do... (43 words)

Is he actually into me or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and this guy is 20. Let's call him John. So, I've known him for about 7 months now and we talk every single day.. There's a few days where we don't talk but overall, were always conversing. I think that's cause we both have BlackBerries and its so easy to talk on Black... (587 words)

He's been off with me ever since we got back together after our break, so much so people are starting to think he hates me! What is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay..so i'm going on with this amazingly intelligent and super genius guy and we both are kinda in love since a year.(we had a small break of 2 months cos he was scared to talk to me cos of threats)..he's extremely busy with a lot of work in hand..and he's the saviour kinda ... (196 words)

I'm having sex with my best friend's married father who is 54!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

7 July 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Basically, i am having sex with my bestfriends dad. I am 25 and he is 54. He is still married and has been for 27 years. His wife is 58 and he says she dows not share the same sexual desire as he does. It all began 3 month ago when i stumbled outside my house drunk. He was pass... (201 words)

B/f going away for 13 weeks. How can we keep our bond strong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy will be gone for thirteen weeks on a job trip. It's a big opportunity and I'm proud of him :) I know I'll miss him though and I have my fears. I fear he'll fall for someone there and maybe forget me. I don't know what to think, we've been dating for a year and a half and ... (178 words)

Am I right in not wanting to be just friends with him after everything or am I just being a bitch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I ended things with a guy, after about 4 months of seeing each other, mainly because I felt he wasn't all that into me anymore and I wanted to save myself from dragging it out and ending up getting seriously hurt. He only agreed to see me when he'd been drinking or when it was ... (1608 words)

The difference between a crush and a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - What's the difference between crush and boyfriend ??... (8 words)

Ex of 3 years ago wrote me and apologized. Now what?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I was so happy when the guy that broke up with me almost 3 years ago, finally kept in touch with me again. My heart was so pounding and I can't believe my eyes when I read his long email to me yesterday. He said that he was sorry for his attitude, to shallow and selfish. But I ... (73 words)

My husband's ex still visits at our house and asks for things!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Thank you every body. Though i surpass the confusion that bothers with me before, pertaining to my husband ex-girlfrend situation, for almost a year i am annoyed and still bothers the situation hence his ex continually visits at our home and ask things such as cleaning items, ... (192 words)

Fingering in the dark bathroom, did she squirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So i was fingering my gf in the bathroom. i was using my thumb facing forwards while kissing her. when it got really intense my hand start getting wet i stopped and checked but the light was really dimmed so i thought she was really wet. so i started again and it happened again ... (99 words)

Have I blown any chance for reconciliation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dated a fantastic guy for a month or so. We had great chemistry, and everything was going great (didnt have sex). Suddenly he behaved different, and rearranged our dates til other days than we planned and so on. He said it was because of school, but I was never ceratin.. He ... (595 words)

I need to get over my trust issues!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have trust issues due to my mother being unfaithful with my dad, resulting in them divorcing two years ago. Now i am 18 and in a relationship with a girl that i love. However, I feel i cannot trust her and i think it is due to my mum. I know i should be able to trust her.. Wh... (64 words)

I want my husband to be a friend, but we're like roomates

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4923 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am very much frustrated from my life after marriage cause I am very fun loving girl, i am well qualified and so married with this type of guy but he is very unromantic and calm. he is not showing interest in anything, he is caring for me but as a responsibility only. I ... (134 words)

Is he blanking me because I'm missing his birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I have a wee problem and i know it might sound like nothing but i am getting very frsuted over it and i feel really hurt reguarding the situation :( I have been best friends with this guy lets call him "pete" for over 5 years now. I have always been at his birthday... (680 words)

Want to make a new start to find a partner but how to decide where?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - After a LOT of thought over a LONG time, I have decided that I need to move away. I have been single for a long time and while happy with myself I do want to find somewhere to share my life with. Unfortunately because I do not want children, this is much easier said than done ... (268 words)

My fiance is demanding I have a DNA test, even though I only cheated once back in 2010!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, Me and my fiance are expecting our 1st baby. He wants a DNA test, just because I messed around just 1 time and that was last year (2010)! IT'S A NEW YEAR! I mean, he's actually "insisting" that i get a DNA test... I just got pregnant since me and him moved in toget... (143 words)

Am I overreacting? Or should our anniversary mean more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It's our 2 year anniversary today and I must say, im disappointed with my bfs efforts. He knows I'm the romantic type and our first anniversary was so romantic, he took me to dinner, brought me two bracelets (one engraved) and we got matching tattoos. Now I know this is hard to ... (237 words)

My friend has a girlfriend but we are starting to get together....what should I do? I feel really bad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I have a problem, I have this friend that has a girlfriend, he has said that he isnt happy with her, we get on really well and I think Im begining to have feelings for him, he has been round my house and I have been round his, on each occassion we have started watching tv, he ... (126 words)

He has 2 kids to 2 different baby mamma's, and he doesn't want me to be the 3rd! Problem is I really want kids and marriage....what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2yrs now. I am 22yrs and his 28. he's got 2 sons with different woman which he was married to the 1st 1. I knew about them when we met but he never mentioned anything about being with the 2nd baby mama. I then realised that he was still with ... (1224 words)

Back and forth between the father of my kids and another guy, what should I do?

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for 5 years with the father of my kids. Everything has been going well and I love him in a way but I think I became bored because he has changed and doesn't do the things he used to do when we met, and in last year I met another guy, and we fell in ... (152 words)

Should I forgive her in light of her situation at home?

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - theres a girl 's' and we were friends for little over a year. i think i have been a good friend over the time but she has not, for example, when i liked 'r' she went out with him, when 6 months later i liked 'p' she dated him. i mentioned that i thought someone was fit 'j'(i ... (347 words)

I don't want to lead him on. But does it sound like my teacher has feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so there is a teacher at my school and I don't call people amazing unless they are, but he really is amazing. I do not have a crush on him or anything, I guess I see him as a friend. But people at school keep saying he has feelings for me and to be honest, I don't see him ... (465 words)

Is she committed to me? She keeps nude photos of herself - taken by other men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age - My girlfriend and I have (as far as I know) an exclusive, long-term, "committed" relationship. I would, of course, be concerned if my girlfriend kept nude photos of other men on her computer. That's not quite the situation here. In this case she has nude photos of herself ... (75 words)

What's dating in university like? Are there any tips that might help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyya, I’m going to university in September and I was just wondering what the dating experience there was like. I’ve had two girlfriends in high school; one when I was fifteen and another shorter-term relationship last year when I was 17. Hopefully, I’m going to univers... (271 words)

Does this mean that all the passion there was before is now gone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married for just over a year, we have been together for over 3 years. I have noticed over the last 4 months that he doesn't kiss, touch, or look at me like he used to. I have asked him about it and he says that he just "doesn't like to make out" and ... (157 words)

My boyfriend wants to get the gifts he bought his ex back so he can sell them, should I be worried about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I know this may sound strange, but my new boyfriend is still in touch with his ex- she is much much older than him and has no family etc so he feels sometimes obliged to keep in-touch and make sure she is ok ( they were together for 8 years) This is understand, as I am ... (195 words)

What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is over in Norway for work and im here in the Philippines to finish school she left on May 12 from here. Well she told me last weekend that the friend she was staying with was getting ready to go meet some guys at a bar but her friend is married; They were trying ... (147 words)

Is he trying to break up with me or something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend just started saying mean things to me like yea you could lose some weight, stop being so needy, etc. he stopped wanting to have sex with me and hardly touches me anymore. he keeps comparing me to his ex's and i don't like that. he doesn't keep his promises anymore ... (104 words)

From experience, when do you kiss a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

7 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi guys I just want to ask, from your experience, how would you know if a girl wants to kiss you? I'm 16 and I've never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. I like this girl, and according to her best friends, she likes me. But I'm not sure when to kiss her when we hang out... (107 words)

I'm obsessed with my professor and he won't be teaching anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a situation that's causing me a lot of concern...i'm expieriencing something I cannot fathom and I'm afraid this might turn into a depression. A Little Introduction: I have this professor at college. A little detail------ he's in his early 40's, and an o... (673 words)

My guy wont stop dirty talking online but I know he truely loves me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i know my husband really truly loves me and after screwing up 3 times already by talking dirty to girls he dont know online says he dont know y he does it he doesnt deserve me and actually cried the last time and i never seen him cry. i know without a doubt he isnt ... (178 words)

What are the chances of the baby not being my boyfriend's?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and myself broke up around the 12 of may, in that time i slept with someone else, however my boyfriend and i were still on and off, got my periods on the 29th of may and it hurt more than usual and lots of lining? came out. Since then we've work things out and i am ... (72 words)

Boyfriend looks very friendly with girls he met on holiday. Its making me very uncomfortable. How do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my boyfriend are going out two years. He recently went on hols with one of his mates. He told me he met afew people there and that they hung out with two girls and went for dinner etc. He added them on facebook and they put up photos of the four of them hanging out ... (200 words)

Is it because I'm a virgin?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

7 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, so im 16 and im dating my brothers friend who is 23. We are very close and have no secrets. He wants to marry me and have me live with him once I turn 18. He has this issue down south and he gets an extremely unbearable pain if he doesnt have sex once in a while because of ... (127 words)

Is this accpetable behavior from a husband?

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - On June 30th my husband recieved a text message from a number he didn't know. It was obviously a teenage girl stating she "loves Logan". So he wrote back, "You have the wrong number". She then wrote "No I do not". In which he stated he was just going to ignore it. So I go on ... (151 words)

I'm never going to find a guy! Is it my size or what?

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so I need help. I'm starting to think that I will never find a guy. I'm a plus size model (fiercely real) and have had guys tell me im gorgeous but never want to be in a relationship with me. Is it my size or what? Its kinda lowering my confidence level. What should I do? ... (61 words)

I can't shake this feeling that I'm not good enough.

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't shake this feeling that i'm not good enough. I'm feel like a failure at everything that I do. I've had some success in my life, and when I had it, I felt it wasn't good enough so I think I sabatoge it subconsciously so that people wouldn't expect much from me. Now I'm ... (227 words)

Is this pain from trying to get a finger in normal?

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - right i'm 19 and still a virgin i have never been fingured ... i have been with this boy for almost a year now and i want to have sex with him so badly but i have tried to fingure my self but carnt as it gives me BAD pain it makes me feel like i want to cry .. i have tried ... (107 words)

Is it me or are they crazy?

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7yrs at the beginning it was horrible cuz he cheated and I forgave numerous times and I think the reason I did was because of low self-esteem issues which now I am in a different place in my life. He is always mentioning how we don't have a kid ... (253 words)

Should I ask her out or wait and establish more communication?

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7 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - OK. Here we go friends. I have a job. I like this girl over there. She is single. I have talked to her 2 or 3 times by now and last time was 2 days ago and the longest conversation with her. It started like this: Me: Hey, I saw you on facebook. She: Yeah you can add me. Me:... (328 words)

I'm writing her one last letter, closing off the whole relationship and saying goodbye. What should I write?

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7 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex fiance about a year ago to date and have cut communication for about 5 months now, but i recently found out she was asking about me. She was asking if i was dating and talked to my sister about how much she missed me, and regrets breaking up but i have not ... (274 words)

I know we're young, but I want a baby! Is this a good idea?

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im 16 and i want to have a baby me and my partner been together some years now and im ready to have a bby i know a baby comes with alot of expenses but we both are working and he's a senior and im a junior. and we have a lot of money saved up because were going to get an ... (69 words)

I need to tell my parents that I'm pregnant, but I don't know how!

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs and we started having sex 2 yrs ago. im 16 and now im pregnant. ive told my partner he's going to do all he can my only problem is how do i tell my parents?... (43 words)

How can I find a female friend to hang out with?

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship question but I do need help. I live in a small rubbish town in England lol. But I want a girl mate. I want someone to hang out with but indent know where to meet one cos there is jack to do here. Like all the clubs have mainly 'special' people in ... (148 words)

If she's not over me, why is she still with her boyfriend?

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7 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I have been broken up for over a year now. She has a boyfriend now. We cut off contact and I thought I was over her during that time. She ended up contacting me and we've been talking and meeting up for lunch every so often. Sometimes while at the bars, we'd dance ... (190 words)

Is it normal for my boyfriend to check out his sisters?

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 22. We have been dating for four years he has younger sisters one is my age and the other is 17. Anyway when me and my boyfriend first started going out we would always go out with them and i would notice him staring at their butt but i ... (204 words)

Based on the signals, how can I get her to like me?

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7 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So there was this girl I liked a few months ago. She is 14 and I'm 15 and we both go to different schools. She liked me back and when I asked her out, she said yes. Then she texted me saying that she wanted to hang out more before we date. We weren't able to hang out much ... (219 words)

Need some encouragement to date again. Any help?

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have taken a dating "break" for way too long. I was dating someone for 6 mos,and he was clearly a bad match for me. I got over HIM in just a month or two, I am just completely burned out on dating! I have lost all my interest to put myself out there right now. I took a... (202 words)

What is good for you when you're sore down there?

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If your vagina hurts will putting an icecube on it make it not feel sore any more? Thank you... (19 words)

How can I help my GF who has very low self esteem?

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7 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend thinks that she is ugly...and the problem is, she's been told this all her life by various sources(including her parents) to the point that she believes it is the only truth...when I tell her she is pretty(she is), she just tells me "you have to say that," or "of ... (134 words)

Instead of being angry, he told me he wants to be my best friend! What's going on?

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys, I need help with a situation I got my self into. I am Indian and the 2 guys involved in this equation are also Indian - one in UK and the other in India. I was dating this Indian guy in the UK and because my parents didn't approve of him - I called if off!... (724 words)

Was abused in a relationship. I want to trust guys but am having trouble. Any advice?

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all.. I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship of 14 months in March. And it's affecting my life now. My ex cheated 3 times (we broke up because of the third). He would laugh at my opinions and reject them, saying they were stupid, etc., and then punish me with ... (198 words)

Could my ex-girlfriend still have feelings for me?

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7 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. This is the first time I've ever asked for advice on-line so I apologise if I start to rabble on. First of all I am a lesbian. I normally don't notice things like this but I've been wondering if maybe my ex-girlfriend still likes me. Honestly, I still have feelings ... (397 words)