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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He keeps wanting to take a break from the relationship. I want to either be with him or get over him! Can someone shed some light on his behaviour?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 months and he told me on the 5th he wanted a brake. so after alot of talking we took a brake for about 5 hours then he asked me back. i said yes and asked y he wanted the brake and he said to see if he would miss me and if he did ... (305 words)

We've been "friends with benefits" for 3 years now, and all of a sudden his feelings have shifted and he wants to be with me and talk to me all the time. Should I just let this play out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had a FWB for about 3 years. I have always had feelings. Usually our sex life is just sex quick etc... most times he is friendly with me but when he is seeing someone else he is little more distant. Lately he has become affectionate can't keep his hands off me. ... (108 words)

Could all of these signals mean that he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he stares at me? I really like him:)? Am new at work place. and my first time I saw a guy there, I thought he was nice. We got chatting he's really nice always trying to help me. He was chewing and I asked him for a gum, he didn't have any. So he said he'd... (144 words)

My girlfriend says I'm too emotional, and I'm worried if I don't change she's going to leave me! How can I get a handle on this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

10 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well this is a kind of weird one I guess, it affects me a lot actually, and I want to know how to improve on it. My girlfriend said to me a while ago that I am too emotional and she doesn't like that, and I can't help but think if I don't change that she is going to leave m... (103 words)

Should I follow my heart and stay with him, or did I make a mistake by choosing him over my career?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so at the moment I'm really freaking out. I have just left my job in Germany to move home to Ireland. I didn't want to go to Ireland, given the job situation, but my boyfriend, who's French by the way, is going to do a masters here and I said that I'd come with him and try ... (387 words)

My mom and I are having major issues, and I just don't know what to do anymore. I need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I need help about not getting on with either of my parents and generally just feeling really down. I'm an only child, I don't see my Dad on a regular basis (once, twice a year if I'm lucky - he has a wife and stepkids so he chooses to spend most of his time with them ... (526 words)

I've taken custody of my younger brother, and we're having major problems. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently taken custody of my younger brother because of my mums mental health problems but I'm finding it really difficult. We're constantly arguing over things like his his homework and he just keeps saying that I've changed and that I'm being horrible to him. We never ... (58 words)

I thought we would end up together, but he blew me off for a booty call! What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4911 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been pretty close friends with a guy for a couple of months (friendly aquaintance for 6 months before then) and I really care about him as a person as well as being attracted to him. He knows that I like him, and while he's never made a move I'm pretty sure he likes me and ... (674 words)

My mom and stepdad are blaming me for their stresses. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently my mum has been under huge amounts of stress from work and the legal issues my dad has cause. Increasingly, I find that I've become her emotional punching bag for every big or small issue she has. Today, I wasn't standing up straight in the kitchen and she freaked out! ... (292 words)

Should I let my boyfriend finger me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to finger me should i let him? Im not realy sure what i want i do want him too, but i no there can be concequences. He is the same age as me. ... (36 words)

I'm secretly dating my ex-boyfriend's brother! I'm worried I'm going to lose him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4911 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my recent ex 3 weeks ago, we were only together a week and a half and we didnt get on at all in that time, unfortunatly we did sleep together once or twice and ive been best mates with his brother since before we got together. his brother is 17 and im 20 but he ... (199 words)

I'm worried he'll want me to go on top, and I feel so uncomfortable! Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4912 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know if this is a bit crude, but im currently single out of a 5 year relationship ive met someone new and i havent yet had sex with them. I worry that when I do have sex with them they will want me to go on top, I don't mind doing that but I always feel nervous lik... (129 words)

Is it normal that I feel awkward around her knowing she slept with my boyfriend?

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10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so last night my boyfriend opened up everything to me about his life, told me his story from beginning to end with what he could remember, even the detail of what girls he dated or maybe randomly slept with and I had no problem with this. I am actually very happy he wanted ... (352 words)

Should I end my relationship with my jobless boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - When I first met him I knew he didn’t have a job or a high school education but I convinced myself that it would change and he would mature. It’s been 5 years now and he still has neither. We have been living together for the past 5 months and his name is on the lease (at the ... (536 words)

Do my positives outweigh the negatives? And am I date-able? And what can I do to improve?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a silly question maybe. I am 21 years old in uni never had a proper relationship (had a very brief one once, but...). Been looking at myself and thinking about what I have or don't have... So looking at bad, the only thing is, a big thing in a way is that I am over... (266 words)

Does my straight best friend want me to make the first move?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

10 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, i recently came out to my best friend and i was absolutely shitting it before i told him. He is so homophobic it's unreal. Everytime he's seen a gay guy he said they should be shot and would fall out with me if he found out i was gay. When i came out to him, he told ... (261 words)

I need help, I really want a relationship with him, gave him my virginity but he's back with his girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this is really long but i need advice. so i have known this guy since i was in the 4th grade and he has like me since then but ive never shown him any attention. so in 11th grade he got a new look and i was really attracted to him so we started talking. but i found out he ... (293 words)

Do relationships ever come out of FWB relationships?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all do relationships ever come out of fuck buddys just wondering as me and this man are having sex and im really starting to fall for him i don,t want to tell him cos i don,t want to scare him off thanks everyone... (44 words)

Does sex with a girl (if you're a girl) count as losing your virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When you ask people what losing your virginity means they usually say intercourse.. so what does this mean for lesbians? Like do lesbians not lose their virginity? And does it mean bisexuals lose it twice?... (38 words)

How can I be more open and trusting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I know this problem doesn't directly have a lot to do with relationships but it affects everything in my my life and I don't know where else to try for help. This probably doesn't do this any justice but I hope it's enough About five years ago my mum died really suddenly... (388 words)

Is he just a flirt? Or worth chasing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy in my office... Very good looking,intelligent and dashing...but flirtatious... I was attracted to him...the first day i saw him...but that is it...i was very much happy with my 3 yrs old relationship... he always tried to strike a conversation me...or get... (316 words)

Obsessing over my ex math teacher

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 14 years old and im a lesbian and im in love with my ex maths teacher. ever since i saw her i new i loved her but its getting to the point were its affecting me as a person. Im becoming ver obsessed by checking her facebook account to see if she has changed her profile ... (195 words)

Why is it when I sleep around I don't feel happy about doing it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently split up with my girlfriend but it was on good terms and we are still talking. She said to me before that she found commitment hard and that I was the only person she had ever really committed to despite her having sex with 3 people before me. Now we have been... (300 words)

How do I stop trying to get my cold standoffish husband's attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't even know where to begin, but anyway!!!! A few years ago my husband left me because I was being a bitch. I was horrible (I don't know why... maybe hormones? Can't explain it) Anyway after he left me I realised what I'd done and what I'd lost. I begged for forgiveness ... (354 words)

Did he act that way because he's bipolar? an idiot? Or realized what he had?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi just looking for a bit of advice. Im 26 and was dating a man for 3 months, we told eachother we loved eachother and everything was good until he started acting cold and i practically pushed him away because i wanted to know why. I do feel like an idiot for pressuring him but ... (339 words)

How do I break up with her kindly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm a little reluctant to post this as I'm "the bad guy" in the piece, but I could really use some advice. I've been seeing someone off and on for the past few months and I need to end things with her. She really likes me and, despite my trying to "clue her in" the past... (206 words)

My gf's vagina seems "loose"; does this mean she is not a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a girlfriend who i love very much..she told me that she was a virgin (she never lie to me + i've known her long ago) but last time when i fingered her, my finger was loose as if she had had sex several times and feels no pain...could it be because of something else or ... (62 words)

Boyfriend and I have absolutely no time/place for private time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, aunts and uncles! Hope the summer is treating you well, as it sure is treating me splendidly. I've recently fallen in love with a great guy and he is enamored with me (he actually said "I love you" and all that jazz first!). It's been a couple of months since we ... (381 words)

Do drunken words speak sober hearts?...or does alcohol just cause regret

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4911 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and a friend had a bit of a previous history of things happening and things being said resulting in confusion as to whether he had feelings for me. He said back then he didnt although everyone said it was obvious he did but maybe was shy/didnt want a relationship. ... (504 words)

Is this guy I am dating online just stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So. I've been seeing this guy online for about... five months now. We get along great, and find each other very attractive. He's quite a bit older than I am, and while he's single, he has children (never married). He does his work early to talk to me, and often leaves me ... (364 words)

My long-distance bf was supposed to come and see me today after being away for 6 months...and he hasn't shown up!! What do I do now??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

- My LDR boyfriend was supposed to come and see me today, after having worked away for 6 months. He was supposed to be getting the train to me this morning; however, his phone has been switched off all day, he is not answering my texts (I know he hasnt received them yet because ... (307 words)

I am 24 and planning to lose my virginity to a prostitute. Any tips for a first-timer?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

10 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Well I'm 24 and still a virgin and really tired of waiting. So I'm looking into losing my virginity to a prostitute in a few weeks. It's legal where I live and weekly STD testing are mandatory for prostitutes. I've given up on finding a girlfriend or a relationship bec... (375 words)

I just don't know how to stop 'trying so hard'!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Everybody. Okay, I screw up everything I do or try to do. And I don't know why or how. I find myself unhappy 24/7. I don't know why I don't deserve happiness. I had a girlfriend who dumped me. She said I 'tried' to hard. That I should stop 'idolizing' her. Apparantly... (112 words)

Does he like me even though we have a long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year I spent my sophomore year at a boarding school in massachusetts where I met this guy who was then a senior. We took the same fitness class where he would always show some sort of interest in me, especially when most of my friends caught him staring, At school I only ... (261 words)

I haven't heard from him since Thursday evening, after I loaned him money!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all at cupid Im sounding very stupid hear but theres this guy who im very gond of he said a few months ago he loves me and i kinda feel the same we get on very well and was even talk about us moving in together in his house, And i know i really shouldnt have but ... (181 words)

Will he ever call me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been knowing guy for sum years, we had a bad breakup, he recently came back into my life, he got me pregnant to soon, so I aborted, we still involved with each afterwards, he don't have to much conversation. but like to do stuff wit me and my daughter he mention us being ... (96 words)

He told me there's no spark, just sex, so why was he standing there completely naked?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all Just a quick question theres this guy ive liked for nearly a year now and i finelly had the courage to tell him i like him, but he replied there is nothing wrong woth me and he knew i liked him there was just no spark there for him, even though we have had sex aro... (188 words)

Should I just let it drop and text him tonight and pretend this silly argument never happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya :) So basically, I want to know if I'm in the wrong with my boyfriend. We're both 16 and have been together 10months. Things are good between us. I don't really have any girly friends to hang around with because I can't stand the bitching - I just have one onlin... (483 words)

He thinks he can do no wrong in our relationship, and that I'm always the one in the wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I had a nice and comfortable talk about our problems. The whole time I listened to him; the more I had a big question in mind. I noticed that he NEVER said he did ANYTHING wrong in this relationship and, so, everything that happened was ALL my fault; I'm the reason ... (178 words)

Why would a man still enjoy watching porn if he was truly affected by a miscarriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd like some advice on how to deal with my feelings of anger towards my bf who has been watching porn while i've been coping with a miscarriage. We've been together 9 months, and I know he's been watching porn occasionally (like one short video every 3-4 days) since we ... (500 words)

Is this pain normal? I am turned on, so it's not dryness!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m I lost my virginity to my boyfriend 2 and a half weeks ago, it hurt a lot at first but the pain then subsided. I was very very tight, i was extremely wet and everything, and my boyfriend was gentle with me. We had sex again the next night, ... (196 words)

I'm battling cancer and boyfriend is on the internet looking at other women!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Im in a big problem, and I need so advice. I got with my bf around 1 year and one month ago. We loved eachother very much, to such an extent we'd never talk to another guy or girl even as friends. We were VERY possessive of one another, it was reallydeep. We ... (421 words)

Successful anal sex tips?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hey, so my bf of a yr and i tried anal sex for the 1st time as both of us had never tried it b4 and were curious, and it didn't fit! He put a finger there 1st (never experienced that before) which felt ok, but when he tried putting his penis there (going slowly, with lube) he ... (111 words)

Do I end friendship with my married co-worker because I am attracted to her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

10 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, my problem is with my female workmate. We are friends, this seemed to develop over a few months, up until about 6 months ago, all we would really do is lock eyes a lot, nothing more, other than the odd 'hi' and 'hello'. She is married and from what i have heard from ... (324 words)

Can I get an IUD fitted regardless of being 19, childless and still a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and thinking about contraception for the first time. Having done a fair amount of research on all types available, the (non-hormonal) IUD sounds the most appealing. I'm wondering if I could have one fitted though - am I too young? Some sources say that the younger you ... (138 words)

Do you think he sees us as more than just friends, if so, how do I let him down gently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone so here,s my problem i have been friends with a man for about a year now we meet up a couple of times a week on his nights off from work and mine the past couple of times we have arranged to meet up i have had to cancel due to a lot happening in my life at the ... (121 words)

How is it that love doesn't find everyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - How is it that anyone can find love, but love doesnt find everyone? If theres someone 4 everyone, why is it that some never find anyone?... (26 words)

I wana come out of my past wounds!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - One year back my girlfriend left me thinking I had no secure future career wise. For that, I still hold some grudge in my heart for but the love is also there. But I want forgive her and move on with my life which seems to have stuck in the past. What I need to do to be able to ... (65 words)

Can I get herpes from being fingered?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday I got fingered for the first time by my boyfriend and it hurt when we tried the first couple of times but then it was fine. He washed his hands before and after and his nails were cut so everything was clean.This morning though I was a little sore and it hurt around ... (130 words)

I need to leave my b/f I just don't know how to do it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have decided to leave my boyfriend justt dont know how to end i cant deal with the getting back at each other or his cheating an talkin to other girls i know its going to be difficult and hard to deal with but its what i need to go ahead and do, because everything he says ... (71 words)

I don't know if I should just ask him if he's into me, wait for him to come around or just move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have been seeing this guy now for just over two months...i know it may still be too early to tell but i have no clue if he is interested in me. We have only seen each other 3 times in 2 months. He texts me all the time but never actually calls. He says he wants to see me ... (135 words)

Is it normal to have sex 4 times a day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This is the second man I've ever slept with. My husband and I had sex four times a week tops during our whole marriage. This man and I have sex more than four times a DAY if we can. I just want to know if it's normal or if it means he only wants me for sex. He's very nice t... (135 words)

What's with the mixed signals?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - well I work with this girl and just recently started talking to her and so i finaly asked for her number and she gave it to me, from there we would txt back and fourth sometimes and she would usually always answer in a decent amount of time. So one day she txtd me asking what i ... (291 words)

How do I avoid being possessive with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4912 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I avoid being possessive with my gf? I don't want her to live with me until we are able to get our own place. Now she has foun a place with her friends and I have mixed feelings about it. I don't know why I have mixed feelings. I feel like I want her to stay with me but ... (69 words)

Why did my g/f chose her friends over me on her birthday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I just turned 25. My gf (been dating for about a month or so).....didn't hang out with me on her birthday. I think she hung out with her friends. I feel kinda down......I hung out with my cousins instead. I really don't have that many friends....and I... (122 words)

Is it strange to walk in town when no one else does?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a tendency to walk through town. many people that know me find this strange because no one else does this activity. also i can not drive simply for the reason that i am not very good at it and would most likely be dead if i atemtet to do so. once i finish my last year of ... (175 words)

My flatmate is threatening to evict me, I feel hideous because of my terrible ache problem and I have no love life. I just want to crawl into a hole and stick my head in the sand and not come out.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - First, thanks loads to anyone reading this. My problem is this: For the last year I've lived in another country. I live with a girl and another guy (they're not a couple) and we're all of different nationalities. They sublet my room to me. The guy is set to leave the flat a... (591 words)

Why marry someone when it seems sure you'll get a divorce?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't trust my fiance. He constantly lies to me, breaks promises, and walks away from arguments and the relationship. We were planning on going through an LDR, but I'm not so sure anymore. Only a week or so ago, we went through a huge falling out, and he was upset I didn't ... (207 words)

Should I try to fix things or realize that my husband will never get over the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I married almost a year ago. Prior to marriage he was in the Navy.. We slipped and got pregnant and he begged for an abortion.. (No way i could do it) He told me daily he didn't want our baby and didn't want to be stuck in Fl. He wanted to go back to his home ... (397 words)

How can I get my fiance to relax during oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age - how can i help my fiance relax and cum while im giving him felatio (head) oral sex. He won't do it.dont know why and he cant cum unless im on my stomach laying flat and melicking his hand as if i was eating a pussy please advise and also i get cheated allot cuz i dont get the ... (78 words)

I'm so confused about my guy friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. So, my friend Taylor and I used to be really close, but we've lost touch. Just kind of....grew apart you know? And lately I've been talking to her brother Matt. Matt and I disagree on everything.....sexual orientation stuff, religion, work ethic, a woman's role (he's ... (244 words)

My man is addicted to sex via the phone and internet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age - i luv this guy he is everything that i want in a man he talks he shares and he is addicted to porn and women. He asked me to help him get a girl so we can do a three some. He makes u feel so comfortable you would want to try almost anything with him, I dont like sharing. we ... (167 words)

My fiance is addicted to internet and phone sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age - my fiance loves women and he talks to women all the time about everything. he befriends them and then have sex with them over the phone. he is addicted and i dont know what to do. we look at certain flicks together but he is too deep into it..what do i do and he lies trust is ... (60 words)

Is he a player or is he genuine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We always chat. Like, whenever he comes online, he'd message me immediately (even when he just woke up). We'd talk for four hours or more. We talk about random things and we even have our own private jokes! However, whenever the conversation takes a serious route about me o... (136 words)

I don't want to get with my friend in case it ruins our friendship, but part of me is thinking "try it". What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've started having feelings towards a really close friend of mine, we've been friends for almost 8 years. He's told me he loves me, like more than friends and we both like eachother but i dont know what to do. I dont want to get with him incase it ruins our friendsh... (99 words)

I don't want an open relationship anymore but my partner has a problem with commitment.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

10 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and a half years. We've seen eachother through really rough times and we do love eachother, but we decided to have an open relationship. I don't want an open relationship anymore though but he has a problem with commitment. He's ... (111 words)