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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 7yrs at the beginning it was horrible cuz he cheated and I forgave numerous times and I think the reason I did was because of low self-esteem issues which now I am in a different place in my life. He is always mentioning how we don't have a kid together and that he feel's like he doesn't have a family with me cuz have 2 boys who aren't his and there dad is still involved..I wouldn't mind having a kid if he wasn't the way he is short fuse and up too no good. I am a single mom with a great job doing what I can for my boys and I'm to the point of ending this which I should have 2 years ago when he tried chokin me but to him it's not abuse..go figure! I thought this day would never come but he is making it easy for me when he doesn't call. In a way I feel bad cuz I was accepting all the money and things he would do for me even though, I knew it wasn't coming from a good place and now, that I basically gave him an ultimatum he told me that if I truly loved him that I would respect what he's doing and give him a child cuz that's what he really wanted. People tell me I should reconsider cuz he is great to me and my kids..I swear is it me or there crazy!!
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (7 July 2011):
i would not have a child with this man no way especially if he has a short fuse what if the baby was up all night crying how would he cope then as for him hitting you not been abuse of course it is i would break up with him and find somewhere to live with just you and your boys you,ve got your family you don,t need a man to be happy :)
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (7 July 2011):
 Oh yeah, they are the crazy ones. DO NOT HAVE A CHILD WITH THIS MAN! In fact, why do you have anything at all to do with him? Why is he around your children? Gather up what little self-respect you have left for yourself, and say NO. Cut him out of your life all together. You know you will be better off. You already know that you are doing a great job with your boys. Get anymore involved with him, and your life will become far too complicated. Be strong for you, be strong for your boys. While you are with this jerk, how will you ever meet someone nice and decent, someone who will treat you with the respect that you deserve. Good luck to you xxx
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