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writes:Thank you every body. Though i surpass the confusion that bothers with me before, pertaining to my husband ex-girlfrend situation, for almost a year i am annoyed and still bothers the situation hence his ex continually visits at our home and ask things such as cleaning items, plants, chair, pillow,etc. I respectfully and politely told her that she can buy what she wants at any store. She is no clear with what she wanted and one day she told us that she now free and just broke up relationship with her boyfriend after helping her painting the other house. She don't want the other house because its too expensive and new. We already consult these things to the lawyer and the lawyer told that the remedies is to sold the two houses and divide the gains proportion to the contribution and the good thing is both houses my husband contribute almost 80 percent and in the end she has nothing to do but to cry. I am still bother for how long i could cope and live with this situation especially now that we are living happily with our cute little daughter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2011): I think the husband's ex is trying to play with your heads and make you angry. She propably still has feelings for your husband and needs excuse after excuse to see him. Does she not have a job because there's no reason she should be borrowing things if she does, especially from your house in particular. You need to file a restraining order from this woman because she's not getting the point that you and your husband are uncomfortable. Exes just don't pop up in each other's life and behave this way. It's not normal so get a restraining order and set some boundaries because she has no right to interfere in you and your husband's lives.Hope I helped, if at all.
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